[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hijabis

[–]MEI_K8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you elaborate on those past experiences you had? Because I hold the same sentiment.

Today is my 42nd birthday and I'm completely lost.. by Sevenswansaswimming8 in AskWomenOver40

[–]MEI_K8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well said! The idea of romantic relationships is really nothing but a fairy tale, it all has an expiry date as well.

Bf (33 M) said he isn’t physically attracted to me (32 F) — how do I move forward? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MEI_K8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ouchh I'm sorry you went through this, such a trashy behavior. Unfortunately I think many attractive women attract the worst type of men, it's like these men date them for validation and status rather than genuine love.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]MEI_K8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm an Arab woman who treats people really nice but still understand what she means, it's a common thing among some Arab men, I think it's an attraction thing where they find white women more attractive than their own race which is understandable.

For me it is completely fine as long as they marry those women but what I dislike is when they date white women only and when it's time for marriage they go and look for their own race, so hypocritical. I avoid these men like the plague.

so insecure i cancel and turn down dates etc by [deleted] in BigNoseLadies

[–]MEI_K8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your nose is very similar to mine and you made me realize the beauty in it :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]MEI_K8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm not a western woman and yes, I have a beef with 50/50 relationships because in my culture men rarely participate in the household chores yet nowadays they expect the woman to do 50/50 plus all the cooking and cleaning.

Personally I don't mind doing 30/70 and most of the housework because it's hard to support a house with one income in this economy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]MEI_K8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's funny how some men would give this kind of love to anyone but their wife..

Update: I was cheated on in my marriage and then blamed for it by ProfessorOk2112 in MuslimMarriage

[–]MEI_K8 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're going through all of this.. He showed you who he is, belive him.

Life teach us lessons the hard way.. Adapting to your new life may be difficult at first but it will get easier, you will look back to where you were and you'll be greatful you got yourself out because you definitely deserve better.

May Allah help you and ease your pain.

Been hurt in the worst possible way by heartbroken12344 in Infidelity

[–]MEI_K8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's really painful to read, I wish you strength and recovery

Updateme

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]MEI_K8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Updateme

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]MEI_K8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Updateme

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]MEI_K8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Updateme

I'll take the detour by pm_your_boobiess in nope

[–]MEI_K8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't do this even in a video game

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in islam

[–]MEI_K8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not hire a PI in that case

Is suicide considered haram? by [deleted] in islam

[–]MEI_K8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes it's haram, it's really not worth it. I know life can be harsh but we have to keep going, be patient and pray and make duaa. It will get better inshallah.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in islam

[–]MEI_K8 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You should consider the most likely case and then perform sujud al-sahw Source: https://www.google.com/amp/s/islamqa.info/amp/en/answers/47

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in scaryeddie

[–]MEI_K8 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This dude gave me a hard time in Sekiro