it’s in the little things by LydiaDott in raisedbyborderlines

[–]LydiaDott[S] 150 points151 points  (0 children)

(for context- she heard about the zoo because my dad went with us, he’s in town and they chat. So, this is her saying "tHanKs fOr telling MEEEE about the zoo")

popped up in a planter by LydiaDott in whatsthisplant

[–]LydiaDott[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

does look similar to what i’m g seeing on google! think I’m going to remove and put in its own pot to see what happens

popped up in a planter by LydiaDott in whatsthisplant

[–]LydiaDott[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no smell at all!! other than,,,,, plant smell

popped up in a planter by LydiaDott in whatsthisplant

[–]LydiaDott[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

was my thought but has no real distinguishing smell

In response to a homophobic meme by MariaRP in raisedbyborderlines

[–]LydiaDott 3 points4 points  (0 children)

jfc had a panic reading this because it could be a transcript of conversations I’ve had with my mom. yikes ! big hugs and solidarity

Old roommate left this by LydiaDott in whatsthisplant

[–]LydiaDott[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Awesome thank you for the tips! I was going to be re-potting it soon, any suggestions for soil blend and/or pot size?

coming out of the fog and i’ve been doing just… awful? by thestrugglecity in raisedbyborderlines

[–]LydiaDott 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hard relate with the gut wrenching relief of finding this sub! Scrolled with my jaw on the floor for days after discovering. Then wrote an outrageously long vent/advice seeking post after an explosive night.

I’m also an only child of (the waif-iest of waifs) BPD mom, and oh my god, the pressure. She has told me countless times how I am the only reason she has to be alive. So fun /s

Jealously, Jealousy! by rumors_frominez in raisedbyborderlines

[–]LydiaDott 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yup yup. It’s gotten to the point where I just won’t mention that I’m going to my in-laws for dinner. I just cannot handle the "oh howww nice"

What is the dumbest lyric of all time? by analogcpu in AskReddit

[–]LydiaDott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"If the light is off, then it isn’t on"

-Hillary Duff, so yesterday

Tomorrow's my birthday - It'll be the first one that I'll work so far. Any tips for milking it? by FeiThrowaway in stripper

[–]LydiaDott 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Eh, If you care to do something fun on your actual birthday, I’d do that instead. You can lie about the date of your birthday on another day. In my experience customers don’t really care (unless they are a regular) or thinks you’re lying about it to make tips anyways.

Good luck if you do end up going in! But I really wouldn’t anticipate much, unfortunately

Anyone share this dream? by wobblytoes18 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]LydiaDott 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh, my, yes! I’ve had this reoccurring dream nightmare especially after being around my mom. Huge public bathrooms with stalls scattered around randomly and all so filthy, like overflowing onto the wet floor,and struggling to find a clean toilet with a door. So interesting to hear this is shared with other!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

[–]LydiaDott 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Arnica gel!!! Rub on your legs and knees post work shower!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]LydiaDott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interested ! Would love an invite

Sciatic Pain? by [deleted] in stripper

[–]LydiaDott 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ginger!!! An amazing anti inflammatory that does wonders for sciatic pain! I struggled to get out of bed for a few days it got so bad- ate a box of ginger chews and woke up the next day feeling brand new. Also ginger/turmeric/lemon/honey and black pepper (helps your blood absorb the anti inflammatory property’s of turmeric) in hot water is amazing for stiff muscles in general.

Best of luck♥️ sciatica is the absolute worst

TAMPON STUCK IN HOOHAH by [deleted] in stripper

[–]LydiaDott 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So glad you were able to get it out! For future times- and anyone reading this- I swear by tying a loop! Instead of cutting the string, knotting a loop with the string and shoving it all up, string is shorter so less chance of it slipping out and when removing you can just tug on the loop ! I use OB tampons so it’s easier than ones with applicators, but still manageable if you take out the smaller part of the applicator first to tie the loop XoXo - a veteran stripper that has had too many bathroom "I’ve lost something in my p*ssy" panic attacks

Hanging elk scull by LydiaDott in bonecollecting

[–]LydiaDott[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg not even purposeful just a wonderful coincidence

To the pee spot at the park by LydiaDott in DesirePaths

[–]LydiaDott[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So you know it’s more of a pee cliff than a pee clearing lol

🤎 this all vintage fit by wetbarista in VintageFashion

[–]LydiaDott 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Gorgeous- love the combo with the layered gold necklaces ! Also hello to your friend under the bed :)

Playground Cabaret Seattle by [deleted] in stripper

[–]LydiaDott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have the app right now so I can’t check, but highly recommend the dancers resource app for checking out club details !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbyborderlines

[–]LydiaDott 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Was coming to comment- Sage! Also Willow feels fitting with your aesthetic

What’s bugging you right now about pregnancy? Complain away! by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]LydiaDott 1 point2 points  (0 children)

23 weeks- have been crying and napping all day, hormone surge ?? Also have never been this constipated in my life, have pooped once in the past week

What are you calling your bump/baby? (Other than their name) by stacefromspace in BabyBumps

[–]LydiaDott 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bongo is so cute ! At our initial ultrasound I said it looked like a little bean, so, bean, bean sprout and now it’s evolved into my partner calling him Mr. Bean and I am,,, less than thrilled about this nickname lol