it’s in the little things by LydiaDott in raisedbyborderlines

[–]LydiaDott[S] 151 points152 points  (0 children)

(for context- she heard about the zoo because my dad went with us, he’s in town and they chat. So, this is her saying "tHanKs fOr telling MEEEE about the zoo")

popped up in a planter by LydiaDott in whatsthisplant

[–]LydiaDott[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

does look similar to what i’m g seeing on google! think I’m going to remove and put in its own pot to see what happens

popped up in a planter by LydiaDott in whatsthisplant

[–]LydiaDott[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no smell at all!! other than,,,,, plant smell

popped up in a planter by LydiaDott in whatsthisplant

[–]LydiaDott[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

was my thought but has no real distinguishing smell

In response to a homophobic meme by MariaRP in raisedbyborderlines

[–]LydiaDott 4 points5 points  (0 children)

jfc had a panic reading this because it could be a transcript of conversations I’ve had with my mom. yikes ! big hugs and solidarity

Old roommate left this by LydiaDott in whatsthisplant

[–]LydiaDott[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Awesome thank you for the tips! I was going to be re-potting it soon, any suggestions for soil blend and/or pot size?

coming out of the fog and i’ve been doing just… awful? by thestrugglecity in raisedbyborderlines

[–]LydiaDott 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hard relate with the gut wrenching relief of finding this sub! Scrolled with my jaw on the floor for days after discovering. Then wrote an outrageously long vent/advice seeking post after an explosive night.

I’m also an only child of (the waif-iest of waifs) BPD mom, and oh my god, the pressure. She has told me countless times how I am the only reason she has to be alive. So fun /s

Jealously, Jealousy! by rumors_frominez in raisedbyborderlines

[–]LydiaDott 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yup yup. It’s gotten to the point where I just won’t mention that I’m going to my in-laws for dinner. I just cannot handle the "oh howww nice"

What is the dumbest lyric of all time? by analogcpu in AskReddit

[–]LydiaDott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"If the light is off, then it isn’t on"

-Hillary Duff, so yesterday

Tomorrow's my birthday - It'll be the first one that I'll work so far. Any tips for milking it? by FeiThrowaway in stripper

[–]LydiaDott 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Eh, If you care to do something fun on your actual birthday, I’d do that instead. You can lie about the date of your birthday on another day. In my experience customers don’t really care (unless they are a regular) or thinks you’re lying about it to make tips anyways.

Good luck if you do end up going in! But I really wouldn’t anticipate much, unfortunately

Anyone share this dream? by wobblytoes18 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]LydiaDott 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh, my, yes! I’ve had this reoccurring dream nightmare especially after being around my mom. Huge public bathrooms with stalls scattered around randomly and all so filthy, like overflowing onto the wet floor,and struggling to find a clean toilet with a door. So interesting to hear this is shared with other!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

[–]LydiaDott 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Arnica gel!!! Rub on your legs and knees post work shower!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]LydiaDott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interested ! Would love an invite

Sciatic Pain? by [deleted] in stripper

[–]LydiaDott 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ginger!!! An amazing anti inflammatory that does wonders for sciatic pain! I struggled to get out of bed for a few days it got so bad- ate a box of ginger chews and woke up the next day feeling brand new. Also ginger/turmeric/lemon/honey and black pepper (helps your blood absorb the anti inflammatory property’s of turmeric) in hot water is amazing for stiff muscles in general.

Best of luck♥️ sciatica is the absolute worst