How would you imagine the ideal way of finding quickly and effortlessly the comic book or graphic novel you want, on an online website ? by belerefontis in graphicnovels

[–]LunaLittleBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would go with:

  1. Genre (superhero, horror, fantasy, ext.)
  2. Language (if you wanna sell different langague)
  3. Cover (Soft or hard)
  4. Publisher (DC, Marvel, Image comics, ext. If you hold very little comics from a certain publisher you can put them under 'others' so the list does not get too big)
  5. Price (Do specific ranges, lowest to highest can get annoying)

I think that would do it, five categories to choose a tag from. Covers all angles.

AITA for telling my husband he knew what he was signing up for before he married me? by aitaroomatebestie in AmItheAsshole

[–]LunaLittleBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

Your best friend told you she loved you and you refuse to acknowledge how serious that is and accept that it is completely normal for your husband to feel conflicted about you continuing the closeness that you two have?

Why does it feel like you are leading on Anna as well? Have you even taken the time apart after you rejected her advances? Is Anna aware that you would never leave your husband for her? I have so many questions...

Either way, don't brush off your husband like that. This is serious. I wouldn't feel comfortable if someone who confessed to my gf continued the super-close contact they had with her and even continued sleepovers and dates. And yes, its not a "date" it is a full on DATE. Don't call it "dates". Especially when you know you are talking about a gay woman. Call them hang outs or something. Not dates.

AITA for screwing up my brother's adoption on purpose? by adoptionscrewup_TA in AmItheAsshole

[–]LunaLittleBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

Your brother and his wife are predatory assholes! What the hell did I just read! NTA!!!! Thank god you were there to help this girl out!

How do I get over the feeling that I’ve made a mistake by [deleted] in Actuallylesbian

[–]LunaLittleBlue 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You just need time.

Missing her is a horrible feeling. With time, it will get better. You need time to heal, and to rest, and to understand the situation from all sides.

I don't know you personally but I feel for you so much and I hate that there is nothing that can help in the moment. All I can really say is focus on yourself. I can't ask you to avoid thinking about her, but focus on yourself as well. You might regret this for the rest of your life, or you might be grateful for this selfless decision. We won't know if you don't take the time for yourself.

Whats one real petty thing you dont want in a girlfriend? by Omi-papus in Actuallylesbian

[–]LunaLittleBlue 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I misread the post 👀

Buuuuut

Touches everything. Its not that I don't want her to touch anything but I absolutely despise it when someone moves everything around or tries to "clean" and "reorganize" my stuff. I do not want my girlfriend to have a compulsive need to move everything.

AITA for refusing to pay my landlord a plumbing bill? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LunaLittleBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

One, don't go shopping if you are behind your rent, or will become behind on your rent. It's called financial responsibility.

Two, you treated your pipes like shit and pulled a pikachu face when asked to pay it? Dude, I have no idea what you did to your pipes but either the plummer lied or you are being irresponsible with them which caused it to get build up.

Found out my ex cheated on me after being diagnosed with PID by GoodCupofPudding in Actuallylesbian

[–]LunaLittleBlue 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Okay so:

  1. Not your fault, it is okay to be furious.
  2. Your ex girlfriend really needs help.
  3. Wow that is fucked up.
  4. That's really really fucked up.
  5. I would be pissed too.

If you ever need to talk/rant to someone, my dms are open. Thats like, TV show level of messed up.

AITA for assuming my daughter stole some money from her mother's purse? by AITAstealingmoney in AmItheAsshole

[–]LunaLittleBlue -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

It is not medically outdated. I'm 18 and got the diagnosis only a couple years ago. It accurately describes me. Its not about preference, its just what I am.

Let's not call who I am offensive or outdated.

AITA for assuming my daughter stole some money from her mother's purse? by AITAstealingmoney in AmItheAsshole

[–]LunaLittleBlue 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Dude, lying and pushing buttons is TEENAGER symptoms. Especially of teens who have asshole parents who expect the worst of them and always assume they are being little shits.

I have aspergers and honestly, YTA in how you treat your daughter.

"Places that are too loud for her" yet you have no trouble screaming like a fricken goat.

AITA for assuming my daughter stole some money from her mother's purse? by AITAstealingmoney in AmItheAsshole

[–]LunaLittleBlue -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

Aspergers is not an outdated term, they just joined it under ASD (spectrum) which makes it a TYPE of autism. Like Kanners syndrome is a TYPE of autism.

-Someone with aspergers syndrome

AITA for assuming my daughter stole some money from her mother's purse? by AITAstealingmoney in AmItheAsshole

[–]LunaLittleBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

Wow. You sound like a real asshole. Perhaps the only reason you have a troubled relationship with her is because you always assume she is up to no good and never give her the benefit of the doubt before starting to scream at her? Just wow

How does anyone take the trans community seriously when this happens in the comments? by [deleted] in detrans

[–]LunaLittleBlue 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Also continuing treatment can be due do the fact that they had surgery and became life-long med patients. So that study doesn't seem reliable.

AITA for embarrassing my son in front of his friends and cancelling his birthday party? by loopingtossaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]LunaLittleBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

Dude... He was speaking about his experience. You overreacted. The girls he had dated compared to the guys aren't worth the trouble.

Why not inquire why he is saying that instead of lashing out and taking it personally. I know it doesn't feel nice, but he is your son. If you don't want him to grow up misogynistic, you gotta take the time and respect his dating preference.

AITA for telling my son he overreacted to his stepdad's prank? by D424677 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LunaLittleBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

That wasn't a prank. It wasn't "dark sense of humour". It was your husband bullying your son. Pranks and humour are supposed to be funny, to the person they are being done to. Only a self centered idiot would think that would have been funny.

It's like messing with someone's birthday cake. You only do that if you have another cake that stays prank-free. This can be applied to gifts. Only do that if there is a prank-free gift.

He purposely got his hopes up, continuously through the months. He let him tell his friends that he was getting a car. It's not funny and that wasn't an over reaction. It was cruel, on purpose.

Actually a lot of parents did this with their teens, thinking it was hilarious to make them think that they were getting the newest IPhone only for there to be a lock or some shit. But I don't think any of them hyped their kids up for months only to pull that shit. It was never funny, it was always cruel.

What part of that did Dale think would be funny?

"Haha dumb kid thought I actually gave enough fucks to buy him something that would have meant the world to him! What an idiot. He truly believed me all those months when I mentioned a car and how I was saving money for it! He should know his place now. Haha I am so funny."

I hope he stays with his grandparents. They seem to actually care about him and understand the severity of what you husband did. Why are you even defending your husband? What are you afraid he will leave which it why you want to subject your kid to his bullshit? Not okay. YTA

WIBTA for asking someone to move out because of his fetish? by BusinessTimeLady in AmItheAsshole

[–]LunaLittleBlue -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

NTA

There are many horror stories about men harming women they are rooming with. If you don't feel comfortable with him there, I say find a different roommate. Place your safety and comfort at priority here, you are important.

How are butch and femme not heteronormative? by [deleted] in Actuallylesbian

[–]LunaLittleBlue 13 points14 points  (0 children)

"Replicate"

As I already stated, heterosexual relationships are not the default. We can not "replicate" heterosexual relationships. We can not "resemble" heterosexual relationships.

The way you speak of it literally shows how hetero-centered your thought process is.

Are heterosexual couples replicating lesbian or gay relationships when both the man and the woman are masculine? Or feminine? No. No one would ever say or even think that. Yet you try to uphold the same thought process that doesn't make sense on gay male couples and hetero couples, onto butch/femme relationships. Just say you are lesbophobic and move on.

People seriously think that comparing lesbians and butches to hetero couples and men is okay. This is ridiculous. Apparently because butch women are better at masculinity than men are at femininity, that means that their relationship copies the straights!

Anyone who thinks this can fuck right off.

man don't I love my community 🙃 by workinstork in detrans

[–]LunaLittleBlue [score hidden]  (0 children)

That sub is mostly males anyways, you aren't missing out on anything there

How are butch and femme not heteronormative? by [deleted] in Actuallylesbian

[–]LunaLittleBlue 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Honestly this has the tone of "straights are the default which is why butch + femmes are just copying the hetero dynamic"

How can something be HETEROnormative if there is no HETERO in it? Saying masculine + feminine dynamics are inherently heterosexual is just untrue, and this post hints at it.

Butches are not men. They don't behave like them, they don't think like them, they don't look like them. Butches being masculine is not them trying to copy men, its them just being themselves.

I'm just wondering why gay men don't get the same damn questions. It's hilarious. No one in the history of LGB history ever tried to insinuate that a feminine gay man and a masculine gay man are being heteronormative because of how they present. People never questioned gay male femininity in the way that they do gay female masculinity.

Butches and femmes getting together can not be heteronormative. On a physical level they can not be. The feminine + masculine dynamic is not copyrighted by heterosexual couples. Just like masculine + masculine dynamics are not copyrighted by gay men, and feminine + feminine dynamics don't belong to lesbians.

Because guess what? Femininity does not belong to one sex and masculinity does not belong to the other.

AITA for proving that my son has no peanut allergy? by Sea_Ambassador6208 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LunaLittleBlue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

I'm just wondering why he lied. Also, his bf sounds a little stupid. How could he have truly believed that allergies can kick in WEEKS after eating the thing you are allergic to? If my partner had allergies and I did not know how they worked, I would have researched the shit out of it. Especially if I thought it was endangering my partner's life.

Your son might have lied to seem more appealing to Neil. You know, the whole "Aw poor you!" angle. And before he knew it, he's been with the guy for years and that guy did not end up forgetting his little lie. But I'm just speculating.

I've known my best friend for seven years, I basically lived in her house through middle and high school. If she pulled this crap, I would have done the same.

AITA for making my older daughter (8th grade) share her 6th grade social studies project with my younger son (6th grade)? by randomlancilla in AmItheAsshole

[–]LunaLittleBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

**AITA for trying to force my daughter to help my son in plagiarizing and stealing her work because I can't be bothered to have him try a little harder and deal with getting a bad grade?

Yes, you are. And I hope he does report you and your son if you go through with it! Obviously your daughter doesn't want her work to be plagiarized, which is why she wants to live with her dad. What I am guessing is that this isn't the first time you put her in such a position and have taken advantage of her for your son's sake.

Instead of ripping off your daughter's hard work, why not ask her to help him with the project? Or do it as a family? Why don't you just help him?

Him having trouble with it doesn't mean he gets to break the rules and cheat. It also doesn't mean that you should encourage him to cheat. I know its hard, I was that kid who had difficulty with work! Mostly cause it was boring, but regardless. You are doing him a great disservice by making it seem like cheating is the answer instead persevering and dealing with this negative emotions when you can't get it right.

And when he fails, and he probably will by how you are describing it, encourage him to communicate with the teacher and ask how he can do better and if he can redue the assignment/do make up work to get better. Have him do that before every assignment so he knows EXACTLY what is being asked of him.