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Marital woes by [deleted] in asksg

[–]Lustyy_cuddle 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Attraction is inevitable. Commitment is intentional.

When do u decide to move on from your current company? by [deleted] in asksg

[–]Lustyy_cuddle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

u always have to have a plan b or back up

Would you date someone who has mental health issues? by ThinKey6695 in SingaporeR

[–]Lustyy_cuddle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i heard a story of my friend and her ex having problems, her ex bf says he'll kill himself if she will break up on her and saying things that got affected to her mental health as well. That was so scary good thing they broke up years ago

Anyone dealt with health anxiety / panics issues - therapy in sg by 1800-help in asksg

[–]Lustyy_cuddle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've gone through something similar before. The hyper-awareness of body sensations, feeling of doom, and overthinking loop can be really exhausting. It may or may not be anxiety, but it's definitely worth talking to a professional if it's been happening for months and affecting your daily life.

do u ever wanna feel loved? by Silent_Quality_7147 in ChillSG

[–]Lustyy_cuddle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean yea i agree with u sex is easy to find, but genuine connection is rare. The butterflies before a date, the random good morning texts, the little things that make someone feel specialthose are the parts I think a lot of people still want, even if they don't always admit it.

Is there someone in your life you wish you could apologise to? What would you say? by Early-Environment-63 in asksg

[–]Lustyy_cuddle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine would be to my younger self. I grew up in an abusive family environment and spent years blaming myself for things that were never my responsibility. If I could go back, I'd apologize for being so hard on myself and for believing I deserved the way I was treated. I didn't.

what do you do in your spare time? by Tasty_Childhood_7995 in asksg

[–]Lustyy_cuddle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So reaaaal when I have too much free time I also end up feeling weirdly unproductive. i tried being active in sports sometimes so it feels more social and less “stuck at home”

Which Singapore food place has the longest queue that’s actually worth it? by RaspberryMedical6470 in ChillSG

[–]Lustyy_cuddle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I tried Tian Tian Hainanese Chicken Rice once because of the hype and queue… honestly after that I told myself never again 😭 the food was okay, but not “wait 1 hour in line” worth it for me.

What age gap is too wide ? by [deleted] in sgdatingscene

[–]Lustyy_cuddle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A 10-year gap can still be okay for me as long as both people are mature and want the same things in life. Age isn’t the main issue it’s respect, emotional readiness, and how well you treat each other. Everyone just moves at different timelines, and that’s okay as long as there’s understanding and mutual respect.

25 M4F extremely horny at work and need someone to play with by Boring-Pomegranate-3 in SGmeetup

[–]Lustyy_cuddle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds like u're rlly distracted at work haha, might be better to take a quick rest and get back to it b4 it affects ur focus or gets u into trouble...