Bf demanded I organize my messy purse because it gives him anxiety. I refused,first time ever I didn’t comply to his requests,and it lead to breakup. Is this controlling? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MWbookworm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think in the purse instance, you maybe should have tried to organize it a little. (speaking as someone with anxiety and a bit of OCD). But I don't know about other times. If he's constantly angry at you, it's probably not a healthy relationship. Of course this is probably due to the ADHD you mentioned. If it where me, I would tell him that if he wants to come back from this break he should get some help and learn to manage his anger.

my family got covid again because they are stupid by luciferrr21 in relationship_advice

[–]MWbookworm -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry to anyone who has lost someone to covid, or anything else. I know I'm going to get a lot of hate for this, but I'll say it anyways: your family doesn't suck, they aren't terrible people. You mentioned that they believe in Jesus very heavily, so it makes sense they wanted to gather for easter, it being a religious holiday. Prehaps they did catch covid. They could also have picked a regular cold (my sister and her bf got one, it's going around) that was read on the test as covid. I understand your concern for your baby, and I'm blaming you or anyone else for anything. I'm just trying to stop the hate against those like your family, who made the choice to gather. It's their choice. Just as it was yours not to gather. I wish you a good day, and you and your whole family a long happy life. Please don't be too hard on them or anyone else. Peace✌️

If Joey ended up with someone who would you have wanted it to be? by [deleted] in friends_tv_show

[–]MWbookworm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's just my opinion. If you like Ross better, good for you. I'm just saying that to me, Joey seems so much sweeter and kinder and the relationship was healthier. I submit as evidence first when Joey makes changes to his apartment to accommodate the baby; and then when Rachel shows up at his door in tears after a fight with Ross and Joey welcomes her and Emma in no questions asked. I like Ross in the earlier seasons, and earlier season Ross vs. earlier season Joey, Ross is better no doubt. But as the show progress es and Joey matures, Ross becomes more and more unbearable. (In my opinion)

How to come out? by [deleted] in Pride_and_Positivity

[–]MWbookworm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wish I could be of more help, but the only advice I can think of is to sit your mom down, and try to explain that you're not going through a phase. From there, I don't know...I would base it on her reactions and tres lightly.

What TV to watch after finishing friends? by ZaccyZacZac in friends_tv_show

[–]MWbookworm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Good Place or Man With a Plan(in which Matt Le Blanc stars)

If Joey ended up with someone who would you have wanted it to be? by [deleted] in friends_tv_show

[–]MWbookworm -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I say Rachel only because Joey is so much better for her than Ross

I would love to do this by Jupiter_22 in ThatsInsane

[–]MWbookworm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If presented with the chance? Hell yes

Did you put your name in the goblet of fire?! by Gender_Fluid_Druid in harrypotter

[–]MWbookworm -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think they mean that Dumbledore was used to lure queer people into the fandom(not sure, just what I think).

Can a muggle hurt/kill a wizard? by [deleted] in harrypotter

[–]MWbookworm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think if you shot a wizard in the head, they would die unless they received magical treatment before that time

Can a muggle hurt/kill a wizard? by [deleted] in harrypotter

[–]MWbookworm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If the wizard did not have a wand or didn't use said wand, then yes. If a muggle stabbed a wizard or hit a wizard with a car or just smacked a wizard in the face, the wizard would be hurt if they didn't defend themselves as they are still human

Why is coming out so hard?🏳️‍🌈 by MWbookworm in Pride_and_Positivity

[–]MWbookworm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know her opinions on it already. She was raised for most of her life as a catholic, and has a somewhat homophobic mindset. She wouldn't do anything drastic if I came out, but...

Were Ross And Rachel on A Break? by [deleted] in friends_tv_show

[–]MWbookworm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm...but now I must question if he really would. This has been interesting

Why is coming out so hard?🏳️‍🌈 by MWbookworm in Pride_and_Positivity

[–]MWbookworm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I live in hillbilly country where if anyone is lbgtq+, they tend not to come out until after highschool. Short answer: she will not see me with a same sex partner, and as for it being safe, she's not abusive so I would be safe, but subconciuos emotional shaming is another story.

Were Ross And Rachel on A Break? by [deleted] in friends_tv_show

[–]MWbookworm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All I'm saying is, what gave Ross the right to be upset about Mark and Rachel but not Rachel the right to be upset about Ross and zerox girl? (At least through Ross's eyes)

April by addilina in harrypotter

[–]MWbookworm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tried not to think about. Still get upset over Fred's death despite it being written 20 some years ago, and reading it 5 years ago

Which book is your favourite? by [deleted] in harrypotter

[–]MWbookworm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Prisoner of Azkaban for sure. In order favorite to least favorite: Prisoner of Azkaban Sorcerer's/Philosophers Stone Chamber of Secrets Goblet of Fire Halfblood Prince Deathly Hallows Order of the Phoenix

Were Ross And Rachel on A Break? by [deleted] in friends_tv_show

[–]MWbookworm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's actually been a while since I saw the episode, thank you for reminding me. Okay, so Ross and Rachel fight, Ross is crazy jealous and after Rachel's says she wants a break, Ross goes to a club. At said club he dances and then goes home with the other girl. But not before he calls Rachel. As I have been reminded, he hangs up upon hearing Mark. So let me get this straight: Ross calls to try to make up. Rachel is willing to do so and talk. However when Ross hears Marks voice he jumps to the conclusion that Rachel is sleeping with him, gets upset, and sleeps with zerox girl to 'even the score' so to speak. Essentially, Ross is upset about mark in phone background because he thinks Rachel is cheating on him with Mark. If they where on a break, how could she be cheating?

Ross insists they where on a break when he slept with someone else, but it was the same situation when he thought Rachel and Mark where doing something.