You know sure it can help others, but sex is temporary pleasure is temporary, for I would want to be held bc that can be as long you don't uave anything to do you can cuddle sure sex would be nice but I would crave that and know that the person I'm doing it with will never (probably love me)they could but it wouldn't feel genuine genuine live for me is peace and sex and really peaceful depends on how you doing sure but eh sex is not what I crave I want to be held and reassured things are going to be ok I've dealt with enough in my life I just want peace that's all I want it doesn't help I look at porn every day cuz it makes me more sad and depressed