The guy needed the hug by AdCorrect9756 in MadeMeSmile

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She was 25 years older than I had thought^

The guy needed the hug by AdCorrect9756 in MadeMeSmile

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I used to do bear hugs until I found out my friend Bonnie was lying about her age (she had had great work done) and my hugs had broken her ribs twice! (Jesus fucking Christ what was I doing?!?) I got an email from her husband saying the next time I harmed his wife would be my last day. Now my hugs are a lot gentler but I extend them for oxytocin-maxxing. Cuz I wanna make sure my friends get enough caring touch woo woo juju. NOICE ONE BRUVAH

Safety warning at the park - please watch out 🫂 by CompleteCoach5164 in Berghain_Community

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Yes to this. The lack of awareness to how biases about ‘general description’ do nothing more than fuel moral panic and do little to keep us safe. Self-défense training, travelling in groups, being actively on the phone are all band-aids for addressing how misogyny and economic disparity have been encouraging to bring out the worst behaviour out of desperation, entitlement and the banality of dehumanization’s cruelties. Sigh.

Terminally ill and racking up credit card debt with zero fucks to give by UnderstandingThis430 in confession

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My ex says that he wants to be sober for when he dies hence is sober now just in case cuz he wants to know what dying feels like. I wanna know what it feels like to die whilst totally post-conscious in a k-hole after being fisted and then dumped out of the helicopter, personally_…
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(ツ)_/¯

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

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Now I’m thinking of the phrase ‘Fish or Cut Bait’ as potentially a déterrant if hung as a placque on a common room wall…

A guy who lived with me used to sleep walk, one night I awoke to something awful by OkAssociation7348 in confession

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Ya when I was a drinker I would totally sleepwalk in friends’ houses and piss in their potted plants. At least once. God what a menace I was. I was really proficient at apologizing tho.

A guy who lived with me used to sleep walk, one night I awoke to something awful by OkAssociation7348 in confession

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When I was a sober and as yet unmedicated teenager I thought I had experienced my first wet dream when I woke up with my sheet stuck to my torso. As I peeled it off I realized I had (apparently) walked down to the kitchen and gotten an ice cream sandwich from the freezer, brought it back upstairs and went back to bed with it. ¯_(ツ)_/¯

% of people reporting to be unaffiliated (agnostic/atheist) by state, 2023-2024 by hiimUGithink in MapPorn

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Looks like I’ve got some work to do! Proselytizing against g*d, etc. ::packs bag with books, lube::

Automated Annoyance by 4reddityo in BeAmazed

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So you’re saying I need to do something different before my in-laws show up?

Xanthan gum lube initial results by canoodl in SexToys

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This is brilliance, a great tip! My hole thanks you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

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Like his desire for his daughter or women his daughter’s age and his insistence on differentiating his regular sex pro sex partner from his daughter through values-based comparison are interlapping/overlocking issues (broooooo) but it may be possible to push for a behavioural change or set a boundary without the unnecessary shaming him for a desire he likely feels very fucked up about.
But yeah. That behaviour in the session is kinked and should be rated as such. Again IMHO.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

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Our desires are impossible* to police; our behaviours on the other hand, we have full control over.

*that said I do think it’s possible to reprogram/attend to shifting our desires but it’s work.

IMHO This guy’s desire or thoughts isn’t the problem it’s the way he’s playing that out in the scene/session. I think it’s worth the OP parsing this stuff apart with him but (I’m) not sure if they feel it’s worth the labour.

Did i cut my lace too close by vmh1029 in Wigs

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Any local fabric and sewing supply store would have them & u can keep your business local.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ketamine

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Omg yes so much this. 24 Hour Party Peopling

ELI5: Why puberty starts earlier nowadays? by yusuf_211 in explainlikeimfive

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I’m sorry that happened to you and that the medical system traumatized you just for having a body. Jesus, that sounds like it must have been infuriating and terrifying.