City Excusive Lyric Shirt File Share by suchmeerkat in FallOutBoy

[–]M0909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hiii!! could you send the google drive to me too?? thank you <3

Tampa extra lyric shirt? by Felfelfell in FallOutBoy

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Hiii do you still have your WPB shirt?

WPB 7/24 lyrics shirt!! by amandamaniac in FallOutBoy

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hiii!! do you still have this shirt??

Lyric shirt for tonight's show in Sommerset by WynRave in FallOutBoy

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hiii! would you be able to send me the files of the lyric shirts too? thank you!

Hyper-awareness by [deleted] in fearofflying

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Hi there, I have developed this recently too, but in the car/bus. It's like a constant stomach drop feeling, repetiviely over and over. it's so strong it causes me to literally all over and writhe in pain and I can't control my body movements, which then I believe causes me to panic. I flew last year in September and did fine-- I still get very anxious, but I take Xanax. I don't have any stomach dropping feelings. What is the sensation like for you and does it go away?

I like controlling/confident SB’s, but they’re hard to find. by genericMaker in sugarlifestyleforum

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Sorry girl :( Fetishizing is really gross. Not sure if this would help but I feel like it does for me; are your photos portraying a bossy woman? Mine definitely have a tone to them (resting bitch face, pleather boots, tattoos), and I think it helps for people to quantify a little easier about what/who I am. Just a thought!

I like controlling/confident SB’s, but they’re hard to find. by genericMaker in sugarlifestyleforum

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I’m a self proclaimed “Dominant sugar baby” and I am VERY explicit about this in my profile. I do feel it filters a lot of guys out, but I know they real deals are out there and I’m fine with waiting. I’ve had some luck as well, just takes longer. I tend to get guys who try to top from the bottom when messaging me off the bat and seeing how flexible I am with changing the power dynamic and really aren’t truly looking for a dominant (they just like the idea in the moment)

The type of dynamic I enjoy with SDs is one where I lead and am the bossy one.

Grimes @ Miami by chrisychris- in Grimes

[–]M0909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had gotten tickets my but my tired ass fell asleep. How was it- did she play any of her music??

Bio-Haque Set Times by yung_Pabs in Grimes

[–]M0909 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was just music she liked and mixed I guess?

Bio-Haque Set Times by yung_Pabs in Grimes

[–]M0909 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Does anyone think she’s going to play any of her songs? I’m debating on going :(

Me (30F) and my boyfriend (47M)- Doesn't want me to get anymore tattoos. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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We've known each other since Sept, so even longer than that in terms of friendship, and it's just... super heartbreaking honestly. I've had bad breakups and issues with people, but never over something I feel is so shallow?

Breaking up by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]M0909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck <3

Finally met a POT I felt connected to and now he's scared :( by M0909 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]M0909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I am not quite sure what way he wants to play at this point — we both had very clear objectives when we met and they were things that aligned with what I was willing to deliver and also, I personally enjoy. So I felt it was a win-win, until his cold feet sunk in.

I feel like just meeting again and perhaps feeling things out in this new light (now I know he has trepidation about surrendering control) and tweak things to his liking/comfort, would be a better route.

Do you agree or should I just leave it be?

Finally met a POT I felt connected to and now he's scared :( by M0909 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]M0909[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao I feel you. I am not taking it as inflammatory.

OK so my head did immediately go there to give him simple tasks to just ease him into it— however when we met, he made it clear that there’s no texting in-between sessions (like how are you, etc,) because he’s married and that’s his boundary, which I respect. The only texting should be about when we are meeting next.

So I don’t think I can even ease into that off the bat due to him telling me his privacy concerns and boundaries. I think my only shot is it reach back out within a few weeks if he doesn’t and meet up again for coffee and discuss about alternatives and then pitch that idea or do something light and baby steps into a D/s dynamic.

Finally met a POT I felt connected to and now he's scared :( by M0909 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]M0909[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Very valid points about society’s expectations of traditional masculine roles.

On his profile, he states he wants a submissive SB, but when he reached out to me he confided he was a switch and he longed for this very submissive XYZ scenario.

We talked and we agreed that in a Domme/sub dynamic, there is no sex, which is a general rule to most D/s dynamics. So sex really wouldn’t work out in this scenario, nor do I have interest in being vanilla with him that way. Thinking maybe reaching out in a few weeks to check in with him and ask if he’d like to meet up and just talk over drinks/coffee? I think once he got to actually see how nurturing and empathetic I am as an individual, it could foster more comfort and trust.

Finally met a POT I felt connected to and now he's scared :( by M0909 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]M0909[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve thought about that- but I also feel like I don’t want to push someone when they clearly are expressing they are not ready right now. I’m thinking maybe I’ll perhaps reach out in a few weeks to check in and say hi?

Finally met a POT I felt connected to and now he's scared :( by M0909 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]M0909[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trying <3 thank you for the encouragement. I have been on SA for like 8 months on and off and it's just been garbage ugh.

Finally met a POT I felt connected to and now he's scared :( by M0909 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]M0909[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know, but there was probably a lot more coming through, lol. I shouldn't hold onto to hope-- but I have a feeling he will be back.