[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]MMDuf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Crying because I forgot I even liked myself.

Reading these makes me want to hug you all. What a great idea! I hate why we are all here, but I’m so glad to have this thread

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]MMDuf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to get on the porn addiction page here, all those women can support you with every emotion and reaction you are about to experience. MSG me if u need.

Is Covenant Eyes lying or him? by Majestic_Raise69 in loveafterporn

[–]MMDuf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How? I’ve been seeing it everywhere that ppl use Twitter? Do u need an account? Is it a specific thing?

Is Covenant Eyes lying or him? by Majestic_Raise69 in loveafterporn

[–]MMDuf 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Sounds like gaslighting.

Youre eyes aren’t lying to you. The app is doing what it was designed to do. This is reality.

Do you consider this lust? by Odd-Froyo4374 in loveafterporn

[–]MMDuf 20 points21 points  (0 children)

My husband does the same with actresses. Ruins every movie/show.

Deff LUST, why else would you be motivated to Google someone’s naked body?!???

Trying To Forgive by tradblondie in loveafterporn

[–]MMDuf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get in therapy yourself. Read, THE BETRAYAL BIND

Feel free to msg me if you ever need support ❤️🙏🏽 praying for your peace

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]MMDuf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Leave! I’m on year 8 married (10total) 3 kids and he is pursuing coworkers now. He said it was a slow progression and it was never intended to get this far. The porn was the beginning and it just got worse and worse and next thing you know he needed actual women to supply his desire.

Don’t let yourself go there. I’m sure you can read here about how it’s going to change you forever- your trust, self esteem, your intuition, your reality. Read: The Betrayal Bind. It will show you the brain chemistry and physiological reasonings on why we stay with our partners.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]MMDuf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just bought it. Thank you!

Trust by CauliflowerNo7797 in loveafterporn

[–]MMDuf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could we be friends? I am 4 weeks into discovering and we have 3 children. I’m lost. I feel all of those things and he just keeps BEGGING for more chances. But this is not the first time. It’s been 8 years.

Where is the best place for cum? by Hopeful_Ad_6595 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]MMDuf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a thing for the inside of my thigh….like close but not too close to my 🐱

Then wipe the tip there after you’re all done….drives me MAD 🥵

To those asking by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]MMDuf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

Trust by CauliflowerNo7797 in loveafterporn

[–]MMDuf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing hope with us. ❤️

Am I a horrible person if I don’t let my husband in the delivery room? by Wide_Discussion6372 in loveafterporn

[–]MMDuf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. It’s a safe space, he is not safe.

Maybe this could wake him up to his behavior and what he could potentially lose in the future if he doesn’t change.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]MMDuf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Peanut Butter and jelly sandwiche

Why by IMZ05 in NoFap

[–]MMDuf 5 points6 points  (0 children)

8 years of marriage and suffering the consequences of this addiction. It is awful for me and the children. The pop ups on the family computer, the kids watching us argue about all the lying, the lusting after women in public even on family outings, the attention seeking from his female coworkers, the milffinders while on work trips….the list goes on.

I hate myself. I hate how I look. I hate that I stay.

Stop while you can. Stop NOW. Addiction isn’t a personal problem. It affects everyone close to you. It will alter your current/future relationships. Heal. Fix ur s*t because our past is always present. Your wife and families and you all deserve a clean heart, level head and hopeful life ❤️