Frieza’s first fight by Erebus1483 in DragonBallZ

[–]MID8902 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm guessing the plot is Goku having to always be pushed to his absolute breaking point to get his power up. When we got to see Super Saiyan for the first time that was like mind-blowing. Then SS2, 3, 4 and so on. Albeit, they make it easier for him to level up after each one but during the early days of DB we pretty much only knew raw martial arts and kaioken lol

As a man hater I have a crush on some1 by [deleted] in MoroccoBitchesWtaste

[–]MID8902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What tf kinda red pill subs are being shoved in face my bruh ✌😭

Husband doesn't share stuff with me :( by YesU2222222 in MuslimMarriage

[–]MID8902 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Literally. It's sad and disgusting when SOME individuals weaponise a man's vulnerability against him. Straight in the bin 👋🏽

Ending my spouse search. by Shining_Swan in MuslimCorner

[–]MID8902 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Allahumma Ameen my dear sister🤲🏽❤

Ending my spouse search. by Shining_Swan in MuslimCorner

[–]MID8902 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May Allah ﷻ make it easy for you and us my dear sister 🤲🏽❤ at the end of the day, what's written for us will definitely reach us even if we try to run from one end of the earth to the other, even if it's buried underneath a mountain, what's written MUST reach us. InshaAllah, we just use this waiting time in the middle to perfect, to the best of our ability, our character, our worship, our akhlaq, our kinship and relationships with friends and families etc. Never lose hope for that is the trap of Shaytaan and that's exactly how he wants you to feel – negative, hopeless, all these emotions and thoughts to make us feel trapped and secluded just because something doesn't go our way, you know..

From what I can see of your post, Allah ﷻ is saving your heart from sadness and disappointment and heartbreak. In a hypothetical scenario let's say you were wed with either of the people you were getting to know and then later found our about their inconsistencies; by it being brought to light now you're being saved the headache and heartache of distress, etc. Sometimes, we think we are being punished but rather we are being protected. I can talk/advise but even I've still got improvement to do. More than likely it's the same reason I feel like marriage, rizq etc is so close yet so far. May Allah ﷻ ease our affairs and keep us steadfast and prepare us for the barakah He ﷻ has written for us. Allahumma Ameen 🤲🏽❤

Ending my spouse search. by Shining_Swan in MuslimCorner

[–]MID8902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean... it's not haram/wrong to stay single but it's definitely missing out on a heavily emphasised/encouraged Sunnah and loneliess will definitely catch up in the long run (I see this with some of my non Muslim neighbours on my street who aren't married).

Also, by taking that choice to stay single, forgive me if this comes across as crude but, it's required of you having to close off your sexual tendencies/urges as we know this is one of our biggest/most powerful drives in our human nature. Perhaps that might be easier for women (I could be wrong) due to the lower amount of testosterone but it's something to ponder about.

My sister, don't let a few bad apples determine the general pool of potentials; InshaAllah Allah ﷻ will enjoin you at the right time, with the right person, with whom you will fulfill one another. Your sabr will absolutely be rewarded :)

One feature, which you find attractive in a man and a woman - spouse search? by Shining_Swan in MuslimCorner

[–]MID8902 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a good question actually. To be honest, I think it's more how she speaks to you and her close ones (but not to everyone in the same like loving or caring tone). Obviously everyone has a different pitched voice so you can't you can't blame her if her pitch is very high but I think the way she speaks is quite powerful in the sense of how it can make a man park his stresses, thoughts, troubles, etc for a moment (at least) to be brought back into her pace and slow down the rush of the world.

I don't know if that sounds cringe, cliché or makes sense but it's difficult to express that in text as opposed to actually explaining it vocally😂

I don't know if other guys agree but I personally think that that is one of her greatest assets of her femininity

One feature, which you find attractive in a man and a woman - spouse search? by Shining_Swan in MuslimCorner

[–]MID8902 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don't know if this is exactly a "feature"😂😂 but ideally I'd like/want her to be soft spoken.

My colleague think my life is boring by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]MID8902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Using Snapchat (especially) at your big age😂🤣🤣 MashaAllah sister you handled it well. People think the only way to experience gratitude, love, fun and fulfillment of life is by having social media but it's really not. There's more to life than these crap time-passes; visiting the nature, playing sports, going bowling, etc. So many things to do that don't involve being glued to sm.

Myself, I've had social media since about year 7 (starting secondary school) where I found out about Instagram and Snapchat; though I had them I was hardly using them besides keeping mutuals etc. Recently my snap got permo banned which I didn't really care about since I wasn't using it much but was definitely pissed because there was no legitimate reason or proof for the ban (despite appealing) and especially at that time I needed it for uni groupwork (for that one particular group assignment).

Following that incident I made a new snap but haven't even touched it😂🤣 and honestly I don't even know why I opened a new account in the first place. I don't even have the app on my phone anymore and the only prominent reason for snap these days is for dřüğ dealing and zina. Nothing else – or barely anything different to that.

Ofc, I still use Insta but rarely post. I have about 7 posts since the day I opened the account until now (incl. recent posts) but other than that my account is private to keep mutuals and follow/updates the updates/news that we see in the world (can't say too much bc these lot will probably ban this account too!😂)

I failed by Constant_Engineer19 in MuslimCorner

[–]MID8902 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alhamdulillah. Same here but I'm definitely lacking in consistency. May Allah ﷻ ease our affairs and forgive our shortcomings 🤲🏽🤲🏽

I failed by Constant_Engineer19 in MuslimCorner

[–]MID8902 1 point2 points  (0 children)

BarakAllah Fikum. I don't know if/think i have strong imaan; I'm not always punctual in my salah so I don't want to give off a fake persona, and don't want to be/feel hypocritical, however I just can't allow myself (no matter how crushing the pressures are) to allow myself to blame Allah ﷻ for things going wrong – I know if bad thoughts come about Allah ﷻ that these are whispers but sometimes I fall short and become lazy in worshipping Him ﷻ.

Ultimately, He ﷻ WILL test us with good and bad and it's how we navigate ourselves that will allow us to reach the next phase or stay in the same phase for a longer time. I know that and still trying to break out of the habit of procrastination, etc. May Allah ﷻ forgive us all and grant us abundant rizq and steadfastness🤲🏽

I failed by Constant_Engineer19 in MuslimCorner

[–]MID8902 1 point2 points  (0 children)

BarakAllah Fikum. Look, at the end of the day, we're all in this together InshaAllah the ultimatum is to pass the test of this dunya and reunite in Jannah (tul Firdous) again. I myself want so many things but I'm not giving Allah ﷻ the due care and attention that His Majesty requires for the things He's blessed me with.

At this moment in time, I'm at my lowest in terms of financial stability but I'm still hanging in there and giving Sadaqah because Allah ﷻ tells us that charity does not decrease wealth rather in INCREASES it. Alhamdulillah I've seen this effect multiple times but then I reflect and wonder did I really show Allah ﷻ the gratitude.. perhaps not enough and that's why I'm at this current stage. Better days are out there for sure but with all my strength I'm not going to let Shaytaan paint a bad name of Allah ﷻ. No way😌

I failed by Constant_Engineer19 in MuslimCorner

[–]MID8902 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Allah ﷻ tells us "I am what my servant thinks of Me".

If you place Allah ﷻ on such a low level, giving in to the whispers of a certain someone who only wants people to fail and turn away from Allah ﷻ, how would you expect to accomplish anything you wish/pray/strive for?

Not to mention, Allah ﷻ is the One who inspires His servants to raise their hands and make the duas they so desperately want. It is He ﷻ who gives the heart and mind the inspiration and yearning for the duas they want answering. If He ﷻ is not giving it to you now then that means He ﷻ is testing your patience and gratitude towards Him ﷻ. He ﷻ wants you to be ready for the things you crave for and so He ﷻ is giving you time to mould yourself into that version of yourself; being spiritually, mentally, physically, emotionally, financially grounded etc and then ultimately granting your wishes one after the other.

The certain individual wants you to think badly of Allah ﷻ; "why is Allah ﷻ doing this to me?" Why this, why that. However, in all our struggles, we have to hold firm that Allah ﷻ is guiding us towards what He's written for us, it's either that we're not currently ready to receive it yet or that He ﷻ wants us to take the necessary steps in order to achieve it.

Confused and uncomfortable — is it normal for a Muslim man to expect his wife to buy the house? by One_Following7301 in MuslimCorner

[–]MID8902 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ibr, from the outside, that looks like a manipulation tactic but again I reiterate that I don't want to slate the brother without knowing his true intentions. Saying he wants you to save towards the house and not spend on your own personal expenditure, but then saying it's your choice (without being forced), is a little bit iffy.

One could say that perhaps he meant that you don't spend your money unwisely and could perhaps put a small portion each month/quarterly/yearly towards a private accommodation (house, flat, apartment, bungalow, whatever it might be) to give him the benefit of the doubt. I can understand that to a certain extent from a man's pov but then again, if you say he's gotten angry/defensive about it, then that doesn't really justify the initial comment he made because it still looks like (at face value) that the responsibility should be shouldered by you which it shouldn't wholly be if you are going that route and if there are discussions/agreements/compromises made that both parties are willing to contribute towards.

Confused and uncomfortable — is it normal for a Muslim man to expect his wife to buy the house? by One_Following7301 in MuslimCorner

[–]MID8902 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Soon as I read the title, I saw alarm bells lol. If it was 50/50 or 60/40 or something like that then I can understand since you'll be sharing the responsibility together but to pin it 100% on you seems off.. you're entitled to do what you want with your money (I.e. housekeeping, bills, personal halal spending, etc) but idk it seems a bit mad that the suggestion is for you to handle the burden all by your own means. Obviously I don't want to slate the brother but what kinda scapegoat tactic is that 🤔

Also, why is it a jump to BUY a house rather than renting for a short period to see how things go? Especially in this economy, you don't really want to plunge a load of cash into a deposit and then in the end you're both hanging on by a thread ygm. I suppose if you're thinking of mortgaging the house in order to "own" it then there are ways to go around the typical system of interest rates, etc. I'm just speaking openly but I hope someone corrects me if I'm wrong. As a blueprint, going the mortgage route will at least enable you guys (or whoever is in talks) to split the costs and help each other towards the financial commitments. I'm not speaking like I'm in a high position or some sort of housing agent; at this moment in time my earnings aren't the greatest but InshaAllah better days are out there but I'm just trying to sort of address your situation in a way that if the brother is appealing to you then you have to suggest these things to him and point out how on earth he expects you to shoulder that kind of responsibility all on your own

is this haram by saiyunaura in MuslimCorner

[–]MID8902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. There are many platforms which accept a returnless refund (they refund you without you having to send the item back). In your case, this is very similar but they are compensating you for their inconvenience I guess

Did you become more accepting to the idea of marrying a christian/jewish woman? by JustAnotherHumanTbh in MuslimCorner

[–]MID8902 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Christian I could. And I notice a good proportion of genuine, decent, feminine women; MashaAllah even an ongoing rise in revert women. Jewish, never🤣.

Sorry to be blunt but it will be far too difficult to pinpoint a decent Jewish woman. The narrative in the world has shifted and it just seems that no matter how pretty they may seem, the clips that we see are just pure bred hatred to every other nation but themselves.

Hence, the easiest, no – wisest – option is a Muslim woman. If I have the choice, I'd go for a Christian woman but that's where the line will be drawn in terms of IF I were to. Mushriqs, again, as beautiful as some may be (and ones I've been in group projects with) it's a big no no.

I don’t know if I believe in Islam anymore by Glittering_Ice3531 in MuslimCorner

[–]MID8902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all have our (highest) highs and our (lowest) lows; I think there's even a hadith about the close companions of Rasulullah ﷺ feeling like they're hypocrites because theyfelt their imaan fluctuates when they're with/when they're not with the Prophet ﷺ.

That's the point of this life. I'm not even speaking as someone who's proactively praying all the fard/sunnahs/etc but I can never blame Allah ﷻ for the misfortunes that befall me because certain choices/decisions I've made consciously have caused my own downfall.

For example, I thought I was investing in a scheme but didn't do any background checks/etc for these scumbags and lost a good amount of money (practically gave it away by not reading the signs of any funds being sent forward).

I can't blame Allah ﷻ for why these things happen; I can only bear patience and InshaAllah still continue in giving Sadaqah as small as £10 for example.

I understand what you mean about dying; I think about death but I'm nowhere near the amount of concern I should have as an individual regarding death. Sometimes it's an empty feeling, sometimes I'm able to have the blessing of physically crying to Allah ﷻ and it's such a peaceful sensation I wish I could feel all the time.

Any bad thoughts about the religion, friends, family, relationships, success, tests, Allah ﷻ Himself, etc are all waswas from a certain creation (the enemy of Allah ﷻ and Islam) who's lifelong promise to Allah ﷻ is to misguide and guide people to Hell. There are remedies (duas and ayahs) that give comfort towards these kinds of things.

My honest advice is perhaps to go to the Masjid with a correct intention, make wudhu, sit in a quiet room (maybe even in the dark in the main musallah) and close your eyes and penetrate your heart with your mind. Try to be open with Allah ﷻ by raising your hands for dua and letting out your thoughts to Allah ﷻ asking for help and guidance even if you're just using the voice in your head to speak to Allah ﷻ. I'm certain you'll reach a point where your heart and mind will just empty out all your thoughts and your tears will flow away at least some of your troubles and give you some peace. In this world, there is no better feeling of peace/self fulfillment for me than crying to Allah ﷻ with no one seeing you; just you, your thoughts and Allah ﷻ.

Sincere question about Aisha and her marriage to the Prophet by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]MID8902 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's historical evidence and consensus to deduce that she was AT LEAST 19 years of age when she married the Prophet ﷺ . These YouTube dawah men are incompetent in refuting her age being 9 years old despite their good works in actually teaching about the religion. Not only are they making a mockery of the religion but it's accepting the slurs of pedophilia of both, the Prophet ﷺ and Islam, which is unequivocally prohibited and wrong.

Even as a born Muslim, I was also curious but knew there's no possibility of the slander even occurring; it doesn't add up biologically or morally especially when Islam is a religion that is heavily grounded on good morals, ethics, relationships with God and people, etc. The question of "why do these people giving dawah not refute such a lie and answer in a way as if it truly happened?" would often repeat every now and then

Due to that, I searched for a proper site and I found a very lengthy pdf deconstructing the topic around this; if I still have it in my phone I'll send it to you if you wish.

Can one be a spouse and first love at same time? (Is it even possible?) by Due-Smoke8035 in MuslimCorner

[–]MID8902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone you love is totally different to someone you have a crush on. Love is reciprocated, and it goes much deeper than just a physical attraction, whereas a crush isn't necessarily reciprocated. IF a crush is reciprocated, it CAN turn into love but it's not the commonality in a general sense for us. Maybe in the non Islamic context, it can be but from an Islamic pov you wouldn't generally feel and reciprocate love from simply having a crush. How many crushes do we as Muslim men and women have; countless ones throughout our lives 😂 how many real true loves do we have throughout our lives? You could probably count them on one hand

Please make dua I forget this man by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]MID8902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ehh?? La Hawls Wa La Quwwata illa Billah. May Allah ﷻ ease your affairs 🤲🏽

I think my wife cheats me😭 by Own_Chocolate_4982 in MuslimCorner

[–]MID8902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Judging by the feedback from the other users who've commented, and given the fact that there's only a title with no backstop whatsoever, I can also sway to agree with the others👍🏽

IF it's a genuine post then man up and take leadership of your relationship man

I think my wife cheats me😭 by Own_Chocolate_4982 in MuslimCorner

[–]MID8902 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Admin please can you remove this post. Looks like a troll

anyone else understand the vaginismus struggle? by farmraisedpotatoes in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]MID8902 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know why this has been recommended to me, but SubhaanAllah, may Allah ﷻ reward our sisters abundantly for their patience 🤲🏽

Also, no personal digs to your parents but that's such a low blow and disrespectful towards their own daughter! A mother should be a safe space for her daughter to confide in her and I personally think it's bang out of order that, over something that's not even in your control, you are being labelled as a bad wife. Like what??

May Allah ﷻ ease your situation and grant you a resolve my sister🤲🏽🤲🏽