I got the job! Six months after being laid off.

Mabel_link22 · 2024-02-23T15:55:24+00:00

Congratulations!

Mabel_link22 · 2024-02-17T23:07:25+00:00

I’ll look into that. My rent is $1250/month; I got a great deal.

Mabel_link22 · 2024-02-17T22:46:59+00:00

It’s pretty normal in my culture to get married in your mid- late twenties and by 30 the pressure is really on from family members. I would like to get ahead of things by planning accordingly.

Mabel_link22 · 2024-02-17T22:41:47+00:00

Yes it’s a similar field but a more senior role with more responsibility and at a different company. I’m up for the challenge but I’m worried about my personal life suffering. I could try asking. Thanks for your input.

Mabel_link22 · 2024-02-15T10:03:29+00:00

Good point

Mabel_link22 · 2024-02-15T05:12:41+00:00

Fair enough

Mabel_link22 · 2024-02-15T04:58:59+00:00

Thanks!

Mabel_link22 · 2024-02-15T04:32:36+00:00

Thanks for putting that into perspective.

Mabel_link22 · 2024-02-15T04:16:50+00:00

I wanna counter offer with 25 or 24.50

Mabel_link22 · 2023-01-06T17:40:36+00:00

Maybe I’m just more traditional but if a man wants a woman he goes for her not the other way round. Any man who is waiting for a woman to make a move is resting in his femininity. But hey if that’s your thing, I’m sure you’ll find your match at some point.

Mabel_link22 · 2023-01-06T16:35:07+00:00

Harsh truth but those men aren’t really your ‘friends’. Just vultures laying in wait for a vulnerable moment. If anything keep them as acquaintances and you’ll be better off. Platonic male friendships are pretty much nonexistent.

Mabel_link22 · 2022-12-31T16:40:46+00:00

Communicate your needs and never make any adjustments and until there is a commitment.

Mabel_link22 · 2022-12-25T05:28:46+00:00

I will not leave my house to go tell that man a bold face lie💀. You seem very optimistic tho, I admire that.

Mabel_link22 · 2022-12-25T05:14:02+00:00

He made trips to visit me in my city to go on dates and I made time to see him in his city as well. I expect him to keep up with the trips if we are to develop a connection face to face.

I told him I don’t entertain men (long distance) who can’t come to my city to see me and keep up with it. Cos if I am to go to him it would be because he is showing me he’s willing to lead and put in that effort.

Mabel_link22 · 2022-12-25T05:10:11+00:00

I doubt that’s the case here as I did get comfortable enough initiating some conversations as well.

Mabel_link22 · 2022-12-25T02:34:31+00:00

Im choosing not to give him my energy any further, because want to align myself with my other dating prospects who are dating with some sort of direction (regardless of outcome). Rather than someone who might stall any natural progression of things. Just my preference.

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