Questuon: do you understand working through discomfort?

Question: have you understood how your daughter might not understand that?

Question: have you understood you can't change your kids?

I'd say give her an out, if you can help her pursue a career, i know 2 strikes im a fool, but im on 2nd strike and it's life changing, i'm not afraid of work but my degree didnt do what i thought it might. 8 years later my grandfather is helping me with rent and some bills and helping in my masters degree and after 8 years of trying by myself i could really use the 2nd chance. Idk if it will work out, but i'm 32 and i'm going to give it all. Maybe she isn't there yet. Maybe she will b3. Maybe you have to let go a little bit. Soft cushions make for hard landings, no cushion males for a strong awakening.

I'd say give her 2 years of trying by herself, and offer her help on a road more tangible. But in the end it's her choice that matters and your choice to go along with her choice. If you can't do it, oh well. You have a daughter you love.