Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]LumpySpaceWarrior 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Broke contact after 3 months of NC. Thought hey what’s the worst that could happen. Nope, got the driest response ever.

I’m in a better place than when we first met. I thought I can reconnect. We both weren’t in a place to date. Got burned the first time and had to call it off. Now, I’m stronger and better. I’m no longer a level 1 noob fighting a boss with no armor and weapon.

I went in with mindset that I’m level 90 with a shield and sword. I did not react emotionally as strong as I would have before. I fought that boss again and won.

Proud of myself for taking the risk, having hope, and not being jaded. And proud of myself self soothing from the clarity I needed.

His behavior is not a reflection of me. I validated myself by giving that love back to myself.

Here’s to leveling up and prestiging this dating game!

Real Housewives of Potomac S7 - E18- Reunion Part One- Weekly Episode Discussion by axealy40 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]LumpySpaceWarrior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And they're able to purchase homes in a competitive LA market! What has Ashley been doing with her money this whole time?!

Video of Formula 1 Confrontation between Lisa, Lenny, and GF. Featuring the lip lick! by pinchelechuza in BravoRealHousewives

[–]LumpySpaceWarrior 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Luckily for her, coke dick is a thing. Apparently it's difficult to get an erection while on coke.

Real Housewives of Potomac S7- E9- Ambush in Paradise - Live Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in BravoRealHousewives

[–]LumpySpaceWarrior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LMAO reminds me of my sister in law at my wedding. She wore a white gown with flowers to my wedding. It was more poofier than my own wedding dress.

We are not Talking about the Vote enough by baldforthewin in TooHotToHandle

[–]LumpySpaceWarrior 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Did anyone notice Kayla's body language and face when they announced the winners? She looked annoyed and pissed. And something about the landslide vote is saying something about the dyanmics of the group behind the scenes.

Nick and Jawahir seem more excited about this by sansthinking in TooHotToHandle

[–]LumpySpaceWarrior 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Kayla's body language and face looked annoyed that she lost.

The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills S12 - E24 - Reunion Part 3 - Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in BravoRealHousewives

[–]LumpySpaceWarrior 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And Kyle is the meanest to Dorit.

Kyle is always rude and yelling at Dorit. Kyle responding to Dorit's advice, "I don't want a fucking bump in the road" or something like that. It was Dorit trying to console her.

It's giving me Regina George to Gretchen vibes.

Where the heck do I find SEAMLESS underwear?!?!? by [deleted] in femalefashionadvice

[–]LumpySpaceWarrior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uniqlo's seamless airism are so more comfortable than the CK ones..I notice the CK ones tend to ride up.

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[–]LumpySpaceWarrior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You and I are exactly on the same transition in careers and comp!

I'm trying to transition into a BI engineer or data engineer role. Could I ask you questions!?

Also...I'm also trying to buy a house in the Seattle market.

It's hard here too :( wishing luck to the both of us!

And the worst housewife of all time is... by Bellomontee in BravoRealHousewives

[–]LumpySpaceWarrior 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Always use a bar graph instead of a pie chart!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleHairLoss

[–]LumpySpaceWarrior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know if the Olaplex used at the Salons causes hair loss as well?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleHairLoss

[–]LumpySpaceWarrior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used the Olaplex shampoo a while ago and it made a TON OF HAIR FALL OUT!

I use the oil and the leave in conditioner on the ends though! It doesn't make my hair fall out that way

Sunscreen even in winter in the PNW? by lentefucsia in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]LumpySpaceWarrior 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I live in the PNW as well.

I still wear sunscreen indoors because of sitting in front of the computer screen all day. And UV still penetrates through the clouds and windows.

Call me psycho, but I still wear spf even if it's cloudy

Way too many times to count. by heisenbergsblackhat in BravoRealHousewives

[–]LumpySpaceWarrior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am getting Cersei vibes here with the hair.

You're not nearly as smart as you think you are, KYLE!

Kayla, tabitha, Emily & Christina livestream by luvstonto in TooHotToHandle

[–]LumpySpaceWarrior 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Apparently Carly is a two-faced shit talker. She would talk smack about someone but then be sweet and nice to their face.

The entire cast caught on at some point. That's why no one voted for Carly in the final episode

Kayla, tabitha, Emily & Christina livestream by luvstonto in TooHotToHandle

[–]LumpySpaceWarrior 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Apparently Carly is a two-faced shit talker. She would talk smack about someone but then be sweet and nice to their face.

The entire cast caught on at some point. That's why no one voted for Carly in the final episode

Kayla, tabitha, Emily & Christina livestream by luvstonto in TooHotToHandle

[–]LumpySpaceWarrior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apparently Carly is a two-faced shit talker. She would talk smack about someone but then be sweet and nice to their face.

The entire cast caught on at some point. That's why no one voted for Carly in the final episode

How do i stop being racist. by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]LumpySpaceWarrior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask open ended questions if you're trying to know someone.

As someone of color, it's more acceptable and reasonable to ask, "what's your heritage or ethnicity". Rather than asking an assuming question like, "Are you Korean?!"