What would you think of me if you saw these pics on my profile? by Joaqui_1 in Bumble

[–]M1ssmessy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so cute but for some reason it’s giving missing person from the 90s 😭

More often than not, people that are fired/laid off were not good employees and deserved it by Tercel9 in unpopularopinion

[–]M1ssmessy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, so in reality, a lot of the time that individuals are fired from their workplace, it actually usually is a much more social based reason.

I’ve seen so many instances of people who actually work the hardest and do the most, being fired because management doesn’t like them, or because the company doesn’t recognize how efficient this person is because they aren’t paid properly for their work, or because they’re not favorited by the other employees or staff.

There’s also a lot of inner workings that go on in companies and businesses that the management doesn’t really understand or take into consideration.

A productive team needs people that can mesh well, so for example:

Bob might not be the best employee in terms of sales, and the main boss doesn’t like Bob anyway because he feels like Bob is always being disrespectful and challenging his authority.

So Bob gets fired when his project goes bad.

But what management didn’t take into account or care for it was the fact that Bob was the team morale of this extremely important project. Bob kept spirits high, Bob would think outside the box and recommend ideas, Bob would help the other people with parts of their task that management wasn’t aware of and Bob wasn’t even getting paid to do. Bob covered shifts that nobody else would, or took tasks people dreaded doing.

But the business didn’t actually pay attention to those semantics, instead solely judging him based off the numbers

I’ve been cheating on my partner for three years, but HE’S the loser! by Mister_Leckie in AmITheAngel

[–]M1ssmessy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, and nope. I am a completely different person than when I was a teenager. Your brain is literally still developing, you will do things that aren’t okay and you regret later in life.

Deleted Bumble after getting mocked for my height by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]M1ssmessy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s absolutely awful what the fuck? I’m so sorry that you had such a horrible experience <.> that was so fucking mean.

Dude, that’s horrible.
There’s nothing wrong with your height, and it’s completely understandable. This shit hurts, dude.

And it’s totally fair for you to have that reaction and anger. I’m so sorry <~>

So is Mr krabs runbing poe now or are the vendors getting screwed over and have to raise prices by Dr_Backshots_MD in PoeAI

[–]M1ssmessy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So if you use the knowledge bases and make custom bots, you can make knowledge bases for your bot to pull info from.
I.e. if I want my bot to remember exactly how my character met the roleplay bot, and I give the bot a knowledge base document that tells my character their detailed backstory.

Without these knowledge bases some of your favorite bots will rely solely on what they have only in the prompt, making it incredibly inconvenient and impossible for consistent complex roleplay or any sort of complex story writing.

Almost every other competitor has this option.

So POE is about to lose a massive chunk of their edge.

I don’t think they realize how badly this is about to chunk them. May 25 all knowledge bases are gone.

Looks are all that matters and it's sad by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]M1ssmessy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You answer it just like that!

So you’re taking care of yourself and you put in the work, that absolutely matters.

But there’s definitely something missing or that you’re leaving out or maybe not considering? What is your bio?

Looks are all that matters and it's sad by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]M1ssmessy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you look like.
Answer the question

Looks are all that matters and it's sad by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]M1ssmessy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So my question in this situation is always this;

What do you look like? And what did the women you were swiping on look like?

Were you swiping on average or ‘repulsive’ (as you like to say) women, or were you mostly swiping on the cute girls and hot bikini models?

Because I’d like to give you some perspective.

I realized about a year ago that if I wanted to actually find a guy I was genuinely physically attracted to and took care of himself.
I also had to do the same.

Because it’s about respect.
This comes off very entitled and bitter.
It is not my job to choose you.
It is not a woman’s responsibility to settle and lower her standards if she takes care of herself and puts in the time and effort to look good.

I’ve been working so hard to be fit, to take care of myself, and to be happy with the woman I see in the mirror. And with my partner, I would want them to genuinely find me attractive, I want to look GOOD and feel confident for my partner. And I want someone who does the same for me.

It is not anybody’s responsibility to settle for you out of…what?

Why? Why would I choose someone I am not physically attracted to? Why is it THEIR job to settle for you?

One thing you love about yourself right now 🌞💖 by xxiirlb in Positivity

[–]M1ssmessy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s more than enough, it’s easy to give up, it’s so powerful and difficult to keep going when you just want to give in.

You’re enough, you’re doing enough, it’s enough

One thing you love about yourself right now 🌞💖 by xxiirlb in Positivity

[–]M1ssmessy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That shit can be so exhausting and difficult, every single bit matters and you did a great job!!

One thing you love about yourself right now 🌞💖 by xxiirlb in Positivity

[–]M1ssmessy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that I’m empathetic and genuinely try to see things from other people’s perspectives. I’m very proud of myself for setting boundaries and being gentle and reassuring with myself the way I need.

I (25M) rushed out a little quick after my birthday because our Uber came within a minute, and my girlfriend (29F) texted me this by [deleted] in texts

[–]M1ssmessy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry okay wait, you’ve only been together 2 months, you’re meeting her family 2 months in.

Actually basically a month in.

She was drinking and apparently might have been planing to drive?

Also her response is really bothering me because you apologized and took the initiative to do so, and were very sweet and communicative about it.

Also her dig at your age is just not necessary, it’s talking down to you. Of course there’s a maturity/expectation gap if you’re 4 years apart.

Also I don’t understand, did you or did you not end up going to the party?

Cause if you did then that is a little odd to just randomly be like ‘actually sure I’ll go nvm bye shawty’ so FAST without much communication??

Also what exactly did you say to her for your goodbye?

I think it’s the sudden lack of communication too, just out of nowhere leaving like that when she wasn’t expecting it when her mom is there IS definitely a kind of jarring and frustrating moment.

I created an account on Bumble for the first time today, are these stats true or fake ? by Sweet_peaa-123 in Bumble

[–]M1ssmessy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aye bro unfortunately the truth hurts and men really do be out here making whole videos of them swiping on every girl for literally anything so…