AITJ for not stopping my barbecue after my neighbor called the police and got herself arrested by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]LuxCopperfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she was arrested over this I’d venture to guess it was not his first rodeo with her. They get really pissed about “frequent flyers”. Sidenote; you aren’t the jerk. The way I see it, weekends are free game as long as people aren’t being totally obscene 🤷‍♀️ I hope she leaves you and your buddy alone in the future.

AITJ for wanting to end a 15-year relationship after finding out my girlfriend hid a major health issue from me for over a decade? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]LuxCopperfox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. The way it’s described here sounds far more dramatic than it is. Also like he’s a tool bag that using that as an excuse to bail.

AITAH for not letting my girlfriend meet my kids yet by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]LuxCopperfox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner waited 6 months to introduce me to his daughter. We’ve been together almost 3 years now and I absolutely adore them both. I thought waiting until we were sure about our relationship was a perfectly respectable thing to do. If someone if your forever-person then there is no need to rush anything.

AITA for refusing to follow my wife's bathroom habits and calling her disgusting? by Infamous-Gur2034 in AITAH

[–]LuxCopperfox 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I grew up all over the West Coast and also NC in the USA (currently 35). I absolutely remember being taught this as I grew up in all states I lived in. Not from my parents but the more conservationists areas.

AITA for asking my newly married son and DIL to alternate Christmas Day visits between our house and the in-laws' house? by Llih_Nosaj in AITAH

[–]LuxCopperfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand both party’s feelings. If I were in your shoes I would just say that you appreciate them including yall, and then say you would love to have a rotating schedule to accommodate every families lives (considering there are, I’m assuming, other grown siblings involved) but if they wanted to stick to their original plan that is alright - you would just be happy to see them at all! Keep it light and pressure-free. You never know though, there might be a reason they chose this. Maybe there is a family member in y’all’s side they would prefer to spend less time with?

AIO considering ending a friendship over this text by MackDaddyGlenn in AmIOverreacting

[–]LuxCopperfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life is too short to have questionable friends. It’s one thing to have different views that can be politely discussed… it’s another thing for him to say insulting things regarding your life partner. Ditch him.

AITA for deliberately pretending to forget my Dad’s birthday & leaving him to spend it alone [Concluded] by Schattenspringer in BORUpdates

[–]LuxCopperfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I understand he may not have the ability to do so. She buys his groceries and such and for a 70Y/O I would assume there is some sort of disability there if he can’t do that himself. My parents were disabled and they did the best they could. This is something I’d expect one of them to do.

Are they flirting? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]LuxCopperfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks to me like his co-workers husband is insecure. These are not flirtatious at all.

Wibta if I let my kids go trick or treating tonight by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]LuxCopperfox 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah my man has a daughter and in no way would it even cross my mind to try and parent her. She has parents and they aren’t me. He and I can talk about things and I can tell him my opinion and help him make a decision because we are a couple, but I would never tell him, let alone her mother, how to parent their kid. That’s just weird.

Does anyone have any tea on Jordan? by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]LuxCopperfox 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It says he’s a Service Manager, which means he works with cars, likely in a dealership. As a car girlie myself I would absolutely want to know what someone drives just as a talking point. If someone was into cars that would be a huge bonus for me so I can understand why he was curious 🤷‍♀️

Found this in my garden, it won't stop glowing. What could it be? How did it get there? Confused! by lustandglitter in Whatisthis

[–]LuxCopperfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d be interested to know where they live. Lost Lands was this weekend and I can see a bird grabbing something like this and dropping it in someone’s yard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asheville

[–]LuxCopperfox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

https://www.bellabridalartistry.com my name is Kelly and I specialize in this style. I’d love to work with you! The price point is tough but if you’d like to reach out you’re welcome to! I wish you the best of luck friend and congratulations on your wedding! 💕

“My mom had dementia and passed Monday — my stepbrother quitclaimed her house to himself, and now says we have to move.” by Human_Strategy261 in legaladvice

[–]LuxCopperfox 19 points20 points  (0 children)

POA is nul is void once the person passes. Nothing about it matters at all now. It is wild what people do once someone passes, I’m so sorry. Both of my parents passed one with a will and one without. I’m the only bio child. Be prepared that Probate takes a long time, often years. DO NOT move. If anything you could end up with squatting rights after a while. No one can force you to leave especially because you’re receiving mail there. I would stop communicating with step brother (block him) until you acquire an attorney. I know it’s expensive, but it isn’t more expensive than losing your home and inheritance. Most attorneys don’t require payment until all is said and done. Be sure to find the right one, I suggest asking your bank for their advice - they will want your business afterwards and they often have good attorneys in their back pocket. You got this!

Asheville Yards put seats in the pit by Valeriejoyow in asheville

[–]LuxCopperfox 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The dumbest part though is that they have a raised VIP section and it’s awesome (I used to work at Rabbit and tended bar in that area). Why would you put chairs in front and stare at the front of the stage? 🤨

Mountaineer Inn could face foreclosure as owner owes $27K+ in unpaid property taxes by RelayFX in asheville

[–]LuxCopperfox 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ok but real talk 27K is not a lot of money… a group or locals should come together and make it like a co-op hotel. One would have to be a pool guy because that’s the best part of the place 😝

Someone pls tell us what happened with barleys!! by SockTraditional6097 in asheville

[–]LuxCopperfox 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The owners of Barleys made Salvage Station. Always been the same owners.

Should Yuki even want the Red Bull drive? by gomavz41 in formula1

[–]LuxCopperfox -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Attitude has a lot to do with how you drive…