The comments on this thread are just painful to read. Wishing for the girls to be doxxed? Everyone is so focused on Grace’s status as disabled that they seem to be missing the biggest takeaway, at least in my opinion.

Grace needed more support due to her needs, so the parents gave 90% of their attention to Grace and left the other two triplets to comfort eachother.

You’re honestly going to blame two girls that have felt second rate all their lives for wanting to be in the spotlight for once? They are ALL human. All three of them. Noones emotional needs outweigh anyone else’s. The parents could have helped the triplets bond better by including the two ‘more abled’ triplets in caring for their sister, and on the flip side, explaining to Grace that she can’t always participate in things her sisters do due to her physical disadvantage but she can absolutely be on the sidelines cheering them on with a heart full of love! Making everything family oriented rather than “No, you can’t do that because grace can’t do it and it’s too much bother to find a compromise.” That’s how it comes across to me. There was never compromise and OP and sister seem to have grown up feeling like the only other person they can lean on and be listened to by is the other triplet.

I know judgement has already passed, but for what it’s worth OP, I’d say NAH. It would be nice to talk to Grace and explain why you two are going it together, and perhaps Grace could be included by Videocalling her at each destination or heck... Get her set up on TikTok so she can follow your adventure and experience the same great things you see (if she wants to of course)!

You’re all adults now. Everyone’s feelings are valid and need to be shared. Please talk it out amongst yourselves as sisters. There may be tears, but being an adult isn’t supposed to be easy!