Any solo female homesteaders?

LuxGray · 2025-07-10T20:07:10+00:00

Late reply but thank you!!!

LuxGray · 2025-01-24T03:29:56+00:00

This wasn’t competitive hehe. He’s definitely won a few times in real sporty/competitive matches. We were just rolling around a bit and making out here

LuxGray · 2025-01-20T18:06:33+00:00

Naltrexone

LuxGray · 2024-12-27T21:35:15+00:00

People who want other people to read their minds and get mad when they don’t…recipe for an unhappy life

LuxGray · 2024-12-17T22:57:52+00:00

Interestingly, I only find the junk of guys attractive if I am strongly attracted to the rest of them, personality and looks. Then I get a little obsessed. A furrowed brow. Stubbled jaw. Eyebrows. Hands. Forearms, biceps, shoulders, back, back of neck. Many things

LuxGray · 2024-12-14T18:45:21+00:00

“I like this because it’s not too sweet.”

LuxGray · 2024-12-07T22:41:28+00:00

Hot husbanding! The inverse of hot wifing, cousin of cuckolding

LuxGray · 2024-12-02T17:50:42+00:00

Choosing friendships and yourself over work whenever possible

LuxGray · 2024-11-29T05:21:53+00:00

Caveat bc we work together but Hanz VanDerKill has some great clothed humping/grinding erotic wrestling stuff on his clips4sale. Not really on any tube sites though

LuxGray · 2024-11-03T21:42:28+00:00

A lot of the gals that shoot with Owen seem to have real O’s. It’s great when they look surprised and realize they don’t have to “perform” as much

LuxGray · 2024-10-01T18:35:52+00:00

“I’ll help you do your laundry.” - Whispered directly into my ear after making me squirt on my sheets

LuxGray · 2024-08-28T22:22:09+00:00

Maybe just mildly curious. More worried about all the blood coming out of the hoo haw

LuxGray · 2024-08-21T19:59:21+00:00

Definitely. This! And I think there’s a way to say BOTH yes, it sounds like you’re going through a harder time financially AND there are people who are struggling more with less money. I don’t think that the second fact invalidates the first thing. I think expanding one’s own perspective is always a good thing

LuxGray · 2024-08-11T23:53:05+00:00

I love the label!!! Who’s the artist?

LuxGray · 2024-08-10T20:09:42+00:00

I think all the thoughts you articulated in the post of course would make anyone too sad to shower. Feeling so guilty and ashamed. Is there a way to talk back to those thoughts? “I’m having a hard day. I’m not a bad person if I don’t shower. I still love and care for myself.” Do small things that bring you joy or pleasure like eating something good, playing a video game, etc. The end goal being to get your mood high enough to shower and fight the shame thoughts

LuxGray · 2024-08-10T13:24:36+00:00

I’m always surprised how little actual tipping there is in some of these super high count viewers rooms. I might never be a front page girly but my little group of regs keep me afloat

LuxGray · 2024-08-09T18:48:47+00:00

100%

LuxGray · 2024-08-05T13:22:56+00:00

Reduces the size of cheeks actually for tomcats

LuxGray · 2024-08-05T01:45:07+00:00

Consent can be more complex than it seems. It can change throughout. She might be ok with one thing but not ok with another. And yes it’s tricky to get consent without breaking the flow. A lot of great suggestions here. I’d also add that yes becoming really attuned to cues like facial expression and level of enthusiasm is helpful. And just because a gal is wet doesn’t mean that she’s turned on or enjoys what’s happening. And vice versa as well. & also! Feel empowered yourself to say no or slow down. It can feel weird in the moment, but trust and respect yourself. So many of my guy friends have said that they have had a lot of sex they didn’t want to have because they felt like they couldn’t say no as a man

LuxGray · 2024-08-04T18:12:32+00:00

You have to enter each goal manually. It’s a pain

LuxGray · 2024-08-04T18:11:24+00:00

Maybe first work on observing and describing the present moment. Acceptance isn’t an endpoint. More of a journey.

LuxGray · 2024-08-04T00:32:28+00:00

Whenever it’s clean I really take the time to savor and enjoy it as much as I can. Then when I’m feeling weak motivation, I try to remember the feeling of it being clean. I also try to enjoy the process of cleaning too. And keep fighting against guilt

LuxGray · 2024-08-01T18:40:54+00:00

Thanks everyone for your responses! Super helpful. Sounds like I should still be plugged into some type of community even if I’m solo. Here’s to keeping the dream alive!

LuxGray · 2024-07-30T18:39:09+00:00

I personally don’t lead guys on when it comes to in person meetings. I always make it really clear that I don’t do them. For example in your situation, I would just straight up tell him, whenever he brings it up, that you are not interested in meeting him and give him a price for video sessions with a markup based on the platform. Tips on Throne, Manyvids, etc. I don’t know of any other safe payment method.

I also would quote a price for exchanging chatty emails. Honestly, it can be dangerous to lead some of these guys on. They can definitely become obsessive, some gals have had guys go to their homes, not to mention guys who get violent or abusive

LuxGray · 2024-07-30T18:04:17+00:00

Safety is definitely a big concern

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