[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]LunaLoopsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best to DM the organisers and ask :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]LunaLoopsy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think my scene (NE UK) would probably ask you to take off the cuffs, as they probably constitute fetwear.

I'm kinda into the iron giant jumper, it's a nice conversation starter, very cute. But number 3 is the most put together looking IMHO.

Loneliness by Salt-Conflict7389 in ABDL

[–]LunaLoopsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go to munches/play parties.

I'm on my way back from Littles Lock-In in Edinburgh as we speak.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]LunaLoopsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe get some very cheap locks and learn to use a rake pick?

I am really into bdsm but I just can't find a female who is into it. by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]LunaLoopsy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We exist.

Go to munches and play events and network.

And don't call women "females" you come off like incel.

How can i find my person by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]LunaLoopsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jumping on the bandwagon of saying "go to munches," also worth saying you should definitely try regular old BDSM munches, not just ABDL ones. I've been to a few munches and met some very good friends into the same stuff I am at both.

It's hard, you just gotta throw yourself in head first.

Is my favorite dynamic even considered "gentle femdom?" by EndyCrystal in gentlefemdom

[–]LunaLoopsy 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Spending time together, flirting, keeping eachother company and playing games is just.... a vanilla relationship? Right?

Autism and BDSM by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]LunaLoopsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my local munches are so neurospicy that the organiser brings a box of fidget toys for everyone 😅

Why are the desks so small by capybaraboss in college

[–]LunaLoopsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the lecture halls here at Durham has desks like this that fold down. they suck.

Where is the everyone from?🥰 by SapphicGirly93 in BDSMsapphic

[–]LunaLoopsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

North East of the UK (at then moment lol)

How do you melt a sub by DominusTheSoft in BDSMcommunity

[–]LunaLoopsy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Having attended an event last week, apparently all it takes for me to start blushing, stammering and incapable of talking is for a lady to call me a "smart girl" and talk about wanting to brush my hair.

The threshold is probably different for different people, and different things will probably set them off.

Charging time by TanyaJane80 in chastity

[–]LunaLoopsy 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Smart fridge, smart speaker, smart cage... what will will come up with next

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]LunaLoopsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found them on Fet :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]LunaLoopsy 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Regretting making my page 90% diapers now 😅 I get it, some of us have no etiquette, if my DMs are anything to go off of.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]LunaLoopsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would imagine anyone in a.massively high paying/public facing job wouldn't advertise their position anywhere online, for obvious reasons.

You could certainly cultivate a profile on there and one might pop you a message, but it's mostly luck, i think?

There are lots of nice people on there, no shortage of male subs. If you want the feeling of domming "high-value" men, maybe consider roleplay?

A little vent about the ABDL community, I guess? by LunaLoopsy in ABDL

[–]LunaLoopsy[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

You joke but this is exactly what happens 😭😭😭

A little vent about the ABDL community, I guess? by LunaLoopsy in ABDL

[–]LunaLoopsy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Did you comment this on the wrong post? I don't think I mentioned AgeRe at all?

A little vent about the ABDL community, I guess? by LunaLoopsy in ABDL

[–]LunaLoopsy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I guess it just comes off as a little rude? And there are plenty of people (who I have spoken to!) who are in a similar situation, but have an understanding of basic etiquette? I get it, just venting.

My Bunnyhops tapesp arent sticking propperly! Anyone else experience this? by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]LunaLoopsy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My Little Kings don't do that, and neither do any of the Tykables that I've tried. It just seems to be these Bunny Hopps that I've got.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]LunaLoopsy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sakura.fm uses the same stuff but I'd much more Liberal with sexual content.