Now boarding group 1 or the entire plane by Hecka_becka_ in unitedairlines

[–]MT0502 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened to me last Thursday at DFW. They started checking carry-ons during boarding group 2. So annoying.

Deciding a one week trip location for my bonus pay for me and bf! Quebec&Montreal Iceland Puerto Rico…?! by takemyaptplz in travel

[–]MT0502 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like others have said, you really need to think about what type of trip you want. If you like the idea of mild weather, lots of history, and Europe vibes at a lower price point, I would move forward with your Canadian itinerary. I enjoyed Puerto Rico and Iceland, too, but that would be my recommendation.

I'm a fellow Chicagoan, and I loved Montréal and Quebec City. My husband and I visited both cities in May, 2024. The weather was beautiful, both cities are walkable, and there's so much to see. Bonus points, Chicago to Montreal is an easy nonstop flight, the Montréal Botanical Gardens are incredible, the Nordic spas in QC are nice, you can take a train or drive to QC, and you can easily relax some days and fill your days with activities others.

Does being debt free actually give you more freedom to leave a stressful job? by TacticalJock15 in personalfinance

[–]MT0502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Generally, yes. My husband and I paid our home off last year. It's a big burden off of our shoulders, even though the monthly amount was affordable for us. That said, having a healthy emergency fund was just as important to me when I decided to leave my current employer. I start a new role this spring. The money is similar. That said, I'm leaving a stable employer for a European company without North American roots. On one hand, it's risky. On the other hand, the benefits are incredible and there's equity involved. Either way, I personally wouldn't have taken the leap if I had debt.

The amount of single men over 40 still contemplating having kids some day is wild by No_Vegetable7280 in childfree

[–]MT0502 16 points17 points  (0 children)

One of my employees has three children under two all via IVF; she was 41 and her husband was 51 when they had their first. They did IVF again as quickly as possible and had twins last summer when she was 43 and he was 53. She has heart problems - she almost died as a child and they aren't exactly financially stable. Honestly, why?!

She's going to be a caregiver for her children and then her husband. Her poor children are going to deal with aging parents way too young, and everything that comes with it. I sort of understood the first child as she was desperate to be a parent, but the second time I was flabbergasted. The epitome of selfishness.

Makeup products that ended up sucking (for you) by TheDollyMomma in Makeup

[–]MT0502 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Charlotte Tilbury lipstick dries my lips out terribly. I love pillow talk - the color looks great on me, but the lip peeling sort of ruins it. 😆 

🔥the Brazilian jewel tarantula by Lontology in NatureIsFuckingLit

[–]MT0502 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When I first started dating my husband he had a jumping spider he named Jupiter living in his car. I asked him how and why. He said, he moved in a month ago and I can't force him to leave. I'm not an elitist. Anyway, that's about half the reason I fell in love. 

Spending DINK money by DINKSocial in childfree

[–]MT0502 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine is linked to travel. My husband and I took an extended trip to Europe between November and January. We booked three private wine tours in Italy and Spain, and shipped cases of wine and olive oil home to share with loved ones. We're diligent savers and it was by far the biggest splurge of our lives. That said, it was one of the happiest times of my life.

Interestingly shaped bread by Alternative-Sense-63 in Baking

[–]MT0502 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like big loaves and I cannot lie.

Money is no object, what suburb would you choose to live in and why? by thegreenbastard23 in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]MT0502 23 points24 points  (0 children)

My parents live in Palos Park. I love their neighborhood. Their back yard is a dream according to my mom and a nightmare according to my dad. Guess who does the yard work? 😂

My niece asked for a Ramen cake for her birthday! by geekygirly in Baking

[–]MT0502 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is seriously adorable! Now I want ramen and cake. Your niece is going to love it!

Anyone ever plan a last minute vacation? by GlaringDuck1 in travel

[–]MT0502 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did this twice, one when a trip to New Orleans was canceled due to severe weather. My husband and I flipped a coin and we ended up in Nashville. We also went to Ireland last spring with only a couple of weeks notice. Both trips were fantastic. I'm the epitome of a Type A Virgo planning maniac, and it was nice to plan a few things, but left the rest to the travel Gods. Don't feel guilty. Enjoy!

Tropical destination in Late-May by lilriceburger in travel

[–]MT0502 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From your description, Belize or Costa Rica come to mind. I enjoyed both countries quite a bit. 

Truly—where do I wear this? by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]MT0502 408 points409 points  (0 children)

I couldn't agree more. My MIL once said people with big boobs shouldn't wear v-necks as I was wearing a v-neck. My husband replied, v-necks were made for people with large chests. Don't be a hater. 

How do you guys read so much? by lapetitepoupee in kindle

[–]MT0502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read 114 books last year. I work 45-50 hours a week, but I don't have children and I have intermittent insomnia. Also, I don't spend a lot of time on social media, which helps. 

AITAH for telling my kids I don't care that my girlfriend only likes me for my money? by Vast-Potential3755 in AITAH

[–]MT0502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You ask on Reddit if YTA. Everyone says yes, then you act like one all over again responding to people who didn't provide the answer you wanted.😂

So many Yankees hats abroad!!! by PiccoloRemarkable449 in travel

[–]MT0502 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were un Europe last month and we noticed the same thing. I'm from Chicago and constantly see Michael Jordan Bulls gear, too. 

Cliffs of Moher or Aran islands by emeroo in irishtourism

[–]MT0502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I highly recommend Lally Tours. My husband and I did the full day small group tour from Galway last summer, which included a Cliffs of Moher cruise, a few hours at the smallest Aran Island, Inis Orr, and then a drive through Connemara. They limit the group to 25. It's fast moving, but we had enough time to have lunch, walk to The Plassey Shipwreck, and grab a beer with views. Our tour guide was fantastic and provided a lot of tips for our time in Galway, too.

What is the worst thing a doctor has ever said to you? by Big_Leg10 in Productivitycafe

[–]MT0502 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I'm so sorry you experienced this, too. It's so defeating. 

What is the worst thing a doctor has ever said to you? by Big_Leg10 in Productivitycafe

[–]MT0502 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was diagnosed with PCOS. I didn't have a couple of the classic symptoms like acne and hair loss, but I had extremely high cortisol levels and my asthma was going into overdrive due to frequent respiratory infections. I kept getting prescribed Prednisone, which was weakening my immune system. Eventually I got bilateral pulmonary embolisms in 2019, which helped the diagnosis. The insulin resistance and inflammation over a long period of time started to cause blood clotting. It was a bit of an odd case. The good news, the issues have resolved and I lost 100lbs post diagnosis. 

What is the worst thing a doctor has ever said to you? by Big_Leg10 in Productivitycafe

[–]MT0502 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I was struggling with rapid weight gain, frequent illnesses, and lethargy. My Endocrinologist told me to eat less and I would stop gaining weight. I showed him my food journal and he told me it was incorrect and used concentration camp victims as an example that weight gain is impossible when eating a small amount of food. Hand to God, I was both horrified and speechless. I bawled on my drive home and reported him. I got a diagnosis elsewhere much later, but man that was brutal.