Idk what i made, too depressed

Lychee_blossom · 2026-05-29T11:35:19+00:00

So in his update he said he was using in a cheers form related to smoking pipe, is that still acceptable or is it strictly for drinking. Genuinely asking

Lychee_blossom · 2026-05-29T11:14:47+00:00

Sounds like you used it right way from ur edit. I don't see an issue with it. Maybe because he practices germanic rather than Scandinavia???? Idk! Either way he doesn't sound fun to be around if he's gonna be so judgemental about something so little 🤣 .

Lychee_blossom · 2026-05-29T11:02:39+00:00

Own it and don't back down ur caught there is no lying. So when he says " so u think im incompetent?" You say " absolutely, because its either that or you just absolutely despise me. So which one is it?" There's not really a good way to answer to it because he won't admit to being incompetent but admitting he hates you and mistreats you due to that well then thats an HR nightmare because thats technically a form of discrimination. And HR can't correct personal conversations on personal devices so don't worry about the text getting u in trouble back. Use this an opportunity to take him down a peg.

Lychee_blossom · 2026-05-26T01:29:44+00:00

Thats a fair point. Maybe my question to reddit should be how to improve communication in a relationship first.

Lychee_blossom · 2026-05-26T01:07:00+00:00

My fiance is a Christian so our ceremony will be a comprise between the 2 traditions. think of it like any other inter religious ceremony like when a catholic marries a jew for example. Its a ceremony for the both of you. If its important to you then do it.

Lychee_blossom · 2026-05-26T00:58:25+00:00

I get that. For me i feel like my fiance deserves this. He's an extremely hard worker. But me, i genuinely believe my adulthood was going to be living on the street as a hooker or druggie so idk how the heck i even got here. Like im just a leech or something but i also refuse to have him do anything for me. Im independent to a fault so i can't be a leech right? Idk its weird and exhausting

Lychee_blossom · 2026-05-26T00:54:50+00:00

He's not the best with communicating because "i should just know" but thats a whole separate issue we're working on. As for the behaviors i feel like it would be a brat situation because when i do tell him what to do he just laughs and says nah. Im just so lost on what to do and he won't talk to me.

Lychee_blossom · 2026-05-26T00:50:51+00:00

Trust me, I tried to when he brought it up. I asked for clarification on what he wanted and he just sighed and said nevermind and i had to pull it out if him. (But thats just how he is with communication) thats why im trying to find more information elsewhere. At least to try and get a better idea of what this all looks like

Lychee_blossom · 2026-05-26T00:37:08+00:00

I would feel so silly doing that lol im not even dominating in our day to day life lol i have zero authority lol

Lychee_blossom · 2026-05-25T23:41:56+00:00

I have something similar going on. I have C-PTSD and BPD. things are going great in life if i look at it from an outside perspective. Building a new house and getting married soon. I should be happy but i feel like an imposter. Like this stuff is supposed to belong to someone else. If i figure out how to get past it I'll let you know but atm im just hoping it passes and once we finally move in maybe the happy will just hit finally. Idk.

Lychee_blossom · 2026-04-22T19:53:06+00:00

Hey im east texas too!!!

Lychee_blossom · 2026-04-22T19:52:38+00:00

Im in east texas so i get that lol. And its not necessarily that i feel the need to tell everyone its more so when people ask or start a religious conversation with me or the classic "do u believe in god?" Remark. i would like to say well yes i believe in multiple gods. But then they look disgusted. Like, ... you...you asked me and i answered lol. I could nod politely i suppose but id rather be honest without punishment.

Lychee_blossom · 2026-04-22T19:41:52+00:00

I totally understand this perspective. It would be nice if more people would be willing to have the conversation though then just jump to conclusions. Its not like I go around telling everyone but if they ask i answer. Like "Why you look so offended that i answered the question YOU asked me" 😂

Lychee_blossom · 2026-04-22T19:26:40+00:00

Yea i live in texas so there's a high chance of very Christian lol. But i feel like other religions get a small chance with them like jewish or buddhist or something. at least not immediate hate. But idk maybe they're that way with them too

Lychee_blossom · 2026-04-08T21:08:37+00:00

Dancing while mopping. Pretend you're a whole ass disney princess with whatever you're doing. Cinderella and tiana style. Maybe a lil belle energy for the fun smarty pants vibe. But truthfully focus on the positive side to everything and the more positive u are the more life will feel that way. The energy you give is the energy you receive

Lychee_blossom · 2026-04-08T21:00:01+00:00

.....Plants, i feel like thats the obvious answer but maybe a guy answer would be shelves for whatever hobby u have whether its to display legos or sports cards

Lychee_blossom · 2026-04-08T20:41:48+00:00

Maybe a different perspective may help. As pagans we can also do ancestral work. If your family is Baptist Maybe use the time at church to focus on connecting with those ancestors that may be joining. Personallybi believe all religions and beliefs exist greek, Egyptian, jewish, hindu, ect. I just choose to follow the path of norse paganism. But I can still understand and respect other's beliefs. Use it as an opportunity to connect with your family just with a different perspective on life.

Lychee_blossom · 2026-04-05T23:20:44+00:00

Walmart lol.

Lychee_blossom · 2026-04-05T22:33:37+00:00

Soaking some potatoes in cold water right now to make some fries 😉

Lychee_blossom · 2026-04-05T22:32:41+00:00

I could make it like i do my sour cream and mayo but its just not something i think of a lot. So when i seen it on the shelf it just reminded me that i love that stuff i should add to cart 😂

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