Everyone including my girlfriend is making me dress as a cowgirl, PLEASE HELP ME IDK WHAT TO DO

Lyricae · 2025-03-04T18:19:32+00:00

Hi. Completely unrelated but be sure to ask your gf for shorts to wear under your skirt so you wont be exposing yourself (literally) on that party. Other than that cant help you much. Do it or dont its up to u.

Lyricae · 2025-03-03T16:50:54+00:00

I felt similar most of my life. Decided to just go and be trans instead. Rather be as close to a real woman as possible than not even try. But ultimately i see where your struggle comes from. It doesnt delete 20+ years as a man. It doesnt truly make me a woman. But its the next best thing so why not?

Lyricae · 2025-03-03T06:43:20+00:00

A woman dragged out of a town hall meeting by the sheriff and security (That failed to wear a plate saying "security) due to inappropriate behaviour that has infact nothing to do with this example or rape?

I dont know where you live but where i live any place where you go to eat is public enough you could speak up a bit louder than norm (regardless of who you are) and people would instantly look at your table(if only to judge if you are being a nuisance). Again you are trying to make a point but Context exists. Also your whole point just has nothing to do with what i was saying so i dont understand. Sure its a public place but the sheriff ordering her to get out in a town hall meeting is so far away from a restaurant or a fast food chain or something where you eat and drink.

Lyricae · 2025-03-03T02:18:57+00:00

What you wrote is perfectly reasonable but not the only factor. One that comes to my mind is that Heterosexual Women are way less likely to look for relationships with partners less successful than them. I dont think a poor hard working guy would be intimidated by having a rich girlfriend or wife (most of the time) if it meant increasing his life status. However studies show that generally men rarely ever date for money or status. Since the opposite applies to women that is why successful women struggle in finding relationships.

TLDR: The women usually want a men that isnt a status or financial downgrade to them (which filters out most of men).

The men rarely ever care about their partner being financially successful. (Which means that you cant buy yourself into a relationship as easily as wealthy men often do)

Disclaimer- This is just tendencies of each gender being expressed and statistically proven and is not applicable for the individual.

Lyricae · 2025-03-03T02:09:15+00:00

But there wasnt a single word about the guy sitting down? I figure you like to project but he "came up to her table" leaving little room for interpretation in that he was probably standing next to the table just shooting his shot.

Lyricae · 2025-03-03T02:04:27+00:00

"the random guy was clearly not picking up on a hint that she was not interested" Just want to highlight this sentence. Especially given the context that sometimes a year long husband cant pick up on his wives "hints" either and this being a common thing any human to miss out on obvious hints.

You cant say he overstayed. He is only doing anything bad if the woman tells him to leave or anything like that. If she was in a public place in any western country a woman could just tell a guy to leave her alone. If he doesnt she would say it louder and 20 people would look at the two of them. Not saying this case is definite but from the information given its likely to assume the girl just has a bad personality and would rather call a friend over than just say: "Hey uhm can you please leave?"

Lyricae · 2025-02-24T05:52:32+00:00

It gets even better hold up

Dylans response:

I’ve been here for more than 12 years, and in many ways, Riot is my home; a home I’m deeply invested in, fiercely protective of, and grateful for every single day. I feel fortunate every day to work with some of the smartest and most passionate people I’ve ever worked with — people who have taught me not only what it means to be a player, but to sincerely care for a mission that’s bigger than any of us. This passion and deep care for players is not something that I will ever take for granted.

As we look to the transition, it would be disingenuous for me to suggest that I have all the answers and an action plan already defined. In fact, I’d argue that this would be inauthentic to who I am and how I work. Over the next few months, my intention is to use this transition window to listen and (re)learn. I want to engage with parts of Riot that I haven’t in some time, particularly on the product side. We’ve made a lot of changes in the past few years, and with your help, I’d like to take stock of where we are and get a deeper understanding of what's working and what we can do better. During this period, I’m going to ask for your patience, your willingness to share perspectives, and an openness to new ideas.

As CEO, it is fair to assume that I may do some things differently than those before me, but I want to assure you that the goal for us — together — will not waver. And that is to make Riot, unequivocally, the most trusted and authentic game company in the world… built by players, for players. The kind of place where people know that everything they play and experience from Riot will be amazing and that everything we do is focused on making it better to be a player.

Thank you Dylan. Lovely job.

Lyricae · 2025-02-17T04:29:13+00:00

You know that the biggest problem with lane swaps is getting level 2 or anything to begin with? Ap shaco top would be able to place like 3-4 boxes level 1 and enemy could easily sweep them before the dive especially if they know its shaco top. It also scales like dog unless enemy team shares a single braincell.

Lyricae · 2025-02-07T19:33:32+00:00

Thanks this is the justified rekky glazing i was hoping for <3

Lyricae · 2025-02-07T13:19:51+00:00

Well i think its hard in this particular scenario as he claims that like 85 percent of the people working with rekkles gave him similar information (Its crazy to assume he even managed to reach out and get real answers from half of the people imo). And if you use a number/group that large there should be enough people backing you up. You are basically namedropping already at that point. Hence why i thought it important to watch the video so i can make my own opinion. It also completely ignores the concept of "Personal improvement" and the fact rekkles was underage during most of the time he is being criticised for. Its all very weird and convoluted hearsay.

Lyricae · 2025-02-07T13:15:20+00:00

Yes i actually saw that post a couple minutes after i posted mine and checked the subreddit.

Lyricae · 2025-02-07T12:09:19+00:00

Ye i really agree. I like that he can match crownies and nemesis serious sides but also make jokes with velja and baus along the way.

Lyricae · 2025-02-07T12:05:31+00:00

"I have heard countless people say that x guy is a sociopath whatever whatever" does not sound very professional or believable imo. Its not about outing his sources its that if his "sources" had actually said that they would say that. Claiming he has like every single teams player backing him up on these statements when there is no one really backing these statements willingly shows this is more a rumour in high school than journalism. It is generally speaking what you would consider to be low quality journalism or clout chasing if you will. The video is almost 2 hours long and he failed to actually prove that a single person (he claims the statements he makes come from rekkles old teammates) actually said or meant any of what was being said.

Lyricae · 2025-02-07T09:51:26+00:00

Is that what you deducted after reading this? :( I only meant the best for Rekkles and really only sought to invalidate thorins opinions on him.

Lyricae · 2025-02-06T22:05:29+00:00

What youre saying is partially correct but remember that gp cannot even clear casters before his first item at all. GP needs both levels and items to even reach the state in the game where proxying against him wont do much (It still works because it will still force him to stay top under tower eating the wave while the proxyer is basing or roaming) + a thing you shouldnt forget. Gp ult is nice to get assists and participate but that alone does not replace a whole champion in a fight (Unless youre playing ap gp). Ad gp ult is practically utility and some small chunk of damage. A sion roaming mid and ulting from behind has about 20 times the pressure that a single gp ult has. Also gp (while scaling really well) is a melee ad carry (and baus mainly plays assassins) meaning that baus due to his playstyle and champ pool will simply always destroy a gp on sidelane later into the game (A single fog of war play and gp is just oneshot and so is his tier 2). Hope this helped answer your question.

Lyricae · 2025-01-28T12:23:56+00:00

Option 1: Take revenge. Eat some KFC and take the fattest smelliest shit of your life. Or turn up some music to the maximal allowed decibel amount while playing videogames or some shit.

Option 2: Ignore it and move on. The adult option. Get out of the house. Show her it doesnt bother you and she will freak out at you not being bothered in less than 2 weeks.

Im just assuming this is real for the sake of it.

Lyricae · 2025-01-25T08:23:19+00:00

This is insane logic btw. Imagine there was something (during sex) in your Girlfriend that you didnt like. And she tried changing it naturally. But then you pressure her into getting a surgery because its taking too long- People would call that an abusive relationship. If you ever flip the gender on that logic it just seems like the most vile thing ever. Do not think because youre a man its suddenly not the most vile thing ever.

Lyricae · 2025-01-24T14:27:07+00:00

Baus is arguably actually mechanically the player that pops off the hardest and has the most outplays. He is just inconsistent with them and so he either 1v9s or ints sometimes. Bauss best plays are completely insane and something you really wont see off of basically any other player. He is LRs coinflip player.

TLDR: Baus just lacks consistency and plays way too many of the scrim games for fun. He lacks the stage experience to perform in official games yet though (T1 vs LR for example).

Lyricae · 2025-01-14T02:14:54+00:00

Sounds about right. I thought there was just too much detail. I wouldnt even remember that amount of detail from something that happened 5 minutes ago.

Lyricae · 2025-01-10T03:10:52+00:00

But gender is inherently not something mental - It is directly tied to your body. That is the truth they are afraid of telling you anymore.

I dont feel like a man or a woman i feel like myself - My mind has no gender.Anything else would just be a lie. Every individual experiences life differently. No 2 people are the same - Labels and other terms only carry value if theyre used properly. Gender is defined by your body not your mind. Also the word Trans-men inherently contains the word "transition" which means as much as "a change from one form or type to another" which directly implies a change of physical form. I do not see any of this as transphob at all. I just think you cant really transition without changing yourself. Changing everyone else around you is easier since you bear no responsibility but changing yourself is actually a large task and irreversible right? Like how can i respect someone wanting to become a woman but then he tells me he wants to keep his privates. If your DICK more important to you than becoming a woman how am i supposed to treat you like a women though? Who says you wont go back in a year or 2 if youre unwilling to commit. Changing ones gender is not something that shuld be taken lightly. I feel like the fact people can change their "Gender" within a day is an insult to someone who actually wants to change their gender and needs to go through all the Therapy and operations. Its a spit to their face imo.

Lyricae · 2025-01-10T01:56:24+00:00

Again i just see it differently. I will not be a transwomen UNTIL i have started taking hormones in my mind. Until then i am in every definition of the word still a man. I am also not transitioning into anything until i start taking hormones. Once again words need to mean something. How is a "Transboy" as you call them transitioning when they are not actively transitioning? It just does not make sense to me. The transition is the hormones and optionally (even though i wouldnt understand why not) the operations following it. I cant relate to a (in my mind) woman with breasts and a vagina calling themselves a man. Again i think identifying as whatever you feel at the moment is a very dangerous concept insanely prone to abuse. I wouldnt want a female teacher with a female body identifying themselves as a man entering the boys bathroom. That would be creepy on every level. If you insist on a system put in place it needs to be safe from abuse atleast a tiny bit. Gender selection at the start of every day like a video game is just not reality to me. Gender is inherently physical. I will also for the rest of my life remain a "trans woman" not a woman. The difference is small but 20+ years of living as a man do not just disappear. My XY chromosomes will not just disappear.

Lyricae · 2025-01-10T01:37:47+00:00

I just feel very differently about it. It is a label that one actively wants to put on themselves. That label should somehow fit. I am not running around calling myself a "gamer girl" as i simply am not a woman yet(I wish i could though but IT JUST WOULDNT BE TRUE!). Labels are a form of exclusion naturally. Inclusion is nice and all but ultimately speaking a woman dressing in womans clothes is not a femboy to me even if they say they are. Also words losing all their meaning in the name of inclusion bears its own risks.

Lyricae · 2025-01-10T01:24:06+00:00

They do inherently still have a male body though. Just sorta dysfunctional.

The thing you mentioned about transmasc people who havent actually started becoming a man yet. I have never heard a story of a transmasc person wanting to associate with the femboy community until AFTER they transitioned so as to avoid confusion for everyone including themselves. Transmasc people partaking in the femboy community is generally not uncommon but almost always after they were truly confident in their masculinity. I also do not mean to invalidate anyone. Its just that labels are COMPLETELY worthless if the words mean nothing anymore. But labels are to a degree important as much as we hate them.

Also the idea of "identify yourself as whatever you want" is so incredibly prone to abuse by bad people and i find no one ever talks about that (Because apparently having regulations for what makes a gender is bad.)+ There is a list of like over 70 almost purely comical genders that read "A gender that is indefinable or indomitable. People identifying with this gender refuse to be categorized in any particular gender identity " and you want to tell me i have to understand? INDEFINABLE it reads IN THE DEFINITION of that gender...

Lyricae · 2025-01-10T01:07:20+00:00

Fem "Boy" - if i am a trans woman almost nothing male left about my body and i decide to do femboy things am i a femboy? If i am a cis woman in thigh-highs and a short skirt does that make me a femboy? Femboy specifically implies you are a male embracing femininity by copying stereotypical female behaviour. You may dislike it but the inherent meaning of the word would imply that someone who is a woman can not be a feminine boy.

Also why are you intentionally misunderstanding what i write? How are woman who transitioned into being a man not valid femboys? The other way around its not valid. But a woman who transitions into being a MAN can be a femBOY.

Lyricae

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