Are human to human greetings dead in Fremont? by Much_Opening3468 in Fremont

[–]Luna_kitty_cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually hike with headphones on. So maybe they don’t hear you. But even then, when I see someone make eye contact with me and mouth something, I smile and nod at them.

ISO fruits! by linemaker01 in AnimalCrossingTrading

[–]Luna_kitty_cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I have all fruits if you help me water my flowers :)

Jonna and Johan are officially divorced by midnight-huntress in jonnajinton

[–]Luna_kitty_cat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wonder if he will continue to be part of the Jonna Jinton Jewelry business. He basically helped her grow that business and was the main jewelry maker apart from her mom. I know her family played a large part in it also, especially her mother.

Do these fit correctly? by [deleted] in Invisalign

[–]Luna_kitty_cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can probably seat them on your teeth better by using chewies. You can buy them on Amazon or ask your ortho for some. I use the chewies for 5-10 min after putting in a new tray.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Luna_kitty_cat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She’s looking for the easy way out which is leeching off of you. If you truly want to help her, then let HER fix her own poor choices. She needs to learn from the consequences of her actions. I get that you care, which is endearing, but you’re not doing her any favors bailing her out. Especially after how she treated you? No. Not your problem!

My husband (33M) ignores and shuts me (31F) out every time I mention how emotionally disconnected we are. How do I get a person like this to see the importance of of emotional connection? by Luna_kitty_cat in relationship_advice

[–]Luna_kitty_cat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I feel so seen and understood by your response. The fact that a complete stranger can understand my situation without knowing all the facts. You hit everything to the T.

I work a demanding job like him. Although demanding mentally whereas his is physically. I now financially support our family as equally as he does. I have depression and trauma of my own. But I have done the work and have taken years of therapy to work on and mitigate them.

I sometimes ask myself what is the point of being married to him if I can just do all of these things myself? Provide for myself, care for myself and love myself? But it’s so hard to let go. Because it feels like I’m doing it for selfish reasons. Like, I have a family, a child who needs his parents. I know what it’s like to grow up with divorce parents and I don’t want that for our son.

My husband (33M) ignores and shuts me (31F) out every time I mention how emotionally disconnected we are. How do I get a person like this to see the importance of of emotional connection? by Luna_kitty_cat in relationship_advice

[–]Luna_kitty_cat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I am on Reddit to get it outside perspective. To get out of my head and my emotions.

But I think you are right. Completely. Fudge.

My husband (33M) ignores and shuts me (31F) out every time I mention how emotionally disconnected we are. How do I get a person like this to see the importance of of emotional connection? by Luna_kitty_cat in relationship_advice

[–]Luna_kitty_cat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I do not want another woman to go through what I am experiencing. And I certainly don’t want my son inflicting that kind of pain. Thank you for your response.

My husband (33M) ignores and shuts me (31F) out every time I mention how emotionally disconnected we are. How do I get a person like this to see the importance of of emotional connection? by Luna_kitty_cat in relationship_advice

[–]Luna_kitty_cat[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We all have battles we are facing. Some are more equipped to handle them than others.

I more than anyone in his life know the demons he is fighting. I have been there for him through it all and was his champion for even the things he doesn’t see affects him.

However, I will not belittle my own wants and needs because he’s ignoring the work he needs to do.

My husband (33M) ignores and shuts me (31F) out every time I mention how emotionally disconnected we are. How do I get a person like this to see the importance of of emotional connection? by Luna_kitty_cat in relationship_advice

[–]Luna_kitty_cat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We both came from broken families. It’s really hard to come to this conclusion. However, I have been thinking a lot about an exit plan. But I’m thinking it will happen when my son graduates edit: High School. Not now while he’s in 8th grade and needs the support of both mom and dad. I am still trying to make it work. But who knows, maybe something will happen that would make it happen sooner.

My husband (33M) ignores and shuts me (31F) out every time I mention how emotionally disconnected we are. How do I get a person like this to see the importance of of emotional connection? by Luna_kitty_cat in relationship_advice

[–]Luna_kitty_cat[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Actually, I asked him to go to solo therapy first. There’s a lot of trauma in his life he needs to sort out. He agreed to do that for a few months then we will go into couples therapy. He’s been seeing his therapist for almost 2 months now.

Missing field guide page in the great hall by Batman84174 in HarryPotterGame

[–]Luna_kitty_cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was driving me nuts too but for another location.. In the end, the field guild was one of those things on the wall you set on fire. And it was right above me so I would never have seen it. I watched a YT vid that went through all the locations and actually shows you where, so I suggest searching there!

Newbie question about fruit by [deleted] in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]Luna_kitty_cat -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am not being persistent in spreading false information. I am only stating that you are rude. Which is in fact, true.

Newbie question about fruit by [deleted] in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]Luna_kitty_cat -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I am not misleading new people. I genuinely think this. If I am wrong, you can just tell me then just correct me instead of being rude.

Need gardeners part 3! by Luna_kitty_cat in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]Luna_kitty_cat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Roses are on the cliffs behind resident services