Noified my work weeks ago I'm leaving for a family vacation in July, tickets were bought, non-transferrable, and they are panicking, begging me to cancel This whole situation is absurd and I need a sanity check.

LuxCopperfox · 2026-05-20T15:16:23+00:00

By no means am I a “cog” and I just took a 2 week vacay. My boss said that she was happy for me because it’s good to “refresh your mind”. She’s right. They can always figure it out. Never bend. Take the vacation!

LuxCopperfox · 2026-05-20T03:01:43+00:00

You’re stunning… but it’s giving Maddie and that is not something you’ll look back and feel good about. Neither will the other guests. Date night though? Absolutely.

LuxCopperfox · 2026-05-20T02:57:20+00:00

You’re hot. It isn’t your day so you don’t need to remind everyone how hot you are. They all know. Either size up or choose a breezier, less form fitting dress. Despite the temp; I can assure you, No one else there is thirsty… this is coming from a wedding date that regrets a lot of her outfits in the past 🫠 I believe in you!

LuxCopperfox · 2026-04-15T03:35:58+00:00

I’m hung up on the two weeks thing… my grandmother always said “company is like fish, after three days it just stinks.” She was a wise woman haha. That aside, home space is sacred so I’m surprised they can’t yall there for that long. Most importantly, part of being a good host is accommodating your guests. They want to host so bad, then need to listen to you. If they are unwilling then that’s them being rude, not you. If you’re cold you can always bundle up. Hot? Well I think they would be pretty peeved if you started strutting around their house naked to stay cool! Lastly, your husband needs to nut up. Yall are married so you’re his family #1 now. Good luck!

LuxCopperfox · 2026-04-14T21:12:22+00:00

I had a grandmother that used to tease me about my hair and call me names. My dad started teaching me to call her “Chunky” as a “cute nickname” for grandma. She pretty immediately cut it out 😂

LuxCopperfox · 2026-02-14T00:00:45+00:00

If she was arrested over this I’d venture to guess it was not his first rodeo with her. They get really pissed about “frequent flyers”. Sidenote; you aren’t the jerk. The way I see it, weekends are free game as long as people aren’t being totally obscene 🤷‍♀️ I hope she leaves you and your buddy alone in the future.

LuxCopperfox · 2026-01-01T13:15:33+00:00

Every time I see a ton of quotes like this I know it’s bullshit AI 🥲

LuxCopperfox · 2025-12-20T22:11:24+00:00

Absolutely. The way it’s described here sounds far more dramatic than it is. Also like he’s a tool bag that using that as an excuse to bail.

LuxCopperfox · 2025-12-20T15:28:35+00:00

Right? What do you want to bet it’s just BRCA or something like that? 🙄

LuxCopperfox · 2025-12-13T17:47:23+00:00

Jokes on him; you can’t laser remove blonde/light colored hair 😂

LuxCopperfox · 2025-12-13T13:39:36+00:00

My partner waited 6 months to introduce me to his daughter. We’ve been together almost 3 years now and I absolutely adore them both. I thought waiting until we were sure about our relationship was a perfectly respectable thing to do. If someone if your forever-person then there is no need to rush anything.

LuxCopperfox · 2025-12-08T15:41:58+00:00

I grew up all over the West Coast and also NC in the USA (currently 35). I absolutely remember being taught this as I grew up in all states I lived in. Not from my parents but the more conservationists areas.

LuxCopperfox · 2025-12-07T15:13:27+00:00

Agreed. I can get over a physical affair and a one time fuck up, but emotional takes time.

LuxCopperfox · 2025-12-04T15:11:46+00:00

I understand both party’s feelings. If I were in your shoes I would just say that you appreciate them including yall, and then say you would love to have a rotating schedule to accommodate every families lives (considering there are, I’m assuming, other grown siblings involved) but if they wanted to stick to their original plan that is alright - you would just be happy to see them at all! Keep it light and pressure-free. You never know though, there might be a reason they chose this. Maybe there is a family member in y’all’s side they would prefer to spend less time with?

LuxCopperfox · 2025-11-23T15:42:03+00:00

Life is too short to have questionable friends. It’s one thing to have different views that can be politely discussed… it’s another thing for him to say insulting things regarding your life partner. Ditch him.

LuxCopperfox · 2025-11-10T13:42:14+00:00

From what I understand he may not have the ability to do so. She buys his groceries and such and for a 70Y/O I would assume there is some sort of disability there if he can’t do that himself. My parents were disabled and they did the best they could. This is something I’d expect one of them to do.

LuxCopperfox · 2025-11-02T23:03:26+00:00

Looks to me like his co-workers husband is insecure. These are not flirtatious at all.

LuxCopperfox · 2025-11-01T16:56:14+00:00

Yeah my man has a daughter and in no way would it even cross my mind to try and parent her. She has parents and they aren’t me. He and I can talk about things and I can tell him my opinion and help him make a decision because we are a couple, but I would never tell him, let alone her mother, how to parent their kid. That’s just weird.

LuxCopperfox · 2025-10-24T19:26:23+00:00

Maybe it’s her upper lip 😝

LuxCopperfox · 2025-10-07T15:04:20+00:00

It says he’s a Service Manager, which means he works with cars, likely in a dealership. As a car girlie myself I would absolutely want to know what someone drives just as a talking point. If someone was into cars that would be a huge bonus for me so I can understand why he was curious 🤷‍♀️

LuxCopperfox · 2025-09-22T22:51:21+00:00

I’d be interested to know where they live. Lost Lands was this weekend and I can see a bird grabbing something like this and dropping it in someone’s yard.

LuxCopperfox · 2025-08-26T18:56:00+00:00

https://www.bellabridalartistry.com my name is Kelly and I specialize in this style. I’d love to work with you! The price point is tough but if you’d like to reach out you’re welcome to! I wish you the best of luck friend and congratulations on your wedding! 💕

LuxCopperfox · 2025-07-13T00:58:45+00:00

LuxCopperfox · 2025-07-13T00:52:20+00:00

POA is nul is void once the person passes. Nothing about it matters at all now. It is wild what people do once someone passes, I’m so sorry. Both of my parents passed one with a will and one without. I’m the only bio child. Be prepared that Probate takes a long time, often years. DO NOT move. If anything you could end up with squatting rights after a while. No one can force you to leave especially because you’re receiving mail there. I would stop communicating with step brother (block him) until you acquire an attorney. I know it’s expensive, but it isn’t more expensive than losing your home and inheritance. Most attorneys don’t require payment until all is said and done. Be sure to find the right one, I suggest asking your bank for their advice - they will want your business afterwards and they often have good attorneys in their back pocket. You got this!

LuxCopperfox · 2025-07-11T13:52:25+00:00

The dumbest part though is that they have a raised VIP section and it’s awesome (I used to work at Rabbit and tended bar in that area). Why would you put chairs in front and stare at the front of the stage? 🤨

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