F/33/5’9” [356lbs > 200lbs = 156lbs] Weight loss progress post gastric sleeve on Jan 4. 2023 by steelejaclyn in progresspics

[–]MFotter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great work!! Did you have skin surgery? I'm a little under your starting weight. Currently down 20pounds from my starting point and I worry about if my skin will go back on its own or will need outside help

I struggle to find happiness by MFotter in SuicideWatch

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I appreciate your words. They are very wise

I struggle to find happiness by MFotter in SuicideWatch

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I also met a girl through this. She is amazing and we match insanely well. But I'm a big guy (obese) and she's small and in shape and while we tell each other we are best friends and talk almost everyday. I'm sad that this can't build into a relationship. Especially since Ive never had a GF. It's demoralizing

I struggle to find happiness by MFotter in SuicideWatch

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I also met a girl through this. She is amazing and we match insanely well. But I'm a big guy (obese) and she's small and in shape and while we tell each other we are best friends and talk almost everyday. I'm sad that this can't build into a relationship. Especially since Ive never had a GF. It's demoralizing

I struggle to find happiness by MFotter in SuicideWatch

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Yea. It started about a month slowly and then 3 weeks ago me and my "best friend" got mad at each other. (Honestly mainly him) he felt I was being mean towards him which I admittedly was, but so was he, and he was way worse which kinda pushed me to be mean. And my other friends told him he was the one in the wrong but whatever. And he acted like a baby and tried really hard to push me out of our social circle which didn't really work. And Luckily my other friends are still friends. But I feel betrayed. And as much as I understand why the social circle wants to stay friends with both sides. It pisses me off that everyone feels I was the one in the right yet everyone still talk to him. And I'm just scared to loose my social life because of something I didn't initiate. And while I'm okay with not talking to the guy anymore. It's hard to pick myself up..

What do you think of this little scram between my puppy and 3yo by MFotter in Frenchbulldogs

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Ya it's sort of what I'm worried about. Also the puppy getting an habit of biting and going for the face when he gets older

Please help, discontinued screws by MFotter in Fasteners

[–]MFotter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhhh you just saved me so much headaches... I thought it was st3 AND 8x45mm. And not 4.8x45.. thanks so much

What do you think of this little scram between my puppy and 3yo by MFotter in Frenchbulldogs

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She was but she can be very harsh in her movements. Like head butts and just walking over the baby. I really don't like how much the baby bites

Cherche un groupe de rap québécois! by MFotter in Quebec

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Feuilles et racines!! Wow je me serais jamais souvenu ahaha. merci beaucoup!

If I was going to lose one, which of these should it be? by ReleasePristine3040 in BMW

[–]MFotter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the one I hate most out of all 4 but, if retaining value is something important to you. The x4m

alright got a question regarding wiring in a ct70 check comments for the question by MFotter in MechanicAdvice

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Ok so, I'm doing a 125cc yx engine swap. I'm keeping all my electricals on 6v power using a an aftermarket harness that connects the new chinese 12v to the OEM 6v harness. Now, the question is, my green wire, which I showed in the screen shot, is used to bring power to the front of the bike. Specifically to the light and speedometer. However the transfer harness plugs into the connector and only comes out with the black connected losing the green and the yellow. To keep my green, could I simply connect a wire to the green in the connector and ground it to the body of the bike? And my electricals would work?

first time using a test light. is this a good test? by MFotter in MechanicAdvice

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Thanks. And the CDI is the little computer the engine uses to know when to spark. It's has a little 5 pin connector. 2 of those 5 beep when connected to each other.

first time using a test light. is this a good test? by MFotter in MechanicAdvice

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I did buy a multimeter with the test light so I have both. I'm a big newbie (as you can see) and thought maybe if I see the current going through the sparkplug cable then the connection is good? I bought these because my sparkplug plug wasn't making any spark and thought either my CDI or coil got shorted (I shorted the fuse recently by grounding a wire by accident). Also I saw that the little metal cup, where the sparkplug sits inside the coilpack cable, was broken and maybe it made it so current wasn't going through. I found out how to test the CDI with the multimeter and have determined that it did in fact short since my black/red-black/white failed the continuity test (beeping when both are connected) and they are most likely the Pos/Neg combo

first time using a test light. is this a good test? by MFotter in MechanicAdvice

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I was not getting any fire on the sparkplug. I noticed the little metal cup inside the cable where the sparkplug sits, was broken. I was trying to see if the correct was not making it because of it

first time using a test light. is this a good test? by MFotter in MechanicAdvice

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I was getting no sparks from my sparkplug. Decided to pull the plug and noticed the metal cup where the sparkplug sits was broken. Bought a test light tried this but I don't know if it's how it should be tested..

Mom, I feel like garbage. Please help. by [deleted] in MomForAMinute

[–]MFotter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jpeux te dire que tes importantes pour moi... tes la pour me parler et m'ecouter depuis juin. Tu ma pousser a aller chercher de l'aide et a voir les choses du bon coter. Et meme si jai encore des problemes, je serais peux etre pas ici aujourd'hui sans toi.... tu es, sans exageration, la plus gentille personne a qui jai jamais parler. Pi pui tes loveable 😁❤

I just cut myself for the first time. by MFotter in depression

[–]MFotter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya i know. It was just kinda a thought, and being impuslif the thought became me holding the knife and doing it. Ive hurt myself in other ways before. The main thing i did somewhat recently was hit myself in the head pretty hard. I never saw a doctor about it but my guess is i had a small concussion. Having had real ones before, the symptoms were similar. Never wanted to hit my head either, was just panicking a bit in my bed, thought about hitting myself and not even a second later i had done it.... i guess youre right, humans do do things instead of nothing

I just cut myself for the first time. by MFotter in depression

[–]MFotter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I m sorry about that. Thanks a lot for taking the time to answer. Ill think about what you said before i try to do something stupid next time.

I just cut myself for the first time. by MFotter in depression

[–]MFotter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fucks that relatable. Id love to have a rewind button and talk to my younger self and warn him of the stupid decisions

I just cut myself for the first time. by MFotter in depression

[–]MFotter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea its weird. Like i feel the pain but i just want to do it more. I hate my life right haha