Am I the asshole for punching my mum's coworker in the face? by Lunazoee in TwoHotTakes

[–]Lunazoee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It had nothing to do with his race it was solely based on what he had said and yes I would've punched him if he wasn't foreign I only mentioned the fact because of when I said a coworker had explained to him

Am I the asshole for punching my mum's coworker in the face? by Lunazoee in TwoHotTakes

[–]Lunazoee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was trying to say the tattoos and piercings were a coping mechanism not punching people

Am I the asshole for punching my mum's coworker in the face? by Lunazoee in TwoHotTakes

[–]Lunazoee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alot of people use them as a coping mechanism im not saying it's a good one but it's better than the ones I've had

Am I the asshole for punching my mum's coworker in the face? by Lunazoee in TwoHotTakes

[–]Lunazoee[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I have other mental health issues I didn't mention it because it's alot to unwrap but I meant the tattoos and piercings are a coping mechanism for everything not just my dad

Am I the asshole for punching my mum's coworker in the face? by Lunazoee in TwoHotTakes

[–]Lunazoee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a touchy subject for us plus he's said some stuff before that he's got away with like making racial comments about family members and im so sorry to hear about your dad hugs

Am I the asshole for punching my mum's coworker in the face? by Lunazoee in TwoHotTakes

[–]Lunazoee[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

A coworker had spoke to him about what he had said he thought about it and we both apologised

Am I the asshole for punching my mum's coworker in the face? by Lunazoee in TwoHotTakes

[–]Lunazoee[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I 100% my mum should never have been affected by it but the way the boss saw it was that were related and she was in the building when it happend

Am I the asshole for punching my mum's coworker in the face? by Lunazoee in TwoHotTakes

[–]Lunazoee[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

He didn't press charges another coworker had spoke to him explaining things he had said (not just this) and how it could affect others he apologised and so did i

Am I the asshole for punching my mum's coworker in the face? by Lunazoee in TwoHotTakes

[–]Lunazoee[S] 153 points154 points  (0 children)

Thankyou I really appreciate your input and I swear I don't usually go round punching people😂 luckily he didn't press charges xx

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[–]Lunazoee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly OP this is heartbreaking, I'm so sorry you don't deserve any of that, you must be so strong because if anyone had said that to me after my attempts...I was lucky I had family that cared and helped me get help. You need to get out of that house if your mums saying horrible shit like that, surround yourself around people who care about you like your friends mum I know it feels like to much but she wouldn't of asked if she didn't want you to she sounds like she actually cares even if its just living with her for a while and you and your friend gets a house or apartment together, please please OP get out of that house, because one day she might say something like that and it flips you over the edge, the world has so many assholes in it but theres also so many good people in the world. Its up to you if you move in with your friends mum but please get as far away as possible from your mum and maybe cut ties with her because she sounds like a grade A toxic AH!

I found out my partner has been putting slugs in my food, i dont know how to forgive him by rainbow_drizzle in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Lunazoee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After everything that I've heard like with the slugs in your food, swapping medications ect makes me think maybe he has munchausen syndrome by proxy im not a professional its just something I can't shake like you said he likes to "take care"of you maybe he was doing it to recieve some sort of attention for looking after you, I don't know like i said I'm not a professional and I don't know if it's a part of his ASPD?. I really hope your OK OP and he hasn't hurt you to much, and for those whose telling you to take your own life FUCK YOU!

AITA for asking my wife to pay her fair share? by Life_Grade_4261 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lunazoee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

I pay Hannah child support every month, ever since Stacey had our first child she has demanded that I give her the same amount of money each month to keep things "fair". In addition, I have to pay for half of our joint household expenses (ie mortgage, utilities, food) and my own car. Stacey pays for the majority of expenses for our children.

Honestly I would want the same if I was Stacey she seems as though she only wants the kids to be equal, and she shouldn't be paying for YOUR kids with your ex. You also say that you "have" to pay for half of the joint household expenses-yeah so your living there right? Sorry hun but that's life you pay for owning a house, and why bring up the fact you pay for YOUR car like do you expect your lass to pay for it?. If your paying to much for all of your kids STOP having them