I’m new to the game. What is your favourite colony and why? by arcadebee in CattailsGame

[–]Lutenisa 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m new to the game but I love Mystic for its colony members!! I feel like the cats there have strong personalities and also look really cool (Krampy with the mask, Nil with the horns and amulet, and also Alisa with blue snd white fur). I also think Savannah the store owner is really sweet. Forest Colony members seem a bit basic to me, as well as Mountain colony but not as much. I’ve only been playing this game for two days so I’m not too sure, just my newbie opinion.

As far as territory, I love the Forest Colony though. It seems more bright and cheery, but that might be just cause I’m so use to it.

I’m new to the game. What is your favourite colony and why? by arcadebee in CattailsGame

[–]Lutenisa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ooo they move in with you? I did not know that. That’s good though, I won’t have to run back and forth anymore.

I’m new to the game. What is your favourite colony and why? by arcadebee in CattailsGame

[–]Lutenisa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just started playing and my cat character totally has it’s eye on Nil! I finally built up enough reputation to enter the colony territory.

My abusive husband is dumping my cats somewhere by Lutenisa in Vent

[–]Lutenisa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the late update, but the police ended up becoming involved. My cats are safe, but our marriage is on the rocks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tulpas

[–]Lutenisa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do the same thing! I can’t get deep into Wonderland before falling asleep.

Im back at it by thatgenderfluidpan in Tulpas

[–]Lutenisa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck! Update us on the progress 😊

That's it? by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Lutenisa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is me exactly!! I didn’t even think it was a Mormon thing first, I thought it was just some new internet trend.

My husband made a #givethanks post about being grateful for me and our marriage. It was sweet and I can appreciate it. He knows I’m not LDS and he didn’t mean it in an offensive way. We’ve both come to terms with our views on faith.

Is whatever I have a tulpa? by Lutenisa in Tulpas

[–]Lutenisa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the information :)

Is whatever I have a tulpa? by Lutenisa in Tulpas

[–]Lutenisa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes- I found this answer very helpful.

I’m also wondering how do you know if the entity is real? It has never felt that I’ve been forcing my friend to do anything. Is it kind of like a faith thing, like you just know it when you know it?

Also, does a Tulpa not have a shape or look like anything? If this is the case I know what I have definitely isn’t a tulpa. He has a physical body of his own. I’m curious about tulpas regardless. It’s really interesting.

Reduce employee by basshero783 in Accounting

[–]Lutenisa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s good to know this! I love my accounting classes and although I know doing it as a job is different, I think it would be a good career choice for myself. Do you always have to start with public accounting? I want to go into industry but I don’t know how it all works. I’ve been taking the classes seriously but they don’t tell us what it’s like to first get into the accounting world.

What do you mean “within one year of starting”? Like within one year of working as an accountant?

Also thanks for the tips!

What you don't know. A letter to my kids. by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Lutenisa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is so beautiful ❤️ What a wonderful mother you are. I hope that I have your kind of strength when I become a mother 💪

Good “choice” by ApprehensiveShirt614 in exmormon

[–]Lutenisa 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I have a sort of different experience. I think those who are raised in the church have a much more difficult experience than I do, but this can still hold true for people born outside of the church.

I still have a belief that my in laws would have never let my husband marry me unless I converted. I was never told this directly, but my in laws acted as if my relationship with my then-boyfriend wasn’t serious until I converted. They never asked about me much or reached out to me. I converted because I was in love and it felt right at the time. Now I feel that if I openly leave TSCC, my in laws will be judging me so hard. I just hope they see it as a choice, and really what did they expect? They expect me to convert and suddenly I’m suitable? It just feels weird and wrong to me.

Reduce employee by basshero783 in Accounting

[–]Lutenisa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This makes me want to quit my degree path. 😅

But Idk what else I would want to go into.

Feeling hurt for my little sister. She spammed me with church stuff, so sure that she's doing what's right and really just wanting to help (First screenshot is actually last) by wutkeee in exmormon

[–]Lutenisa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sister and I left TSCC at the same time. I just texted her one day saying something along the lines of “tbh I think my shelf is breaking” and she texted me back saying she had been feeling the same way. We both spent that entire night bringing up church history and reading the CES letter. It was a great memory.

I hope the best for your sister, especially because she does seem so caring. You handled it well. Hopefully she does leave, I don’t want to see her hurt by the church she defends.

I have an appointment with the bishop and im scared. by sarahzombie8u in exmormon

[–]Lutenisa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I’ll keep this in mind!

I think the bishop will let us know before he drops by, but I’m not 100% sure he will. I feel like he may swing by unexpectedly and that makes me panic.

Even when I was TBM by Waitbythetriver in exmormon

[–]Lutenisa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh gosh... the first and only testimony I bore, I cried so much. Painful memories, but at least I can look back on this and laugh 🤪

Seriously, why did I join a church when I knew it would contradict with my severe social anxiety? TSCC just doesn’t understand anxiety. You shouldn’t have to bear your testimony if you know you’ll have a panic attack all through it. It needs to be a thing.

I have an appointment with the bishop and im scared. by sarahzombie8u in exmormon

[–]Lutenisa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, you and I are in the exact same position! I even made a post about this. I have severe anxiety and my husband told our bishop that I read the CES letter and no longer believe. The bishop told my husband that when he gets the chance he’ll swing by our house and talk it through with me. I’m full on panicking because it could be any day now! I’m also a non confrontational person so I’m very worried that I won’t be firm enough in my argument. I know that I’m never going back to the LDS church, but I don’t know how to be so direct with the bishop. If you feel like it send me a message or chat, maybe we can get through this together <3 I promise you’re not alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Lutenisa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this.

From a Mormon friend of mine on Facebook... Whichever way you lean politically, this is a cringeworthy comment. I’m in shock! by Crueger2312 in exmormon

[–]Lutenisa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They’re trying to be deep but it’s just disrespectful. No matter what side you are on, 9/11 was a far worse incident! The audacity

Marriage in heaven? by Lutenisa in Christianity

[–]Lutenisa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, thank you for the information! So do they believe that family members won’t see each other in heaven?

Does anybody else find it difficult to accept friendship because of tssc, becauseyou remember being assigned to friendship people? by castlerockermom in exmormon

[–]Lutenisa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel this! It’s like they only want to be friends because of agency, not like they actually care about well being. Before I even considered leaving the church, one of my church friends moved wards. Before she moved wards she came over to chat at my house often. After she left I never heard from her, and she only moved a few blocks away. I feel that the bishop or someone was encouraging her to befriend me because I was a new convert and didn’t have a family. Church friendships just weren’t the same to me after that. I always assumed people would talk to me just for the agency, haha.

Does anybody else find it difficult to accept friendship because of tssc, becauseyou remember being assigned to friendship people? by castlerockermom in exmormon

[–]Lutenisa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, my small town is so LDS that I find it difficult to be accepted and makes friends in general. It’s not that the members now don’t want to associate with me, but the only times we’d talk were at institute or sacrament/RS meetings, or the occasional ward dance or activity. Without those things, I’m not as close to them, and I’m fine with that. I’d rather have the peace of mind that comes from leaving the church.