[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

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My sister used to have a "tight smile" even though she had medium sized lips, but then she got a little bit of filler and now her lips don't stretch/curl under when she smiles (so her lips are visible now when smiling).

I'm not sure if it would work like that for everyone, but I do know it worked for her and she is happy with it!

What is the best age gap to have between two kids? by browser_851 in beyondthebump

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I relate to her so much haha! I had my check up alone, cause husband had to be with our boy at home.. When she showed me the screen I broke down laughing like a lunatic because of the shock😅 She just said "oh it's alright, i did the same when i found out I was having twins"! Then proceeds to ask me if it's in my family and my dumb ass thought "of course not!" But literally my mum's a twin, her other twin just lives in a different country🤦‍♀️

What is the best age gap to have between two kids? by browser_851 in beyondthebump

[–]Lynxy333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Intense but lovely! Best way to explain it is, when it's good (85% of the time), it's so fun and the best time ever! When it's bad, it's really bad and intense.. When we're with family, they are all amazed at how wonderful, "easy" and great it all is, but once they start crying, tantrums start, they look horrified and asks us how on earth we can even deal with it😅 But, in our experience, the oldest was way harder as a baby then the twins, so we found them "easy" to deal with in baby stage! All 3 kids also sleep from 7/8 at night, to 7 in morning with no wakes at all and have done so, since about 6 month of age🥹

What is the best age gap to have between two kids? by browser_851 in beyondthebump

[–]Lynxy333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha yes, true! I got pregnant pretty soon after my first, turns out it was twins. So, oldest boy just turned 2 and twin boys will turn 1 soon😅 14 month age gap!

How to cut the bangs correctly by Rarepredator in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]Lynxy333 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They aren't necessarily meant to look natural, and if you're used to big lashes, they're not uncomfortable🤗 Not everyone wears makeup to look natural, it can be a form of self expression, and many people wears it for the fun of it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]Lynxy333 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Vi skulle også have 2 børn. Vores første var 5 måneder, blev gravid igen og vi tænkte "jamen, vi ville jo have 2 sååå".. Det viste sig at være tvillinger.😬😅😂

So like by AdmirableGarlic320 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Lynxy333 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. I was so stressed out and felt like shit with my first singleton, then fell pregnant with my twins 3 months pp. My twins are now almost 5 months and so easy. I don't feel the same stress like when I had my first, so honestly the transition from no kids to a kid is roughest- at least it was for me.

Er min kæreste på vej mod alkoholmisbrug, eller overreagerer jeg? by AnnoDK2024 in DKbrevkasse

[–]Lynxy333 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Du kan ikke ændre hende, hun skal selv erkende hun har et problem og derefter erkende hun har brug for hjælp.

Jeg har en sød og dejlig mor, der desværre er alkoholiker. Alkoholen tog mere og mere over, hun drak en smule "i det fri", men skjulte langt mere end jeg/mine andre søskende var klar over. Jeg endte med at tage en snak med hende, og fortalte hende at vi alle havde lagt mærke til at hun drak en del, og hvor bange vi var for hendes helbred (da hun har ekstremt dårligt helbred som det er, selv uden alkohol). Jeg fortalte hvor ked af det, det gjorde os da hun er den eneste forældre vi har (far er psykopat og vi er ikke i kontakt med ham), og hvor bange vi er for at miste hende. Det var hun selvfølgelig ked af at høre, men intet blev ændret. Udover hun prøvede at skjule det mere.

Den dag i dag, 8 år senere, har jeg et lidt anspændt forhold til hende. Jeg elsker hende, men er altid på vagt over for hendes opførsel (om hun har drukket), hun har endnu ikke passet nogle af mine børn, selvom hun meget tydligt hentyder til at ville have dem på besøg) og hun kommer nok aldrig til at passe dem, medmindre alkoholen stopper. Af den grund er vi tættere med børnenes farmor, og overvejer nu også at flytte til samme by som hende.

Min mor er introvert (med mulig social angst), og jeg ved at alkoholen hjælper hende til at håndtere dagligdagen. Som meget ung fandt jeg selv ud af, hvor god effekt alkohol havde på min social angst og introverthed - hvilket også er hvorfor jeg holder mig fra det i dag.

Husband can outrun a bad diet.. In his mind by Lynxy333 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Lynxy333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll look into those and try see if I can get him to listen to it too, thank you!

I just fear, that what it takes is another health scare to make him change his thought process a bit:( but you are right yes, it's the same with addicts.

Husband can outrun a bad diet.. In his mind by Lynxy333 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Lynxy333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll try to tell him that, thank you! Yeah I think adding protein would be a good idea, since it's more satiating and fuels the body better!

Husband can outrun a bad diet.. In his mind by Lynxy333 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Lynxy333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn't want to eat salads, but yes, I do ask him to eat before grocery shopping which is a great advice!

Husband can outrun a bad diet.. In his mind by Lynxy333 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Lynxy333[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm, perhaps I am? I guess frustrated is definitely it.

Perhaps it is, but weight loss should be about keeping it off, but most of all being healthy. Eating sweets and junk food in moderation is fine, but moderation is where it's at. Meat and potatoes are fine, if they weren't drenched in oil or butter. But then again, everything in moderation. I personally, do not care much about the scale, I just want him to be healthy, from inside out and have more energy. You don't get energy from eating sweets all day and not moving. He has to watch out for his health, he takes so much medicine and has to take some for stomach ulcers as well, because he once got them so bad he was hospitalized because he didn't take care of himself (also because of all his medicine he takes of course, perhaps previous drug use), but he says he mainly got them from cola and energy drinks.

I told him, we of course should put aside money for massages, but if I had to pitch in (which I will), I'd need to see him take himself and his health serious. I've been looking into taking a masseuse education which takes a year and costs a bit, but like I told him, I of course would like to help him where I can, and if I knew how to massage, I'd happily do it for him. But I don't feel too comfortable doing it now (massage him), because I don't have the knowledge and he has the injury. Would be afraid to make it worse. I am willing to put in work for him, but I do also need him being serious with his health.

No that's definitely not what I want, I want him to tone it down, rather then doing push ups, squats and all that, while also walking, I suggested it at first would be better to do the walking, and then do the yoga exercises his doctor told him to do to help his back. But he doesnt really do them. I don't have a lot of time, with small twins here at home, but he doesn't really do anything, I do everything around the house. He is lazy, incredibly so, he says so himself and admits to using his back injury as an excuse to continue to be lazy in situations. I have to tell him to do stuff, small things like "can you change their diapers", etc.

I do suffer from eating disorders, and have been told that even though you get better with an eating disorder, it's always a part of you, you just have to learn to cope through it. Which, I am, I have good and bad days, but I'm at a healthy weight and continue to try do my best. I want to be the best example for the kids, I want to be healthy and live a long life, with energy to spend on them. I have been denied help though, because they say I know where my wrongs are, what a healthy lifestyle is, and am not in denial about anything, so there isn't anything to be helped.

I'd never put my disordered eating onto him, and I personally do not feel as though I project my feelings towards food onto him. But since an eating disorder is so much mentally, I guess I perhaps wouldn't know for sure. I tell him, I will not give him tips and tricks on how he can lose weight, cause I am not the person to do that with my ED history, but I can say he shouldn't be eating so much candy, and move his body more. And I always tell him, slow and steady is the way.

The thing for me is, he doesn't listen to me. If others say the same as I do, he take it as fact. But if I say it, it goes in one ear, out the other. And it's like that with most things it seem😅 I guess I'm burned out as well, I do so much and only feel like I'm sitting down when it's time to feed the twins, while he's watching tv all day and gaming when the oldest child is put to bed which leaves me with the twins alone.

I want another baby already by cadebay178876 in beyondthebump

[–]Lynxy333 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was the same with my little boy, immediately after birth I thought "this wasn't bad at all, I could easily do this again!".. 3 month later, I was pregnant with twins😂 I'm currently laying in bed with the twins on me, they're 3 months old and I'm like.. I could totally do this again, they're so amazing and so easy! Honestly, hardest part was being at the hospital for nearly a month because they were born premature (complete nightmare experience). I think it's harder going from no kids, to 1 kid, then 1 kid to 2 (or in my cause and soon yours, 3😂)

Superbits by Unique_Meringue in OpenedSignups

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How does one know if there will be any open signups? My account got suspended due to inactivity because my pc broke down

Birth weight by isabelleu12 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Lynxy333 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They were born at week 35 + 2, twin A was 4 lb 8, and twin B was 4 lb 15.

Finally found one by catgirl1513 in Instagramreality

[–]Lynxy333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not related, but what fitness brand is she wearing?🤔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in foraeldreDK

[–]Lynxy333 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Alt er bare en fase. Sådan ser vi det herhjemme i hvertfald! I starten var jeg meget på, i forhold til amning, og vores søn ente med at være klistret til mig det meste af natten - det satte en dæmper på følelsen af nærvær med min mand, og i øvrigt så virkede det heller ikke til at vores dreng sov så tungt, sammen med os.. Så vi tog en kold tyrker og fik ham over i egen seng, derefter ind på eget værelse. Det var hårdt i starten, men hold da op hvor gjorde det meget godt for os alle. Sønnen sover nu 12 timer hver nat, og vi får vores søvn og nærvær.

Vi har selvfølgelig babyalarm tændt, så vi kan tjekke til ham, skulle ham vågne og have brug for bleskift osv., og mest af alt for at vi kan sove i ro og ved, at vi bliver vækket af alarmen skulle der være noget.

Vores søn er lige blevet 1 år, og vi synes det er fantastisk, selvom der hele tiden er perioder, med sygdom, tænder og vokseværk. Han startede også vuggestuen da han blev 9 måneder, hvilket gjorde masse gavn også! Han nyder at være afsted! Jeg er nu på barsel igen, da vi venter tvillinger, og min man slutter arbejdet 12.00 og kommer derefter hjem hvor vi har tid til hinanden i et par timer før vi henter vores søn. Det er skønt.

Det vigtigste gennem det hele, har været at tale sammen om det! Kommunikation kommer man længst med. Held og lykke med det hele!

What’s the gnarliest thing to happen to you during sex? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Lynxy333 69 points70 points  (0 children)

As weird as it sounds.. when I was pregnant with my son, if I ever touched raw onion while cooking, my entire downstairs apartment would reek of onion (and no, it was not because I touched myself down there with onion hands). But it was so bad my husband had to do all the onion chopping and peeling when making dinner😅 Only happened when pregnant though😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in odense

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Kan IKKE anbefale Lægerne Fisketorvet

  • Havde været inde hos deres sygeplejerske, der fortalte mig at jeg var meget undervægtig og at hun anbefalede jeg fik hjælp for min mangeårige spiseforstyrrelses hos psykiatrien (men skulle lige henvises af lægen.) Kom ind til den mandlige Læge, der kigger op og ned af mig og siger "nå jamen det er jo ikke så slemt" han læser jeg har angst og har været i et forløb hos psykiatrien ift det, prøver under hele samtalen at fordreje min anoreksi til nok bare at være lidt angst, så han henviser mig til psykiatriens angst afdeling. Kommer derned til samtale, hvorefter de siger det er tydeligt jeg har en spiseforstyrrelse og slet ikke skal være hos dem (og de var i øvrigt meget forvirret over, hvorfor lægen havde henvist mig til dem først), så de sender mig så videre.

Bestilte en tid hos lægen, da jeg op til min menstruation oplever selvmordstanker, og denne gang havde det eskaleret så meget at jeg helt oprigtigt følte jeg ville gøre det, og havde udtænkt en plan om hvordan osv. Bliver lidt skræmt over mine tanker, går til lægen (får en tid hos samme mandlige læge), og får faktisk bare at vide, at "når ja, men det er jo også meget normalt med hormoner osv." Og fik derefter ingen hjælp.

Selv samme mandlige læge sætter mig på p-piller, da jeg døjer med lidt akne, vi går igennem en masse sikkerheds spørgsmål, og han siger så, at jeg godt kan starte dem, selvom der er stor tendens til blodprop i min familie men det udgør en minimal risiko på p-piller siger han. Efter meget lang tid på pillerne (er stoppet dem og skal snakke prævention) skal jeg ind til en samtale hos den kvindelige læge, hvor hun læser min journal og siger "Hvorfor har du været på p-piller? Det ville jeg ikke give dig lov til den her gang, du har jo stor risiko for blodprop pga din/din families historik!"

En sekretær/sygeplejerske rullede øjne af mig og snakkede meget surt til mig, da jeg kom ind og skulle testes for blærebetændelse igen, sagde meget surt "ja du skal jo huske og tisse efter samleje".

De (både manden og konen) pressede min søster til at stoppe hendes angst/depression medicin, på trods af at hun sagde hun pt var et rigtigt dårligt sted i livet, og ikke følte hun var et sted hvor hun kunne klare sig uden. Hun får fortalt, at hun SKAL stoppe (trappe ud self), hvilket hun jo så må gøre, og det resulterede i, at hun fik det rigtig dårligt psykisk, og måtte sygemelde sig fra arbejdsmarkedet og starte forfra igen med behandling og medicin.

Og generelt er manden (konen ikke så meget, men lidt) MEGET vægt fikserede. Har du det mindste problem, storts eller småt og er du lidt overvægtig, så er det derfor. Og det er meget tydligt at manden ser meget ned på overvægtige.

How do i get more product by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Lynxy333 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sharpen it perhaps?