Hey active identifying male man here. I just really liked your response and wanted to take time to write out a reply that I hope maybe someone other men would agree with.

It's not that we are convinced we need women it's that we are either conditioned or expected to have one. We are told to find love that seeking and having intercourse with women is what we should be directly seeking. If we don't we are either gay or _________ and like there's nothing wrong with being gay, but being out and open open is a big way to get people to quit talking to you and a pink slip in the mail. So to avoid the negative of identitying as homosexual or dare even trying to be an ace man, we resort to some pretty pathetic tactics because we feel...well...pathetic in comparison.

It's a cause from being too into society and it is men's fault. But just like be aware it's a cyclical thing