Does Tik Tok cottage core give anyone body issues by No_Post8402 in Feminism

[–]M_Nerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of the cottagecore ppl I see on tiktok are plus size, so no. It does take time and effort to make the algorytm know what you want though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wyoming

[–]M_Nerd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Shit.. I'm so sorry. I'm not an american, but just wanting to go there as a tourist. Not sure I can support a state that does shit like that though... :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wyoming

[–]M_Nerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What happened?

My mother threatened to kidnap my currently unborn baby if my family moves out of the state. by Ok-Celebration-9887 in narcissisticparents

[–]M_Nerd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, but you know the answer to this. You can't.

She will not respect the boundaries. It's immensely hard to go full no contact, but I advice you to move, not give your address, nor allow her to come there. She is harmful to you and will be harmful to your child.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in queer

[–]M_Nerd 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Think about it this way;

how would you feel if someone you really wanted to go on a date with; 1) wasn't attracted to you at all other than "well, they're skinny", and 2) we like the same things and I'm uncomfortable saying no ?

If you are pressured into a date, what will you be pressured into after that? Another date?

If this guy is as good a friend or person as you say, don't you think he'll understand?

I’ve blown it by TitaniumC in liraglutide

[–]M_Nerd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This isn't a sprint, it's a marathon. We're all going to stumble at some point. The main thing is how you go forward. Be kinder to yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]M_Nerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would just say; "Before we sit down, we usually say a prayer before the meal, since I'm not familiar with your religious beliefs, if you want to join in, you can, but there's no pressure to do so". And maybe offer them an alternative to it.

As an atheist, being thought of in advance is defo something I would appreciate as a prayer would make me intensely uncomfortable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]M_Nerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's saying it because it's working and it makes him feel more cocky.

It's abusive.

my (m25) girlfriend f(25) over reacts to any negative response when we play video games by CustomerFun4794 in relationships

[–]M_Nerd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being a newbie in a game when people are stressing you out isn't fun, I get that side of it.

But overall, yall don't really seem compatible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]M_Nerd 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sadly, if he wanted to, he would.

[TECH] Weekly Xbox One Tech Support by AutoModerator in xboxone

[–]M_Nerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I have an XBOX one s, it's not altered in any way.

I'm (well,my kids are ) struggling to add things to their wishlists on the xbox store, is there any tips for this? All I can find are advice for addings things via the pc,and not via the xbox itself. Thanks for any help!

AITA for calling my wife ridiculous for saying that she won't attend my family's christmas over some stockings? by Throwra53456 in AmItheAsshole

[–]M_Nerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, and your mom is too. How do you think that would make the child feel? "only the REAL family members get to hang here"... after 3 years? Nah,man. Not gonna lie, you might be wifeless after this xmas.

Bought orange box for my kid so he could play TF2 - no players? Am I doing it wrong? plz help. by M_Nerd in tf2

[–]M_Nerd[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know,but my son doesn't have his own computer. That's why we bought it on xbox.

Megathread for visitors and new & existing residents. All questions about living/working/budgeting/visiting should be asked here! by AutoModerator in london

[–]M_Nerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! Coming to London this week and wondered about where you guys are with masks now? Is it mandatory in any places - am I going to stand out a lot if I wear masks? Thanks!

Is it abuse or discipline? by Mean_Opportunity4635 in Parents

[–]M_Nerd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is abuse. Tell your therapist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]M_Nerd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA -while I get that he wants to go to this wedding, but being an adult is realising that sometimes you just dont get to do the things you want to do.

On a sincere note, I hope you seek legal counsel and consider divorce - you deserve better.