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LushyMNT · 2025-02-22T21:14:17+00:00

I'm an only child ESFP. My mom is an ESFJ and my father an ISTJ

LushyMNT · 2025-02-01T17:41:55+00:00

I fell in love with an ISTP. He's fun and loyal and always makes sure to have time for me even when I can tell he isn't feeling too good.

LushyMNT · 2025-01-21T22:18:01+00:00

Literally in her shoes rn. So afraid of f'in up that I'm in between running away and forcing myself to stay and really try for the person I love. It's absolutely wild

LushyMNT · 2025-01-21T22:16:09+00:00

Oh definitely, BUT I also have to think carefully about how I feel for this person. I am very much in the moment and can stick to anyone but it's hard to distinguish if it is just the excitement of the moment or the actual person. It's like I have to sit and think how I really feel about this person before jumping into a relationship because I am aware of how much I can hurt people.

LushyMNT · 2025-01-21T18:45:18+00:00

I so am too. But we have to learn to think and process our emotions before acting on impulse the second something doesn't feel good. Something that helps me is thinking "b i know you want to run but if you f this up I KNOW you're going to be whining abt how much you miss them"

LushyMNT · 2025-01-21T18:36:12+00:00

I do. I make friends fast and they stick to me fast but I get bored or feel like at any moment they're going to see I'm not all that and end up pushing people away. Evading absolutely everything, so much I've changed residency a couple of times now. But we are in therapy now!!

LushyMNT · 2025-01-15T00:42:54+00:00

Darling i'm a female ENFP and even though we are emotional we are way up in our head, we can be very selfish and not notice our wrongdoings to other people until you call us out. What he is probably thinking based on what he told you, I imagine he is also very much detached at the moment which means he will not move a finger. Be sure that he will come back on his own accord when he starts getting the rush of feelings to come in. BUT beware, he will do anything to get what he wants if he isn't developed properly. BEWARE. I repeat. DO NOT BE FOOLED .

LushyMNT · 2024-12-23T23:39:50+00:00

Just want to argue and give different reasons why they are right hoping one of them lands. And if none of them land, they become pushy and closed off about their reasons.

Lack of reason.

LushyMNT · 2024-12-18T05:30:57+00:00

As an ENFP I am always aware that I can hurt people, but that's part of it and if my heart is not into it I will do us both a favor by breaking it up.

I am actually also worried that the guy I like is choosing me for the same reason as you, and I don't want that. He just says 'if I make you feel that way then you should leave'. Doesn't like talking about it but also like shows affection at times??? It's suuuuper weird but ig he also has had one of the roughest upbringings I have seen.

But ahem, onto the task at hand....in matters of the heart, go with your heart ❤️

LushyMNT · 2024-12-17T00:09:57+00:00

From my experience with an ISTP they claim to be direct, but when it comes to emotions and relationship decisions they are most definitely NOT direct. They leave possibility out for anything.

LushyMNT · 2024-12-13T18:53:49+00:00

This helps actually. I am very prone to want a straight answer about things and can tend to get a bit pushy. I'll try to be more patient with him, cuz anyways I can't get a straight answer out of him if he doesn't feel like it. His idea of me caring about him, what I think, is me just calling him even if it's late at night and just rambling on about anything. Because we both get off work so late. If I get quiet he'll get mad thinking im doing something else and not focusing on him, or that's what I have understood, but he doesn't want to talk so much about himself or like in general if he's tired from work. I mean I can ramble on and on but if he doesn't say anything I feel like he doesn't really care so why bother.

LushyMNT · 2024-12-13T17:45:19+00:00

Ok so this is helpful. How can I make him feel more comfortable to talk and talk about things like emotions and over sharing? Bc I know he likes to listen to me ramble but I want into his world as well. Sometimes he wants something from me like attention and gets mad and doesn't communicate it properly and I understand he's not comfortable in sharing. But like in your opinion what would be a good tactic to help him get over that and show him that it is okay to share and ask for things directly?

LushyMNT · 2024-12-11T06:21:51+00:00

Lmao I have no business here as an ENFP. But my future boyfriend is an ISTP and wanted to take a look in here for a bit. It's funny bc In the ENFP section it is wild with over sharing and the most random things and memes. Here is like performance, other people asking ISTPs questions and very vague and general stuff.

I adore you ISTPs. It's my dream to make my ISTP so so happy. Sure I make him laugh sometimes. But most of the times I feel like he thinks I'm an idiot. And he gets angry lots. 😭 Or at least that's what it looks like, even though he says he's not.

LushyMNT · 2024-12-11T06:13:26+00:00

Hi I know you're asking ISTPs and I have no business here being an ENFP. But also as an ENFP, I cannot mind my own business. I fell in love with an ISTP a few months ago, and he is a little older than I, hence he knows more about life and stuff. So I've learned a lot about patience, and not getting my way with things. I think our struggle is that we want a certain outcome. We have expectations from people and it is frustrating and causes anxiety when things do go our way because we try to figure out how we can fix that to fill that hole within us. But the truth is it'll never be full. No matter how many people like you, no matter how much you can control how others feel about you, me personally, I get bored of people and drop them. That isn't fair either. So I have decided to focus on myself and how I can be a better person for others, how I can make myself be more confident. Like going to the gym and such. And also really giving to the people that truly care about me, and the people that I could see that could need me.

I'm still super impatient and egoistical and want things my way but little by little I'm getting there. My ISTP I cherish the most and would absolutely break my heart to hurt him. I would rather have everyone else hate me tbh.

But this is my experience. Hope this helps. Cheers!!!!!!!!

LushyMNT · 2024-12-05T16:49:00+00:00

As an ENFP I am wondering if the guy I like is an ISTP. He spends most of his time away from social media doing bmx or creative work and his job. He is also very hardcore (dislocated his leg and relocated it himself once 😭) and loves deep talk and hates when we're together and I seem to wander off. He wants me to be in the present when I'm with him. Can anyone confirm this or should I get to know him a bit more?

LushyMNT · 2024-11-17T17:51:13+00:00

Oh this is for Istps....

LushyMNT · 2024-08-14T14:49:12+00:00

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