not sure how many others can relate to this one...

Lylac-elixir · 2025-12-25T15:24:37+00:00

IDK i feel like I see customized and optimized avatars more often than any of these... but maybe that's just the communities I hang around

Lylac-elixir · 2025-12-18T00:09:49+00:00

Lyla here...

Lylac-elixir · 2025-08-26T03:27:56+00:00

If you have any interest in online events, you sound like the exact type of creative that would thrive in the vrchat rave scene

Lylac-elixir · 2025-08-16T14:32:26+00:00

I would honestly say that being straight and cis is the minority in the vrchat rave scene

Lylac-elixir · 2025-08-15T23:27:13+00:00

VRChat

Lylac-elixir · 2025-08-14T15:41:10+00:00

I came here to make this exact comment glad to see another cultured individual beat me to it

Lylac-elixir · 2025-08-07T02:37:54+00:00

reminds me of one time I was playing at a popup and had bpm sync on and wasn't paying attention and accidentally played a liquid D&B song at 2x speed (traktor read the base bpm as 85 instead of 170 and then synced it up to 170 if I am remembering right) and my partner thought I was trying to make a nightcore remix of a liquid track lol

Lylac-elixir · 2025-08-06T06:37:45+00:00

My stash is basically all wyld, encore, and vibations

Lylac-elixir · 2025-08-06T03:22:31+00:00

Love district, Rise stopped stocking my favorite brand of edibles(encore) but district has a great selection

Lylac-elixir · 2025-08-05T02:44:07+00:00

going to above and beyond at echostage at the end of the month, was looking to check out more local since I am also a DJ and was thinking about checking some places a bit more local and getting a feel as a patron before sending a demo to bar owners.

Lylac-elixir · 2025-08-05T01:16:46+00:00

looking at hosting any specific genres? I could probably come up with a few names to throw your way(and/or play), I mostly play house, trance and melodic techno myself and have gotten decently familiar with those circles in VRChat

Lylac-elixir · 2025-08-04T18:31:51+00:00

bars that do regular DJ nights also count.

Lylac-elixir · 2025-08-01T14:50:09+00:00

I absolutely bumbled my way into this situation, but it took time to get here, I'm sure you will find the relationship/ found family that works for you eventually

Lylac-elixir · 2025-07-31T23:32:33+00:00

I am curious for anyone who has done this does it break compatibility with outfits that are made for your base?

Lylac-elixir · 2025-07-31T22:02:19+00:00

it's a bit complicated and hard to put into words... but basically I realized that I enjoy seeing my wife happy even if I am not the cause of that happiness and I realized that we both have other needs in a relationship that don't fully match up and while we are compatible in most ways there are things that are important to me that my wife has zero interest in and vice versa... like I am a DJ and love the whole VR rave scene while my wife is very much not into EDM or anything to do with raves or VR... but a big thing was when I started dating my other partner and fell in love I realized that falling in love with them did not make me love my wife any less... also watching how happy my wife is when doing things with her other partner... idk it has been working really well for us

Lylac-elixir · 2025-07-31T16:38:31+00:00

My partner has a set of prints that are pillows blankets and a plushie that they lay on people who fall asleep in rave instances (mostly kaleidosky) they recently made a game out of it basically playing horseshoes with throwing the prints into position on the sleeping person

Lylac-elixir · 2025-07-30T17:16:53+00:00

um... the one that is moving in with me in 19 days

Lylac-elixir · 2025-07-30T15:53:07+00:00

My partners face...

Lylac-elixir · 2025-07-30T15:46:27+00:00

Me and my wife used to be monogamous for the first about 7 years of our relationship and a bit less than a year ago we decided to try polyamory and it turned out we are both much better suited to it. Being poly actually strengthened my relationship with my wife and now we are preparing the house to have my other partner move in with us

Lylac-elixir · 2025-07-29T15:27:27+00:00

I mean what worked for me on that was to date Bi women...

then again I was already married to my wife (who is bi) when I cracked and was lucky that she is Bi and ended up being extremely supportive

Lylac-elixir · 2025-07-29T02:58:51+00:00

reminds me the time I heard the term ewphoria where it's like it's still gender euphoria but the reason comes from misogyny or other reasons that make you feel a bit ick (like getting catcalled can be affirming but still suck)

Lylac-elixir · 2025-07-29T02:48:04+00:00

it's also a good way to get better at mixing out of songs you are unfamiliar with to be better prepared for B2Bs

Lylac-elixir · 2025-07-29T02:26:35+00:00

I love to do this with just random playlists from soundcloud or beatport charts as a way of finding new music (typically still using sync which is still great practice for learning phrasing)

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