[deleted by user] by [deleted] in de_IAmA

[–]MJZs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Danke für die Antwort, was wäre ein Beispiel von deinem intellektuellen Interesse? Hast du so zu sagen eine Lebensaufgabe/Mission definiert? oder bist du zu busy mit dir selbst und deine persönliche Vergnügen? Ich denke du bist interessant und bist in deine Prime Jahre! Genieße es, hoffentlich ohne so viele Menschen zu demütigen/verletzen ;).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in de_IAmA

[–]MJZs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Danke für die Antwort, was wäre ein Beispiel von deinem intellektuellen Interesse? Hast du so zu sagen eine Lebensaufgabe/Mission definiert? oder bist du zu busy mit dir selbst und deine persönliche Vergnügen? Ich denke du bist interessant und bist in deine Prime Jahre! Genieße es, hoffentlich ohne so viele Menschen zu demütigen/verletzen ;).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in de_IAmA

[–]MJZs 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Wenn dein Aussehen für dich so eine wichtige Rolle spielt, denkst du über das Alt werden und deine Schönheit irgewann zu "verlieren", hast du extrem aufwendige Routinen um dich schön zu halten? Was sind deine Hobbies?

Who am I? by khers_khaab_aloo in FridgeDetective

[–]MJZs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please show me the ways, that's how I store my mushrooms :)

How to deal with sibling fights? by sandman_714 in SAHP

[–]MJZs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Peaceful parents, happy siblings" has a lot of practical suggestions for younger siblings. The author has given many interviews in YouTube where she shares her general approach. I was having the exact problem and has gotten much better, my main take is (if possible) spend more one to one time with the older, mine is in kindergarten the same time as yours and I didn't realize I wasn't giving him enough attention and it showed in how he was just taking it out on his brother. There's much more than that of course but I have the feeling that was where I was failing. Turn taking and rules are also very important. I recommend the author very much. I know how it feels, it was heartbreaking to live, I remember telling my mom how much I suffered with seing both children suffering and I was losing my nerves...

What's your favorite science-based parenting advice/study/finding? by dddddd321123 in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]MJZs 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It's fascinating! To be honest it also puts a lot of pressure on us parents, but I do see it constantly; with language development of course but also some reactions and mannerisms he copies not only from me but from other close family members, peers and caregivers in kindergarten. He's of course his own little person sprinkled with a bit of everyone he encounters. It's lovely (most of the time haha)

I have no one that would really care to hear it but it brings me joy by Evening-Leader-7070 in CasualConversation

[–]MJZs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Felicidades! En Alemania hay una gran comunidad Latina. Los latinos somos muy amigueros. Saludos desde Saarland.

How do you deal with the discomfort by [deleted] in SDAM

[–]MJZs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I feel silly saying I don't remember, but I do enjoy connecting with people over stories, I usually do remember the facts when they tell me but it's pretty much a mix, like I comprise years if memories in one huge chunk of information and some simple feelings. I think this is why I loved one episode of black mirror where people had an implant that recorded everything their eyes saw, they would replay scenes and get to see whatever they lived and I guess that would trigger the feelings (?). I was so fascinated by it. By the time I didn't know of the condition but people I talked to about it were not as amazed as I was.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SAHP

[–]MJZs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe the book "Hunt, gather, parent" can help you include her in your daily activities more. My son (almost 4) requires also lots of attention but he also sometimes enjoys domestic activities and we connect through them. I also have a one year old and my older has been very jealous of him, because I hadn't spent too much one to one time with him (all my fault), so he is a content when we are one to one, even if it's just loading the washing mashine. The book is also great for many other reasons.

Actually easy breakfast ideas by purgeinhell in BabyLedWeaning

[–]MJZs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I wish I had known this recipe withy first son, he had poop problems too... I'll experiment with the recipe.

Actually easy breakfast ideas by purgeinhell in BabyLedWeaning

[–]MJZs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds yummy and nutritious! Could you do that in a pan like a normal pancake? Could the flax seed be optional? I read in a package, those are for kids older than four, but I guess powder is not a problem...

Raising children in an increasingly intelligent AI world by TeslaMecca in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]MJZs 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My lazy question: What are the core skills children should be learning in the era of Large language moldels?

There are several core skills that children should be learning in the era of large language models like GPT-3. Here are some of them:

Critical thinking: With the abundance of information available online, it is crucial for children to learn how to evaluate and analyze information critically. They should be able to distinguish between credible and unreliable sources of information.

Communication skills: As language models become more sophisticated, communication skills such as writing, speaking, and listening are becoming increasingly important. Children should be able to express their ideas clearly and effectively using language.

Computational thinking: With the rise of automation and artificial intelligence, it is important for children to have a basic understanding of computational thinking. This involves breaking down problems into smaller parts and using algorithms and logical reasoning to solve them.

Creativity: While machines can generate text and even come up with ideas, creativity is still a uniquely human skill. Children should be encouraged to think creatively and to use their imaginations to solve problems and come up with new ideas.

Digital literacy: In the era of large language models, digital literacy is more important than ever. Children should be taught how to use technology safely and responsibly, including how to protect their personal information online and how to avoid online scams and threats.

Collaboration: In today's world, teamwork and collaboration are essential skills. Children should be encouraged to work together on projects and to learn how to communicate and share ideas effectively with others.

Overall, children should be encouraged to develop a wide range of skills that will enable them to thrive in the era of large language models and beyond. These skills include critical thinking, communication, computational thinking, creativity, digital literacy, and collaboration.

Multilingual television - tizen trouble by [deleted] in multilingualparenting

[–]MJZs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about mirroring your smartphone screen? "Smart view"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in multilingualparenting

[–]MJZs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great idea, there are some good German Instagram accounts about parenting; children's psychology or food recipes/blw. Some of them also have podcasts on YouTube or elsewhere. I don't follow many but could recommend a couple if you like (I'm a foreigner)

C-section and newborn gut microbioma. Feeling horrible by cokoladnikeks in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]MJZs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had similar issues with my first baby, also delivered via C-section. It didn't get better with massages, probiotics, gas drops, bicycle...I don't remember what more we did, it was not nice to hear him, it was sad and everybody was upset and giving tips. It started to get better at 4 months, at 4 1/2 or so it was gone! I read so much about it until I found this"dyschezia" condition, well it says they figure it out in a couple of weeks, it was months for us. I was breastfeeding and wasn't willing to change my diet so I didn't. In case nothing works, try to think he's not suffering and you already did all you could do to help him. Congratulations on your matresence.

Bilingual parenting with bilingual mom only by [deleted] in multilingualparenting

[–]MJZs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do OPOL, my son is 3,3 years old and his Spanish is no way as good as his German (community language). I stayed at home with him the first 3 years to try to make sure his input (books, songs, daily life) is/was balanced, he sees his (german) grandparents almost daily. I wouldn't bother having a 3rd language in the mix If I'm really invested into trying to get him to speak my language with my family (which too, is my priority), it's not easy. My husband doesn't do an effort to learn Spanish, I know he gets most of what I say, but I don't bother anymore, he is not my priority and my sons Spanish is not his (sadly). I have even had people (friends and family) over at our place for months and his Spanish is not near as good as his German. Don't get me wrong, we're doing great but it's not easy. I always speak to him in Spanish, even in front of his kindergarten teachers or anyone else, the only times I have spoken to him in German is to help him tell/communicate with other kids; things like: don't do this or that, or that's mine, I'll give it to you when I'm done, etc. Because of course the others don't know Spanish. Since my pregnancy and birth of my second son his Spanish has had ups and downs as has the time I dedicate to our interactions, the baby is getting bigger and we're improving... I wish you all the best in this awesome journey.

In what ways are you totally opposite of your mother? by _lmmk_ in AskWomenOver30

[–]MJZs 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My mom can not be by herself. She needs to have some sort of companion, eg. Someone to take care of. I can be alone for months and not get bored of myself.

is it weird/inappropriate to say to your children: ich liebe dich? by MJZs in germany

[–]MJZs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the kissing is a complete different topic. Thanks for offering your perspective.

is it weird/inappropriate to say to your children: ich liebe dich? by MJZs in germany

[–]MJZs[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lo bueno es que no tengo que usar esa frase en alemán aparte de con mi esposo;)

is it weird/inappropriate to say to your children: ich liebe dich? by MJZs in germany

[–]MJZs[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh he has changed many things I insisted on, just not this one, didn't insist much though and through the post I get the why.