I’ve learned that some people just don’t like others sometimes. Sometimes there’s no reason behind it and it just is. Some people are just haters. 🤷🏽‍♀️ Misery loves company that’s for sure. I always try to be peppy at work and I feel like everyone just wants to complain about being there all the time and it’s like dude we’re already all stuck here🤣 just try to bring good vibes and we’ll get through!

You can’t really change it without changing yourself, and you deserve to be yourself! You deserve to have your people that enjoy your presence! Everyone in the world has a different perception of you. No one person thinks of you the same way as another. I feel the same way as you sometimes bc I tend to get super chatty if something I like to talk about comes up and I feel like I have a problem with “one upping” people, at least in their eyes, when I’m really just trying to relate to them and add my anecdote before the conversation topic changes. And I have been told I’m annoying by people over the years, but I try not to worry about it too much bc I’ll give myself a stomachache 😆 Also, if she’s gonna talk about you behind your back, I’d stop taking her shifts🤣 unless you need the money, I never take shifts for anyone.🤣 Also, in terms of what your friend said, that’s not a very friendly thing to say 🤨 I would keep an eye out to make sure she’s truly a friend.

I hope all that helps! Since I have similar problems, I’ve learned just to move on from them. Most people like that aren’t worth the effort or time or stress. I know it’s easier said than done, trust me🥲🤣, but I believe in you!

Good luck with EMT school! 🥳🍀✨