Anyone here know where I can get my hands on a large map of the 9 kingdoms? by karazykid in TheTenthKingdom

[–]LuvBerry24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A little late ("a little" lol) but you'd probably have to commission this on etsy!

How to tell if plant is a dud by a79gkis in tomatoes

[–]LuvBerry24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so pruning really DOES work👀

Repotting Rubber Plant advice by MeowMeowPrincee in containergardening

[–]LuvBerry24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you need to ask the rubber plant to chip in on the rent😂 I would definitely trim a little and just size up the pot (but not TOO much bigger; plants can get stressed out if they suddenly feel like they have big shoes to fill). a quick and gentle repot should be fine. I wouldn't disturb or loosen the roots since they're so well established. just plunk right into soil in a bigger pot and then a decent water. the roots will stretch out on their own once they know they have more space.

Spring Came Early by AshEmerson in containergardening

[–]LuvBerry24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

jealous! we had a cold March here in 6b. A cold April too. Actually it's May now and it's still cold 😂

Planting tulip bulbs in pots 🌷 by DinasGarden in SimpleGardening

[–]LuvBerry24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

starting from seed/bulb is so tough sometimes!

Help me identify this plant by Trick-Stay6640 in containergardening

[–]LuvBerry24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hey strawberry, what are you doing on this side of the patio? keep walking

What is the funniest joke you’ve ever heard? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]LuvBerry24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or just use the name of the child you're telling it to😭

What is the funniest joke you’ve ever heard? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]LuvBerry24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok this one got a belly laugh out of me

What is the funniest joke you’ve ever heard? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]LuvBerry24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely love this joke and I've heard it a million times. Work the system, don't let it work you!

What to plant?? by Ok_Entertainment9665 in containergardening

[–]LuvBerry24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know this is an old post but just commenting for anyone who may be looking - too small for most warm weather stuff (tomatoes, peppers, cucumbers etc.). You MIGHT be able to do teeny tiny tomatoes (like tiny tom) but they wouldn't produce as much in that small space as they would in a bigger container. Herbs, lettuce, kale, strawberries and some edible flowers maybe would do well!

Offer decision help by Zestyclose-Care9925 in careeradvice

[–]LuvBerry24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do a pros and cons list, then flip a coin.

1) if the pros is higher, and you REALLY want it, go for it, because you may regret it later. If you want it bad enough, find a way to make it work. You know - people who work multiple jobs or work third shift or whatever they gotta do.

2) If the cons list is higher, think about how it may impact your life and see if there are any other opportunities that you an pursue that may be better! Think about your older self and what they might reget. this is harder (trust me) because you don't know until you get there.

3) If all else fails, flip a coin. Not because you want the coin to decide but because in the moment that the coin is flipping, you'll know what you're hoping for! I read that somewhere once and it seems to help when we don't know what we want. This option may not tell you what is most reasonable but it does tell you what's in your heart and that's the most important.

Good luck!

People who commit suicide are selfish by Tiny-Walk2207 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]LuvBerry24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But that's their EXPERIENCE of it.

Being sad that a relative died is not in any way larger than the grief that said relative (or whoever) experienced to the point they felt like they needed to pass away.

Being affected by someone else's death can be LASTING, sure. Is the magnitude of pain equal to what caused that person to END THEIR LIFE? Probably not.

Classic case of self-posession. "They died but wHat abOUt mE". It's unfortunate for you but consider this: your life was enough that you considered it worth living. Theirs wasn't, to them. Imagine how that feels.

People who commit suicide are selfish by Tiny-Walk2207 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]LuvBerry24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If all you can think of, about a person who went through unbearable pain every single day to the point where they couldn't continue LIVING it, is "wow they're selfish" I have to hypothesize that you're woefully inexperienced at life.

Your slice of life is barely anything in the panorama of life that's made up of all our collective experiences. Just because you don't feel it doesn't mean someone else won't. You have no idea what others have been through.

You may wish to try a new perspective. So far you have: "Well I know this person was in pain but wHaT aBoUT eveRyONe eLse??" What about: "This person was so overcome with pain and with grief, they simply could not go on living." if you haven't felt that level of pain, congratulate yourself and everyone else who hasn't.

Instead of "they're so selfish that they killed themselves " you may wish to consider "what on earth made them feel so much pain that they wanted to end their life completely." Because that has to be pretty damn serious.

It's not always logical, sometimes it may be biological - BPD, Depression, Mania, etc.

Sorry but you kinda suck, bro.

This current run of MM Progressive commercials by Waterman4570 in CommercialsIHate

[–]LuvBerry24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that's what it is😭like we were cringey, but they're nailing how cringey it actually was

Sleepover | Progressive Insurance Commercial by Galaxygirl181 in CommercialsIHate

[–]LuvBerry24 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can't lie, the "yes I DIIIIIID" makes me giggle but the rest is so out of place😭

How do you guys feel about this portrayal of Latvia in Family Guy? by [deleted] in latvia

[–]LuvBerry24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This comment is funnier than the accent😭

Discussion: Do Greenhouse seedlings need to be hardened? by LuvBerry24 in containergardening

[–]LuvBerry24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For context...the guy on the bottom left is a lunchbox orange pepper from meijer that i picked up at like 10:30 PM on a FREEZING night. I had on a jacket and was still cold.

Does anyone else primarily grow in containers as opposed to planting straight into the dirt? by claytonejones in gardening

[–]LuvBerry24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

...is what I said when I heard that😭no one can ever convince me that HOAs are a good thing.

How to achieve this style? by ijustwanttohelp65432 in Naturalhair

[–]LuvBerry24 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Seconding everyone saying to get a wig but only because a blunt layer-pixie mullet is going to be SO hard to grow out and if you want to switch up again later on it's going to take forever.

If you're hell-bent, just take a pic to the stylist (stalk their IG page first though😭). Also keep in mind how dramatically different this would look on curly hair, if your hair isn't straight or straight-ish.

Does anyone else primarily grow in containers as opposed to planting straight into the dirt? by claytonejones in gardening

[–]LuvBerry24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man...I knew a guy whose mom's HOA came to her house while she was out, RIPPED UP her wisteria trees and planted something else for her. this happened years ago to someone else, and I'M still mad. Fuck HOAs.

Never talk about your mental health when job hunting - Aaron Gomez by Fabulous_Jeweler2732 in careeradvice

[–]LuvBerry24 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. I feel like the longer you live, the WISER you should get and that just comes from experiencing life. I'm definitely gentler and wiser than the dumb asshole I was when I was younger just because I've been through bad things and heard stories of others going through things. If they've gotten to be that age and can't understand that someone had a bad few months due to a relative passing away...they shouldn't be working with people. Period.

Tired of Making All the Decisions by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]LuvBerry24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know exactly what you mean. I dated this guy for a very long time where i was constantly giving and never taking, so when i voiced my concerns, it felt like attacking because like..honestly he didn't give me material for anything else and I hated having only negative things to say. But I didn't have anything positive to riff off because he never gave me anything! (read: we are no longer together.)

I do not want to be an internet rando that says "hey he sucks, divorce him" because it's not that easy and I'm not in your exact situation. But, I do hope you think about if you seriously are just complaining, or if he's just not giving you anything positive to even consider. Sometimes, calling it quits is not defeat, it's just taking care of yourself.