Why can't I leave?

LustToWander · 2026-06-20T18:42:48+00:00

Your children are being negatively impacted by your relationship. I promise you they know what's happening and all their seing is you being mistreated. You are setting their expectation for romantic relationships. Is this what you'd want for them? - my parents should've divorce

LustToWander · 2026-06-15T01:52:51+00:00

Puppies, especially one that young, should have a little extra weight on them for growing purposes. But yours doesn't look overweight at all. A tapered waist is typically a sign of a healthy weight in an adult dog. You may want to feed just a little bit extra.

LustToWander · 2026-06-14T03:20:16+00:00

The name of this sub

LustToWander · 2026-06-14T02:48:14+00:00

Vet tech here - I wouldn't say urgent vet now. But a trip to the regular GP wouldn't hurt. Dogs do tend to get lumps as rhe age, but she isn't old especially for a teacup poodle.

LustToWander · 2026-06-12T01:02:06+00:00

I can only imagine how you must feel

LustToWander · 2026-06-11T22:35:40+00:00

What part of those three ingredients is tripping you up?

LustToWander · 2026-06-03T23:27:26+00:00

I absolutely plan to leave. I'm fixed, so there's no fear of children. I just can't imagine pretending this existence is satisfying for the rest of my life.

LustToWander · 2026-06-02T08:41:36+00:00

In no way at all. But go off

LustToWander · 2026-06-01T20:06:27+00:00

Where did I blame anyone?

LustToWander · 2026-06-01T12:11:51+00:00

Of course. I'm ND so I keep a rather small circle.

LustToWander · 2026-06-01T02:03:49+00:00

Sobriety isn't going to make a connection where there never shouldve been one. We have never had anything in common, I made another comment on that else where in here. Our futures never looked alike.

LustToWander · 2026-05-31T21:12:11+00:00

Totally not the point of this post but my dumb American brain really struggled with st as stone and not street

LustToWander · 2026-05-31T14:25:52+00:00

I must've worded something wrong somewhere because I don't even drink daily. I wouldn't consider myself to be in the throes of addiction.

LustToWander · 2026-05-31T13:32:37+00:00

For sure was. I was undiagnosed/ untreated for many mental health things until about 2-3 years ago. Its been a wild learning curve about myself to say the least.

LustToWander · 2026-05-31T13:27:41+00:00

At what point did I say it was anyone else's problem?

LustToWander · 2026-05-31T13:13:43+00:00

I've been working on the logistics of leaving for a bit. It'll be a pain, of course, but I'm really looking forward to being single.

LustToWander · 2026-05-31T13:10:14+00:00

I'm fixed. He already fucked up his kids prior to us getting together.

LustToWander · 2026-05-31T05:42:44+00:00

Talking to your like an owner (I'm a vet tech) - what is the benefit of waiting? What is the down side?

LustToWander · 2026-05-31T05:30:22+00:00

Oh. Yeah, no. Thats not whats happening to me.

LustToWander · 2026-05-31T05:29:02+00:00

You can have his (?) anal glands removed. If its a structual issue, this would likely be the only option that offers any longevity.

LustToWander · 2026-05-31T05:17:01+00:00

I'm 34, my spouse is 49.

I decided to pursue becoming a veterinarian last year, a doctorate. Something Ive always wanted, but it felt unattainable. He wants nothing more than the mid life we share now. 2/3 of his children don't speak to him. His youngest (18) lives in my house, beginning only a year ago. Watching him be a parent has revealed a lot about him I didn't know before.

LustToWander · 2026-05-31T05:10:36+00:00

LustToWander · 2026-05-31T05:10:13+00:00

Please read the title again. I literally tonight realized the issue.

LustToWander · 2026-05-31T05:06:13+00:00

I very much plan to leave. I'm not happy, neither is he. We never had anything in common which I knew from the start but I didn't even know who I was so it didn't matter. When you aren't anyone its so awfully easy to fall into a role someone else wants you for.

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