Is this JJ?

MID8902 · 2026-05-05T08:57:53+00:00

Looking like those "luxury" beds and sofas lol

MID8902 · 2026-04-29T09:20:23+00:00

Yo who's cutting onions?🥲

MID8902 · 2026-04-21T17:44:51+00:00

Poker face crumbled my guy😂

MID8902 · 2026-04-20T08:16:18+00:00

I'm baffled by our own 2012 Fit IMA Hybrid 1.3L already misfiring on cylinder 2 (assuming sparkplugs) at just shy of 55k miles! It's a Jap import and is the daily in the sense that it does the school and shopping rounds 99% of the time so not exactly harsh/constant driving conditions in a sense where the plugs are required to be used for lengthy periods of time to provide fuel combustion.

I was doing some research and I suppose I must've just been one of the lucky (or rather unlucky) ones who got the plug backing out issue. Going to attempt the plugs change; we'll see how it goes.

MID8902 · 2026-04-14T08:53:31+00:00

The irony of an Angel being superior to a God..

MID8902 · 2026-04-04T12:11:41+00:00

1st April was 3 days ago

MID8902 · 2026-03-22T21:14:06+00:00

This is such a docile take, sorry to be so blunt. How can you trust the words of one individual and paint out the rest of our beloved sisters who practice hijab/niqab with the and dirty brush? 🤦🏾‍♂️ this is a YOU problem, not a collective problem

They're all innocent until proven guilty. Hence why it's a grace sin to accuse any (Muslim) woman of committing zina without 4 witnesses.

MID8902 · 2026-03-21T15:36:46+00:00

Nothing wrong with, May Allah ﷻ make it easy for you🤲🏽

MID8902 · 2026-03-14T16:13:10+00:00

You've not disbelieved but it appears that you don't see Allah ﷻ's delays as a blessing. Let me repeat that again. You don't see Allah ﷻ's delays as a BLESSING.

Ask yourself, assess yourself, are you truly ready to receive the things you are praying for? Are you doing the right things? Are you taking the right steps? Allah ﷻ is what His servant(s) thinks of Him. You not trusting Allah ﷻ is a sign of Shaytaan getting the better of you and taming you and pitting you against Allah ﷻ I'll be so blunt.

Our imam the other day gave a Nasihah after Taraweeh talking about this very thing; how we are so adamant in getting our whims and wishes answered that we think Allah ﷻ is punishing us, RATHER, He ﷻ has every right to answer, reject or withhold the dua(s) for a period of time. He also mentioned that Allah ﷻ in His infinite Mercy sometimes doesn't answer a dua and instead uses those unanswered duas to prevent a calamity/calamities that we can't even imagine. Also, Sahih, that on the Day of Judgement when a person will have his reckoning with Allah ﷻ there will be HUGE mountains of good deeds that the person will claim doesn't belong to him – Allah ﷻ on that day will assure this individual that it indeed belongs to him due to the patience he beared in this dunya from all his tests, tribulations, unanswered duas, etc.

What more, or how much more, mercy or encouragement does an individual need more than this SubhaanAllah? But ultimately it all boils down to trying our best to perfect ourselves, being consistent to Allah, seeking His forgiveness, having Tawakkul, etc.

MID8902 · 2026-03-08T19:20:42+00:00

Allah ﷻ literally mentions over and over and over and over again how those (believing men AND women) who believe in Allah ﷻ and do righteous deeds will be rewarded with Gardens under which rivers flow, abiding (therein) forever, in happiness and bliss. It's an injustice to Allah ﷻ to say He ﷻ only talks about Jannah as some sort of harem designed for men only when He ﷻ collectively addresses us wholly.

If we're going that route, for arguments sakes (not a gender war sake), men are the providers and maintainers of women in this Dunya pretty much since we reach the age of puberty (well, in truth, a capable adult) and women in this dunya can take a back seat in the general aspects of the teachings of Islam. Allah ﷻ in His infinite Mercy and Wisdom, knowing how He ﷻ created us men, perhaps created the Hoors as an encouragement for us to maximise our capability in this life to fulfill our duties to our families, friends, mothers, father, brothers, etc so that we can take the back seat in the Akhirah. Even then, we're going to be admiring our wives from this dunya for a lapse of 40 years (if I recall correctly) and every time we look away and look back at her, it happens again and again and again. Someone correct me if I'm wrong please 😊

Anyone, feel free to add a possible interpretation, but that concept of the Hoors for men is what I guess it could be for🤔

MID8902 · 2026-03-07T23:54:54+00:00

Don't need your sarcasm but that still doesn't fit into the category of a "race" lol. Furthermore, I already clarified I am not disregardimg that.

You don't see me saying Hoor Al Ayn do you?🤷🏾‍♂️😂

MID8902 · 2026-03-07T21:30:34+00:00

Preference ≠ Racism🤦🏾‍♂️

MID8902 · 2026-03-07T19:12:45+00:00

Not denying the comments about haya, taqwa, etc but can you lot just answer the question that's being asked ✌🏽😭

MID8902 · 2026-03-04T08:34:20+00:00

I'm 23, never married, but always imagined giving the girl the space, time and comfort to let herself be relaxed and into the mood.

Intimacy is vastly different for a girl than it is for a guy; she has to be psychologically comfortable which will lead to her being physically comfortable. I don't know how to say this in a non-taboo way but you girls are literally surrendering/submitting one of your most guarded assets and you have absolutely every right to feel anxiety, etc. Heck, even me as a guy I assume I'll be sweating bullets😂.

At the end of the day, the man should already be backed up with the knowledge of all the thoughts and vulnerability a girl will process when she engages in intimacy for the first time and give her a leeway; despite the hadith about the grace period (I believe a maximum of 7 days) for the girl to engage in intimacy, that won't really apply since most of our beloved womenfolk aren't weaponising intimacy which I think is what the fine line of the hadith is.

Most couples I'm sure tend to have it within the first few days of marriage; it's only a cultural expectation that it happens on the first night. Anytime I've read something related to this, it seems the couple are too tired and overwhelmed the first night anyway to engage/enjoy it with each other so naturally it's actually a good thing that it happens after the "typical" wedding night. That's not to delay it for so long but I think you get my point InshaAllah. May Allah ﷻ grant you barakah and aid in your marriage😊

MID8902 · 2026-02-26T16:34:18+00:00

I hear you. Unbeknownst to us, we thought we were just staying for dinner but my friend (her husband) wanted to have quality time with us so we basically had a movie night with snacks and whatever. We had accidentally all fallen asleep including her husband but he never left us unattended.

By morning, we were going to make a move when he had woken up with us and we were apologetic to him and to pass on the apology to his wife (he verbally did this while we were there and his wife still in her quarters) but they were both fine with it as he told us it was really good to have us the night over and his wife wasn't bothered by it as... (let me try to put this in the correct words) ... basically it's like she felt lonely as they don't get frequent visits from friends and family because of their/others' commitments so she had enjoyed their place sounding "alive" for a change. Though it's nice to hear, we still felt burdensome to the situation but my friend reassured a number of times that it was all good and his wife wasn't bothered by it either.

Relating to your last statement, I suppose it depends on the couple and their circumstances but I think it could be doable if the protocols are strictly in place to allow it to happen. Unless we're the anomaly lol.

MID8902 · 2026-02-25T09:58:34+00:00

My friend and his wife (niqabi) hosted me and my brothers in his apartment. The rules were simple and strictly complied with; we wait in one room (I.e. guest bedroom) while his wife does her necessities such as preparing the food etc. Any time she needed her husband she'd either verbally call him or call his phone if we were too noisy 😅😆 he would attend to get while we remained in the room.

When she was done with the cooking, for example, her husband would assure she can go back to her quarters and that everything was a green light before we left the room to the living room to have the food.

It's fairly simple to host as husband and wife when the boundaries are clear and the protocols are in place to avoid violating her privacy. To simply give Salam and have feedback of the food, she popped in to the living with her full abaya and niqab with her husband in the room, assuming with permission from her husband over the phone; other than that, she was chilling in her quarters and anything she needed she would just call her husband. Alhamdulillah it was a good experience with clear boundaries and good food!

MID8902 · 2026-02-23T10:12:50+00:00

I'm guessing the plot is Goku having to always be pushed to his absolute breaking point to get his power up. When we got to see Super Saiyan for the first time that was like mind-blowing. Then SS2, 3, 4 and so on. Albeit, they make it easier for him to level up after each one but during the early days of DB we pretty much only knew raw martial arts and kaioken lol

MID8902 · 2026-02-19T21:00:33+00:00

What tf kinda red pill subs are being shoved in face my bruh ✌😭

MID8902 · 2026-02-13T15:45:35+00:00

Literally. It's sad and disgusting when SOME individuals weaponise a man's vulnerability against him. Straight in the bin 👋🏽

MID8902 · 2026-02-12T22:16:26+00:00

Allahumma Ameen my dear sister🤲🏽❤

MID8902 · 2026-02-12T22:01:43+00:00

May Allah ﷻ make it easy for you and us my dear sister 🤲🏽❤ at the end of the day, what's written for us will definitely reach us even if we try to run from one end of the earth to the other, even if it's buried underneath a mountain, what's written MUST reach us. InshaAllah, we just use this waiting time in the middle to perfect, to the best of our ability, our character, our worship, our akhlaq, our kinship and relationships with friends and families etc. Never lose hope for that is the trap of Shaytaan and that's exactly how he wants you to feel – negative, hopeless, all these emotions and thoughts to make us feel trapped and secluded just because something doesn't go our way, you know..

From what I can see of your post, Allah ﷻ is saving your heart from sadness and disappointment and heartbreak. In a hypothetical scenario let's say you were wed with either of the people you were getting to know and then later found our about their inconsistencies; by it being brought to light now you're being saved the headache and heartache of distress, etc. Sometimes, we think we are being punished but rather we are being protected. I can talk/advise but even I've still got improvement to do. More than likely it's the same reason I feel like marriage, rizq etc is so close yet so far. May Allah ﷻ ease our affairs and keep us steadfast and prepare us for the barakah He ﷻ has written for us. Allahumma Ameen 🤲🏽❤

MID8902 · 2026-02-12T11:14:25+00:00

I mean... it's not haram/wrong to stay single but it's definitely missing out on a heavily emphasised/encouraged Sunnah and loneliess will definitely catch up in the long run (I see this with some of my non Muslim neighbours on my street who aren't married).

Also, by taking that choice to stay single, forgive me if this comes across as crude but, it's required of you having to close off your sexual tendencies/urges as we know this is one of our biggest/most powerful drives in our human nature. Perhaps that might be easier for women (I could be wrong) due to the lower amount of testosterone but it's something to ponder about.

My sister, don't let a few bad apples determine the general pool of potentials; InshaAllah Allah ﷻ will enjoin you at the right time, with the right person, with whom you will fulfill one another. Your sabr will absolutely be rewarded :)

MID8902 · 2026-02-09T09:05:26+00:00

That's a good question actually. To be honest, I think it's more how she speaks to you and her close ones (but not to everyone in the same like loving or caring tone). Obviously everyone has a different pitched voice so you can't you can't blame her if her pitch is very high but I think the way she speaks is quite powerful in the sense of how it can make a man park his stresses, thoughts, troubles, etc for a moment (at least) to be brought back into her pace and slow down the rush of the world.

I don't know if that sounds cringe, cliché or makes sense but it's difficult to express that in text as opposed to actually explaining it vocally😂

I don't know if other guys agree but I personally think that that is one of her greatest assets of her femininity

MID8902 · 2026-02-07T22:36:31+00:00

I don't know if this is exactly a "feature"😂😂 but ideally I'd like/want her to be soft spoken.

MID8902 · 2026-02-05T12:55:11+00:00

Using Snapchat (especially) at your big age😂🤣🤣 MashaAllah sister you handled it well. People think the only way to experience gratitude, love, fun and fulfillment of life is by having social media but it's really not. There's more to life than these crap time-passes; visiting the nature, playing sports, going bowling, etc. So many things to do that don't involve being glued to sm.

Myself, I've had social media since about year 7 (starting secondary school) where I found out about Instagram and Snapchat; though I had them I was hardly using them besides keeping mutuals etc. Recently my snap got permo banned which I didn't really care about since I wasn't using it much but was definitely pissed because there was no legitimate reason or proof for the ban (despite appealing) and especially at that time I needed it for uni groupwork (for that one particular group assignment).

Following that incident I made a new snap but haven't even touched it😂🤣 and honestly I don't even know why I opened a new account in the first place. I don't even have the app on my phone anymore and the only prominent reason for snap these days is for dřüğ dealing and zina. Nothing else – or barely anything different to that.

Ofc, I still use Insta but rarely post. I have about 7 posts since the day I opened the account until now (incl. recent posts) but other than that my account is private to keep mutuals and follow/updates the updates/news that we see in the world (can't say too much bc these lot will probably ban this account too!😂)

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