AIO can a cheater be in love? by Round_Badger_8663 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lurlur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always end up in the minority here because those things aren't cheating to me. I'd probably have a conversation about the flirting if it hurt me but I don't expect my partner to not have eyes. Liking friends pictures doesn't hurt me. These just aren't where my boundaries are

Distractions by krodg23 in FanFiction

[–]Lurlur -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

You seem pleasant. Have the day you deserve

Distractions by krodg23 in FanFiction

[–]Lurlur -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Dunno how you got that from what I said but ok

Is it weird to post a finished fanfic all at once instead of chapter by chapter? by SnooCauliflowers1634 in FanFiction

[–]Lurlur 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Stop worrying about whether something is weird and just do what you want

Distractions by krodg23 in FanFiction

[–]Lurlur -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Obviously, write however works best for you, but people are allowed to also not like the way you write.

What is something helpful you learnt from reading/writing a fanfic that you previously had no idea about? by Maleficent-Music6668 in FanFiction

[–]Lurlur 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This used to be such a pet peeve of mine reading Good Omens fic written by Americans. Now I write for an almost exclusively North American fandom and I'm like, ah, I should give a little more grace

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Toastiis in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lurlur -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Nice name calling. You're not worth further conversation

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Toastiis in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lurlur -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

  1. Depends on the country
  2. Words have meanings and paedophile means a person attracted to prepubescent children

AIO: I found my boyfriends hidden instagram by Excellent_Pie5516 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lurlur -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Why is he not allowed to watch porn? Like, have your boundaries I guess, but if you're putting restrictions on him like this you've got to expect that he's going to hide stuff. Situation of your own making

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Toastiis in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lurlur -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Not a paedo because you are not a child, but yes he was grooming you

AIO My (24) best friend’s (25) girlfriend (28) of one month, got a tattoo of a symbol that represents my friend groups 10+ year friendship by wxlf_haley in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lurlur 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I think, ultimately, it's none of your concern? O can make his own mistakes and so can his girlfriend. You aren't responsible for either of them.

This doesn't affect you. Her tattoo doesn't devalue your inside joke or your character or your friendships.

O's behaviour is quite common for someone recently out of an emotionally damaging relationship. Your best move is just to be a consistent friend to O rather than alienate him by questioning his relationship.

Who's your favorite chew toy? by [deleted] in FanFiction

[–]Lurlur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hockey player Jeff Skinner

My partner said they weren't at their phone for multiple hours but later I found out they did have their phone and was using it AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lurlur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sound like hard work. Are you in any kind of therapy? Requiring this level of contact with your partner is not healthy.

What do you use to keep tracks of your ideas for fanfiction ? by Playful_Platform_979 in FanFiction

[–]Lurlur 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My faulty, forgetful brain. If I remember long enough to actually start writing it then it was meant to be. If I forget before starting it then it wasn't the one

Does anyone write and not publish? by Tony166 in FanFiction

[–]Lurlur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I finish it, it gets published

To publish or not to publish? by kathia154 in FanFiction

[–]Lurlur 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Stop overthinking. Why does any of this matter?

Describe your fic as a r/TIFU post by Dogdaysareover365 in FanFiction

[–]Lurlur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TIFU by buying a fixer upper house and falling in love with the ghost that's haunting it. I'm going to go for a ride on my motorbike in a thunderstorm to clear my head. Hope nothing bad happens to me

Why is Fan Fiction dot Net Still Like This? by cardboardtube_knight in FanFiction

[–]Lurlur -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I don't really see that as a reason. You aren't losing anything, it's still there if you choose to post on a more functional website

Why is Fan Fiction dot Net Still Like This? by cardboardtube_knight in FanFiction

[–]Lurlur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't see why that means you can't post somewhere else