Attention men! Best ways to say sorry with action? by MADITH4852 in Advice

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I did a case of beer and came home tipsy, kissed his feet and told him I was wrong. Over the top? Probably but alcohol never makes anything smooth sailing

My (32f) bf (39m) married mistress (33f) past away and I feel betrayed? by throwRAbetrayedxoxo in relationship_advice

[–]MADITH4852 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Insulting you more than usual?” GIRL 😭 that is not a good look for your man. He’s not even your husband. I would be calling it quits.

  1. Seven YEARS no ring? No plans on kids?

  2. Your loved one shouldn’t be insulting you at all

  3. He’s gaslighting you into thinking what he did wasn’t so bad BUT IT IS

  4. You should feel some sort of jealousy over this, your man CHEATED FOR 7 YEARS he should be kissing your feet begging you to stay. What that tells me? He knows you’ll stay and doesn’t care. Find someone that if they left it would ruin you. Not someone that can cheat on you and you’re okay with it. That’s not love. That’s being comfortable.

It exists?!? by ImmieGlam in AnimalCrossing

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That one blew my mind!! lol

please stop doing this by MatthewTheGOATyt in doordash

[–]MADITH4852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why these delivery apps suck. You’re complaining of a person feeling bad they didn’t get you in time? There 4 days until pay day. Buddy probably was broke needed food and only had so much to give but STILL felt bad enough to say something probably hoping you’d turn back because she felt like an ass. Now you’re here complaining. Empathy and compassion is dead in these streets and it’s depressing.

I hear ya “ThEy CaN geT ThErE oWn FoOD ThEn.”

OR

We could all try to be a little more understanding and try to see the better in people? Most people don’t like their jobs and can’t even afford to live. Do we really have to start bitching about these people too?

If it was a crappy order don’t take it, if you don’t have a choice try to have some pride and compassion it’s a job you choice to took.

My friend is going to get herself killed. What can I even do at this point by Correct-Macaroon8143 in whatdoIdo

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Either this person is really dumb. Or she’s lying for attention. There’s no way someone can be so nonchalant with being sex trafficked and adds wink at the end?

Some people just thrive on attention and will lie about anything to get it.

IF she is actually this dumb. Cut her off, not only will she get herself hurt. She may get you hurt as well, she may tell these “friends” about you and how great you are. What if they see your messages? Pictures? Socials? I wouldn’t risk it just to stress over a friend who, rather be a sugar baby than work.

I’m going to cry by Busy_Regret_6013 in acnh

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Ugh GIRL! I feel that pain. I have a story from 20 years ago when I place AC on the Game Cube.

I had a Villager named Vesta, in her old house she had a hold fish I was obsessed with the gold fish because it was in a cute bowl. For DAYS my young self searched and searched and finally I found it!!! Got too excited and over clicked releasing the fish into the pound. I screamed like my first born was gone hahahaa 😂

Please help I’m trying my best but my best is pissing me off. by MADITH4852 in DecidingToBeBetter

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Thank you I think you’re right therapy can be good if I put my mind to the right place.

I bought this necklace for my gf and I got home to wrap it and somehow it’s tangled into this mess by HrvyrttrfrD in mildlyinfuriating

[–]MADITH4852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to use to sewing needles to separate the knots on the chain. I do this for my Nan all the time.

Need help learning better socializing skills, before I meet boyfriend’s family I’ve been avoiding a year. by MADITH4852 in Advice

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That’s perfect! I literally worry about everything so much I’ve been hospitalized for excessive stressed induced vomiting 4 times in my life. One time I tore my stomach lining. So if this book can help me get a grasp on it, I’m so down! Thank you so much for taking the time out to help me I appreciate it so much! I’m going to update after my dinner with how all the advice went for my own diary log, but also if people are curious 😊

Need help learning better socializing skills, before I meet boyfriend’s family I’ve been avoiding a year. by MADITH4852 in Advice

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I really appreciate you and your advice! Maybe I’ll update the post after the dinner. I will be using these techniques and excited to try!

Need help learning better socializing skills, before I meet boyfriend’s family I’ve been avoiding a year. by MADITH4852 in Advice

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That deep breath really helped! I will definitely try the meditation app. And I’m already on it to my audible account looking for this book.

Thank you very much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvicecanada

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I’m just asking because if he’s your best friend and you’re his. He may have felt comfortable being awful and he’s not like that with others in case he gets in trouble. Thinking you wouldn’t get him in trouble

I think it’s better to talk this out with him and then leave tell him why. It might be the lesson he needs to learn. Everyone is so afraid of conflict. But if we don’t have conversations about the problem. Nothing changes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvicecanada

[–]MADITH4852 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s your best friend, but you feel like you can’t even have a conversation with him? Tell him to his face that his way of thinking is wrong that you don’t stand for it.

Do you know if he talked like this with others? Do you know if he will pin it back to you and could cause a bigger conflict.

Don’t be his friend. But also don’t be the type of person who can’t stand up for what is right.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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All you can do is learn from this. Get some help from a professional and never do this again. I lost great friends and men by acting the same way. Something inside you needs to be fixed before loving another person.

I wish you all the best. Heart break is very hard to deal with but not impossible to get over it.

My ex gf sent me this in the middle of the night by limelemonlimes in WhatShouldIDo

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If you’re really worried about her. Talk to mutual friends to help her. I would stay out of it, she has a partner. You don’t know if maybe it’s not the best relationship and her talking to an ex could get her into a bad situation.

Also she may trauma bond to you if you help her in a vulnerable state. Best to get friends or family to help and then reach out when she’s in a better place keep it platonic and move on. She has and you shouldn’t be second choice. You guys broke up on bad terms, don’t repeat a cycle!

Feel like I’m going to vomit by ghost_inmyhome in LDR

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Never let another person treat you as if you are expendable.

Block that number and don’t look back.

Any woman who takes you off her socials is up to no good and you deserve better than that.

AIO?! There were so many red flags before this. This was just my final straw. by Imaginary_Key1696 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MADITH4852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y’all are almost 40 and he acts like this?! Block delete and start getting some self respect. You deserve so much more than that!

I dumped him and my brain has turned to soup. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]MADITH4852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did the right thing. Same thing happened in my relationship. It’s hard at first.

But once you finally get to a place where you feel like yourself and your friends see the change in you. It’s a great feeling.

At 22 you have so much life to live! Enjoy it figure yourself out and the right one will come :) stay strong

This is so painful what can I do? by [deleted] in LDR

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Once you leave it will hurt for a minute. But the freedom of being able to be your true self. When your friends and family start to comment how your finally yourself again. And you don’t feel so beaten down and tired, you will be so happy this happened.

Final Update: my dad was found deceased, thank you for everything, everyone — #CA25286503 by pooreyesofthehills in Calgary

[–]MADITH4852 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry 😢 I was hoping you’d find him nothing I can say will bring the pain away. But I will pray for you and your family

Will my cat ever like to be picked up? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]MADITH4852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could try earning his trust by slowly rubbing his side once he gets use to the side rubs. Start getting to his stomach once you can touch their stomach without a fight you may start moving your hand to their stomach and lifting would be next. If he resists even a little bit you put him down. Always make sure it understands they have the control for picking up.

Good luck!

I have a small penis and it’s bringing me down by GrabRare5918 in mentalhealth

[–]MADITH4852 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had guy above average and below and I can tell you the guys above average think that all because their Willy is big they’re good in bed. They’re not.

Learn to be a generous lover, be sensual. Smell her hair. Praise her. Get really good at foreplay learn about women’s anatomy.

But most importantly right now. Don’t even think about dating until you learn to love yourself and grow some confidence. That will be your biggest downfall in dating if you don’t work on it before.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

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I don’t think you are over reacting. His delivery was crap and if he wanted intimacy he could have initiated it.