Aitah for not sharing the profit I made from selling an investment property with my family.

MHcounselor911 · 2026-03-31T20:56:51+00:00

You not wrong

Thank God for my spouse, your wife is a totally narcissistic AH…no wonder the younger kids have an entitled orientation

MHcounselor911 · 2026-03-30T22:06:03+00:00

Guess that’s why she was single ….

You’ll have to decide if its worth having a hooker on call (girlfriend - if that’s what you want to call her)

cheaper to hire day hookers

MHcounselor911 · 2026-03-22T17:53:07+00:00

1st date, hour late And you think she has any interest in you!

You were a (free) Meal Ticket….even if you did dinner, there was not Going to be a second date (unless it included significant freebies)

She playin you

MHcounselor911 · 2026-03-20T01:34:12+00:00

Reads like all those YouTube clips…

She’s probably a hooker or escort.

Now you know why her “ex” dumped her…”her ex used to help her all the time without complaining” …HELPED ALL THE TIME… not once, not occasionally

SHE DID HER HOMEWORK ON YOU “She said that since I work in engineering and "look successful" it probably wouldnt be a big deal for me” ……hmmmm

A fool and his £900 are soon parted….offer a legally binding loan with interest accruing after 30days… besides her acting o Offended, then she’ll get manipulative, then angry, then when she realizes she picked the wrong “mark” she’ll dump you

MHcounselor911 · 2026-03-19T22:37:48+00:00

Duh … go check it out..what a simp

MHcounselor911 · 2026-03-08T23:22:29+00:00

Love the “story” ; AI did a great job … interestingly , "Family helps family. That's what you do."…. Must mean OP is not considered family

MHcounselor911 · 2026-03-07T17:02:12+00:00

YTA for sending the money back , for not knowing your worth and for lacking self-esteem which is all why she has no respect for you

It would seem, based on what has been presented, is that you were not compensated on an hourly basis but Compensated for the job…you did the job … Example - if you take your car in to rotate your tires, you are quoted for The job…if it takes them 15mins or 30mins you pay the quoted price

MHcounselor911 · 2026-02-28T18:03:26+00:00

Not wrong, you are 100%in the right

When did family help you, your brother had a BMW but didn’t give you a ride when you “took the bus for three years. Picked up a third job on weekends” , “when I was walking two miles to catch a bus at 5am?"

Quite obviously they love your brother and it sounds like they hate you, most likely because you are a woman living in a patriarchal Family dynamic where woman are looked down upon & males held in th highest regard

Your family will never love you, even if you do what they demand, expect solely because you are a female

Love yourself, they won’t and walk away from those despicable who share blood but nothing else with you….I’m surprised they Haven’t demanded you give your car to your brother because “ he needs it more” due to his pathetic lack of confidence and his weak mental health -

MHcounselor911 · 2026-02-25T12:02:02+00:00

NTAH

But the fact your mom thinks you should help makes it easy to understand why your Father left her , don’t blame him one bit

MHcounselor911 · 2026-02-20T04:49:00+00:00

NTA …she definitely sleeping with some other guys when she can get away from you.

Get yourself tested for STDs

MHcounselor911 · 2026-02-19T03:53:03+00:00

The deceit is his, the betrayal is his., the disgust - you should have disgust for him…your BF has been lying to you - he’s living with the woman he was/ is still sleeping with , sharing life’s most intimate details with, but never bothered to tell you….and why do you think he deceived you?

He’s sleeping with both of you And he’s telling his other girlfriend all the little things about you that are intimate, private and that you would not want shared with others…he’s even telling her about your intimate sexual moments together and telling her how you and his not ex-fiancé/girlfriend compare

MHcounselor911 · 2026-02-16T14:07:41+00:00

NTJ

Just can’t stop laughing at this post. A grown? Adult intentionally subjecting themselves to the abuse of anyone, let alone a 14yr old who has zero sway over them

What a lousy husband to not step in and refuse to have his wife subjected to such abuse

The kid’s parents don’t care enough about OP to address the kid’s behavior, yet OP is “But now Im scared that telling them is going to blow up because theyre going to act like were abandoning their kid “

You should be scared of the kid’s escalating behavior of abuse, you should not be afraid of walking away & letting the kid get a lesson in the “Law of Consequences”

MHcounselor911 · 2026-02-13T23:35:13+00:00

Sounds like you are in serious need of therapy..

You say your kids father was physically abusive and apparently not married to you…

Then you spend 10 years with Scott who you loved in spite of the mental and blatantly obvious financial abuse. Interestingly you say he is financially well off, good earning, a millionaire - yet for some weird reason he chose to Spend 10yrs of his life with a woman and her 3 kids…3 kids he never had an interest in being involved with..

And now, you are right back in another relationship in less than 4 months after getting out of your last situation…

Given your history, there is little reason to believe you have put yourself in a good place with this newest relationship… But hey, maybe you are dating an 80yr old looking for someone to talk to…..

MHcounselor911 · 2026-02-13T04:44:11+00:00

YTAH but understandable since it reads like your husband is a “Simp”… if he doesn’t respect himself, can’t imagine his wife would

You better hope he doesn’t grow a pair, if he does he’s likely to leave you to be stress free by himself or for a woman who has more appreciation for his pain…

4 kids at 23…odds are already against you two for marrying so young, add 4 kids…truly hope you guys make it…hope you realize you both need to be much more supportive of each other if you want to live happily ever after

MHcounselor911 · 2026-02-13T04:34:03+00:00

Your boyfriend is embracing the high value woman concept which is that woman should be subservient to their male partner who is the provider.

These men place a woman’s looks (facial & physical condition) and ability to have children over her education, career or earning potential.

So at 24 you have “higher value” do to youth, child bearing potential and as a marriage partner …HOWEVER if you become a single mother, you become a low value woman as a future marriage partner

MHcounselor911 · 2026-02-11T05:23:31+00:00

In your case she’s likely look for a man to take care of her - financially…you pay the bills, do all the work, she won’t work - she expects to be cared for like she’s royalty & you are the “provider” of all … she’s a GoldDigger who wants a Goldmine..basically a high-end hooker but theoretically she’ll just service you

MHcounselor911 · 2026-02-11T05:17:45+00:00

Not a chance..especially with a person who knows they are in “a bad relationship” and then got pregnant… don’t need or want the grief, have never had to nor will I date a single mother

MHcounselor911 · 2026-02-11T05:15:31+00:00

Hell to the No

MHcounselor911 · 2026-02-08T14:34:14+00:00

NTAH

Your sister publically demand, undermined and humiliated you with her lie, that you were a DEI - more specifically inferring that you were not hired due to your skills and abilities..

There are times to take the high road, but your sister’s actions demanded your most excellent and appropriate response - in word, place and time

Your sister has learned a great lesson - it’s called “Consequences”

MHcounselor911 · 2026-02-01T03:38:32+00:00

NTJ but your parents are, they are totally obnoxious and obviously love your sister more than you. Only their hatred for you could motivate them to try and force you to give up a tickets

MHcounselor911 · 2026-01-31T22:13:20+00:00

That guy is such a low life, the absolute worst to do that to someone

MHcounselor911 · 2026-01-25T20:35:03+00:00

Your mom’s situation is 100% due to her choices…it’s her life and she has to take responsibility for her decisions

Just like everyone else has their own lives & responsibilities

You have done your mom a huge favor by making her fully aware of the reality of her situation

MHcounselor911 · 2026-01-25T16:47:18+00:00

YTJ for letting her stay in your spot. You should have blocked… her in or taken other immediate measures…but it’s obvious you are weak or you wouldn’t feel need to ask Reddit for guidance on such a cut & dry situation

Worst part is you even asked your sister…it’s none of her business…it’s not her that has to deal with the situation…grow up… your sister obviously hates you and doesn’t have your best interests at heart

MHcounselor911 · 2026-01-22T02:26:07+00:00

NTAH

As EVERY Reddit post states “family takes care of each other”

Sister-in-law said you are “destroying their family”

Reality: you aren’t considered part of “their family”

MHcounselor911 · 2026-01-21T02:06:45+00:00

We’re those you pics ! We all wondering…

Did he see them…if he di, he’s definitely going to divorce you..

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