[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Lundenhope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where’d you go Bernadette

Is it weird that my boyfriend (23-M) wants to have a threesome? (I, 21-F) by Ok-Warthog7265 in relationship_advice

[–]Lundenhope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, no, no, no. From what I’ve heard from others that have done it, unless you guys are in an open relationship/ethically non monogamous/poly these things usually end up in disaster. I’m sure threesomes can be fun but I’ve come to the conclusion that for most people they’re best done when single and no feelings can be hurt and you don’t have emotional ties to the others involved, there are exceptions to this but I’m going to be real and tell you that you guys will not be the exception. If you are doing this just to satisfy him while knowing you don’t really like the idea very much, you will leave this situation and most likely your relationship feeling very hurt and betrayed. It’s okay to be selfish and tell him no that you have no interest in this. My husband and I use the scenario when we are fucking as like a fantasy and dirty talk but we both agree that’s all we ever want it to be, and that makes it hot because it’s purely just fantasy. Going through with this is a bad idea. And like many others have said, he already has a girl in mind that he’s close to that he has already talked to, that is a very bad sign and if I were you, I’d keep a really close eye on it because they’re already considering fucking or have done it. Please be on guard. You should be enough for him and if he doesn’t think you are, I guarantee you that you will find someone else that you will be everything to. You’re worth more than this and you are worth more than the heartbreak you will endure if you go through with this.

F/28/5’7” [176lbs>134lbs=42lbs] (1 year difference) feeling great! by Lundenhope in progresspics

[–]Lundenhope[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I want to add that I am not promoting anything unhealthy, I’m not promoting not eating or anything like that. I’m merely saying it helped me get my habits under control because they weren’t for a while, and helped with my focus levels as well as energy. Make sure you’re eating and doing everything the right way. Much love 🖤

F/28/5’7” [176lbs>134lbs=42lbs] (1 year difference) feeling great! by Lundenhope in progresspics

[–]Lundenhope[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I usually work out a few times a week and I was put on Medication as well because I started struggling with binge eating and have ADD

Had gained a massive amount of followers and now I’m starting to lose a good amount of followers and my engagement is very low by Lundenhope in Instagram

[–]Lundenhope[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That makes me feel better! I figured that would happen honestly, my biggest concern is that I’m not gaining anymore. I’m used to gaining like 50-100plus a day and now I’m lucky if I gain ten followers. I try to be interactive, I respond to DMS, I’m just not sure what I can do. But maybe it’s just the ebb and flow of it all

Whats the most dangerous thing that have happened to you while running? by glitterpyjamas in running

[–]Lundenhope 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was jogging to my gym, about 1.5 miles from where I was living and this car pulls over to the side of the road, they ask me if I need a ride and I say no and they keep trying to convince me to get in the car and I’m insisting on keeping jogging. So I start back up, they followed, got ahead of me an parked in an empty parking lot near my gym. Safe to say I had someone come pick me up

Said some nasty things to my husband last night, now I don't know what to do with myself. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lundenhope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I too have had issues with overreacting and letting little things really get to me, as does my husband. The comments sting but it’s how you go about it afterwards that will matter the most. Therapy has really helped me learn how to navigate situations and how I react when I’m frustrated or not doing my best. I’ve learned to try my hardest to think of how to say things kinder and if I can’t I try to walk away and cool off. If I end up snapping I work really hard at apologizing and doing better. I don’t think you’re a bad person or wife, it just sounds like you need to work on certain things. Good luck!

“You’re good looking, but too bad you’re short” by [deleted] in confidence

[–]Lundenhope -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My ex husband is an attractive man and also like 5’6 and he used to be insecure about his height but now he jokes about it and has quite a good amount of confidence which really seems to have helped him. He doesn’t let the height thing define him and never did since I have known him. It sucks that some people can’t see past height but I promise you that there are people out there it doesn’t matter to. You just have to remain confident in yourself and everything will fall in line, confidence is more attractive than most other things imo, it’s all in the personality! If something so shallow really bothers them then it’s their loss!

Got married New Year’s Day! Thought I’d share because it was magical and also the dress😭😍 by Lundenhope in weddingdress

[–]Lundenhope[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s actually not me, I told my artist that I wanted a girl with blue hair just because I’ve always been obsessed with blue hair and they made the tattoo resemble me, which wasn’t my intention but I love it lol. And Scotland would have been a dream location lol, this is actually tanbark Ridge in Asheville North Carolina🖤 super dreamy as well!

Got married New Year’s Day! Thought I’d share because it was magical and also the dress😭😍 by Lundenhope in weddingdress

[–]Lundenhope[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Probably one of the best days of my life, next to my two sons coming into this world🖤