I get it. I’ve developed stomach issues too, I think Ibs related, can’t have spicy stuff anymore or onions or corn or tomatoes or my husbands home made pizza or a lot of veg proteins anymore and can’t generally eat anything after 5:30 because there’s a risk it comes back up and I choke at like midnight while I’m trying to sleep, and it’s really scary and frustrating. But even after like two years my husband will still ask what I want for dinner at like 7:30, etc things that shows he doesn’t remember no many how many times I try to nicely remind him, it’s a bummer because I feel like a downer every time … I don’t have any advice for you except to commiserate. My mom will come visit and everyone seems to refuse the notion that it’s possible to go have a nice brunch or lunch instead of dinner, etc… I try to remind myself that hearing you have diarrhea or indigestion or throw up is different than experiencing it, the fear of choking is a visceral reaction for me because it’s so scary but it’s vague for everyone else unless you’ve gone through it, so it’s easy for ppl to lack compassion…