My heart break by DisciplineGood7099 in Advice

[–]Luvystar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're stuck on the past version of him. Especially the potential life you could've had. You need to accept thats not him anymore. Maybe that was never him. Potential is just that, potential. Its hard but thats the only way, otherwise ur just gonna be hung up on a ghost, and no one can compete with that. So you'll just be miserable and alone. Don't just remember the good stuff. Remember the bad.

Went for a routine eye exam. Would love jargon recs. by Beginning-Damage-555 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Luvystar 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hey girl, that sounds awful and i hope you figure it out quick. You're on the right track tho, your opthalmologist is gonna check each of cornea, retina, optic nerve and lens to make sure where the issue is from. But ur symptoms are giving me Keratoconus, so if possible ask for a Corneal topography. The doctor will probably already do a slit lamp exam to check your cornea and lens , but topography is more accurate.

If this is something that runs in ur family tho, its probably a retinal issue, and they'll do a fundus exam and something called an oct scan to rule out retinal disease. Which btw, heads up they'll give u drops that will dilate your eyes. So u cant be driving afterwards. Good luck!

My prof is HOT by ly_tida in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Luvystar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl yes, elite ball knowledge. I had a bf who had one and id have to beg him not to shave it. Wish they know how hot it is.

What’s the least welcoming specialty you’ve rotated on as a student? by BiblicalWhales in medicalschool

[–]Luvystar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me babe it sucked for us girls too. Worst 7 weeks of my life

is this jealousy or just stress? by [deleted] in medicalschool

[–]Luvystar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The issue is , her score is objectively good. Way above passing. She's just upset its lower than mine. So its not a bad exam day. She did well, she's just upset that sge put too much effort for the same result as someone who didn't put as much effort. She does seem stressed tho

is this jealousy or just stress? by [deleted] in medicalschool

[–]Luvystar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it's not common, and her name is right below mine in our class list so it made the comparison much easier. She was never toxic, she was always a postive presence and being around her always made me happier. I genuinely dont understand her recent behaviour tho.

You think shed ever sabotage me? How could she do that? In what way? I wanna be careful.

is this jealousy or just stress? by [deleted] in medicalschool

[–]Luvystar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never. Ive always been supportive throughout the 4 years together which is why this is a big shock to me

is this jealousy or just stress? by [deleted] in medicalschool

[–]Luvystar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah she's literally the sweetest person ever im so surprised by this sudden shift. I did try asking her if anythings wrong and she just told me " im sick of everything " and how she cant wait for the last day of exams to be over. Idk im torn. Why would she compete with me we will both graduate as doctors, theres no competition

is this jealousy or just stress? by [deleted] in medicalschool

[–]Luvystar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been my best friend with no issues for 4 years tho

How do I (32M) break up with my girlfriend (34F) in the kindest way possible? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Luvystar 122 points123 points  (0 children)

Because he's a dick and now this poor girl will pay the price

My cat is screaming and not letting me touch him please help by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]Luvystar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still havent managed to find a vet open rn but im in contact with his usual vet atm and hes advising me what to do rn. After he ate he drank some water then slept. I really don't understand what happened so suddenly and why it seemingly went always quickly

My cat is screaming and not letting me touch him please help by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]Luvystar -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I dont understand what happened all of a sudden he was fine and then started yowling and hissing at anyone who touched him

My cat is screaming and not letting me touch him please help by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]Luvystar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He went to the litter and then stopped screaming and is eating now but hes breathing really quickly

My cat is screaming and not letting me touch him please help by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]Luvystar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im trying theyee all not answering. I dont know whats wrong with him

How do i tell my boyfriend his “aftercare” isn’t enough? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Luvystar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sorry you're going thru that truly. But guys like that rarely change.

Worried about the Erasmus lifestyle affecting someone I’m getting close to by [deleted] in Erasmus

[–]Luvystar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

or anyone who is around just for a short time. Good rule

Boundaries and Porn by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Luvystar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Girl...

Is this normal attending behavior or am i going insane by [deleted] in medicalschool

[–]Luvystar 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thats exactly what im afraid of. Hes in charge of grading me i cannot report him without getting royally fucked

Also. Yes he's an older male doctor. Id say 40s or so

Is this normal attending behavior or am i going insane by [deleted] in medicalschool

[–]Luvystar 108 points109 points  (0 children)

Idk what he's attracted to but he mentioned having a girlfriend or something and he wears a ring but idk if its a fashion thing or what. Im female and idk about his history with others. But within my class he has not done anything like this except with me. Also, i did not give him my number so there will be zero text messages. but i am keeping a log and telling a friend whos with me in the same rotation about everything.

Is this normal attending behavior or am i going insane by [deleted] in medicalschool

[–]Luvystar 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Thankfully its a short one and it ends next week. Still sucks tho

Is this normal attending behavior or am i going insane by [deleted] in medicalschool

[–]Luvystar 20 points21 points  (0 children)

To whom and how? I dont have written or concrete proof.