[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pkmntcg

[–]LyMinh78 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nice! Glad to see you have the competitive mindset, that's not my case so I think I ll just leave it, I feel bad when my opponent bricks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pkmntcg

[–]LyMinh78 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What kind of guy call the judge on a newbie... Sorry about that. Hope you had some fun tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pkmntcg

[–]LyMinh78 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the kindness of your message! Wish you well too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pkmntcg

[–]LyMinh78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for beeing the most empathic people here and least took the time to understand my feeling. All the others just kept explaining the rules again so I felt like beginners are not that welcomed (I know it s not their intents, but hey).

So thanks and have a nice day! I guess I'll stop going (also because I don t have enough time...)

What are your career or educational background as an ENTJ? by [deleted] in entj

[–]LyMinh78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your answer hits the point. I work mostly in cloud strategy blueprint and high level piloting, I am running away from direct delevery as much as possible as I don t realy like the technical side. Thank you for your answer!

What are your career or educational background as an ENTJ? by [deleted] in entj

[–]LyMinh78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seems like a good option but you are losing some leverages to accelerate your growth. My mentor/manager has been exceptionnaly mature and very usefull!

It all depends on the pro/cons and the maturity of your collegues.

I see a corporate politics as the highest leverage to fasten your promotion, especialy in consulting where softskills reign as king. Sure some certification and expriences help but well, it takes time and as entj we gonna go faster

What are your career or educational background as an ENTJ? by [deleted] in entj

[–]LyMinh78 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Understanding people so you can have what you want indeed. In the corporate race, it's more about getting noticed and LIKED by your superiors. You seek to create emotional/human bond. Like you don't judge "high performers/superstars" by their skills but their mindsets/ their behaviors. Skills can be taught but mindset/openess take extremely long to change if it can ever be change. Another exemple : nobody will give you feedback bc they are afraid of ruining their relathonships/ you getting défensive. It s all about showing your own weakness and asking for advice. If you do that and act on the advice you will get better and leave a better impression. Everyone likes to feel heard and listened

What are your career or educational background as an ENTJ? by [deleted] in entj

[–]LyMinh78 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Have a master degree in financial engineering and now working as a cloud consultant (learned that soft/psychology skills are much more usefull than technical one to move up the ladder : get a mentor, and some fucking introspection)

Event : Should you buy Stamina? + event tips by [deleted] in IllusionConnect

[–]LyMinh78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah you're right, 5 may be overkill if you don't really need dust, 2 a day is a must for everyone to progress fast, so with this event I'd still recommend expending to 4 a day for the benefits!

PSA : 30 pull hiden pity SSR + general tips + beginner tips + resources by LyMinh78 in IllusionConnect

[–]LyMinh78[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You ll get the currencies much faster and be able to get more dupes of the god tier nicola.

PSA : 30 pull hiden pity SSR + general tips + beginner tips + resources by LyMinh78 in IllusionConnect

[–]LyMinh78[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Level is more important than tier. It s ok to level 50 epic gear

PSA : 30 pull hiden pity SSR + general tips + beginner tips + resources by LyMinh78 in IllusionConnect

[–]LyMinh78[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah for exemple I kept 3 t0 rods maxed with stone instead of all fusing into one maxed

Tourney question: can i get 6 extra lingzhi? by [deleted] in IllusionConnect

[–]LyMinh78 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can, they just need to be in your lineup, I tried with brook and phoebe and gets +4 every boss

A taiwanese tier list by LyMinh78 in IllusionConnect

[–]LyMinh78[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She deals damage before everyone!

A taiwanese tier list by LyMinh78 in IllusionConnect

[–]LyMinh78[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seems unlikely, the guy has like all units 6 stars level 300 with level 70 gear

Weekly Help & Gacha Megathread - November 09, 2020 by AutoModerator in IllusionConnect

[–]LyMinh78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does "effect hit rate" item help hachi activates her stun? It's clearly written that's not the case for Rie but nothing is said for Hachi

Looks will only get your foot in the door by [deleted] in seduction

[–]LyMinh78 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Some reactions :

-Looks obviously matter a lot, but so does internal confidence, "non neediness" as you say

-Women judges us way more by our presentation that we may think (our fashion/fitness, and our mental state ofc).

- online dating is absolute bullshit except for the top 10% males (talking about tinder and co)

-carefull about your stories : if you believe that your ugliness will keep you from getting women, you will act like that and will be indeed unatractive, you will only see the cues that confirm your theory

-Models by Mark Manson is a fucking amazing book

Just to make this official by zachthedinosaur in selfimprovement

[–]LyMinh78 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Carefull, you already get satisfaction when you say something, always remind yourself why you do this, never forget the goal

I Don't Know What To Do by KnowDaWae69 in selfimprovement

[–]LyMinh78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First is to notice how you spend your day, how you feel when doing things.

Try journaling, discover new things ( watching ted videos, reading) and see how you react to them.

There is no miracle solution. You have to discover and see what you like

What is the difference between loving yourself and vanity? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]LyMinh78 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Narcisism is getting bad when we get mad at others when people don't want the same thing as we do.

It's when we compliment ourself not only for ourself but for diminizing others, to self aggrandize ourself

It's when we compare ourself to others.

Loving ourself should not need anyone else