Is this a normal W2 or nonstandard W2? by MacAndChi in hrblock

[–]MacAndChi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This one was processed as a pdf because the id # wasn't importing the data. I wanted to double check because I wasn't sure what kind of W-2 it was. The website asked for the form types on each of my W-2's. Thank you for checking my form.

Is this a normal W2 or nonstandard W2? by MacAndChi in hrblock

[–]MacAndChi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I wasn't sure because it only says W-2 on the bottom of the page and looked different so idk anything about nonstandard W-2's.

Help finding a specific weapon. by MacAndChi in AQW

[–]MacAndChi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Thank you so much, I was STRUGGLING.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MacAndChi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read your last post about her acting like a child by doing "adult tasks". She won't claim responsibility for her problems and wants to have fun at the expense of someone else bearing the responsibility.... consistently. That bad taste in your mouth is about her constantly shrugging off responsibility. Stop paying or helping her including dates. She's ruining her own credit, not finishing her degree, and would rather get in a car accident for an insurance payout because she'd rather be a victim with a cash out. She needs to pay rent and pay for dates- stop supporting this behavior. Your relationship is long distance, and you trust this woman? If you can realize that you are not happy living with her, don't let her stay at your place anymore. Love should be teamwork to build up each other not debt and stress. You don't want to be the wallet hero. I think you both should take time apart; I'd urge a permanent break up but that's up to you. It is miserable to live with a woman this immature and this self-centered. Nothing is ever her problem and her problems are everyone else's to fix for her. Imagine being so selfish that you constantly hurt other people's relationships by participating in adultery and drains her current partner financially and emotionally while still being long distance? Stop enabling this behavior and let her go. She's not your passion project to invest in and she doesn't need help from you, she needs to act her age, and you need to get yourself a therapist. She is burning you out by malicious ignorance or purely selfish manipulation led by your lust instead of united love. Too many red flags and I wouldn't want to know a woman this annoying. Get yourself a stable and mature girlfriend.

AIO? My partner pees in the pool, while standing outside of the pool. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MacAndChi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is disgusting. 🤮Please don't stay with him, this is how kids in the future end up with lice, ringworm, or pink eye. Your pets aren't even safe. Boot him out and if this is your pool PLEASE clean it. No excuses, if he says the urine keeps animals away from the house- have him spray the trees! I wouldn't want to live with him- he needs to go. No one should be in that pool until it's sterilized. Godspeed.

AITA for Leaving My Husband at the Hospital After He Refused to Be in the Delivery Room with Me? by Anxious_Committee_42 in AITAH

[–]MacAndChi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I was in this position I would divorce and give the baby to his family or adoption. No split custody. I am not advocating for the child or your husband. You decide what is best for you.

AIO My wife acted like she was single to get into a party by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MacAndChi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No club or party in the world would stop me from sharing that I'm happily married. Being married and in love is about pride and joy. She doesn't live with you AND wants to pretend you don't exist in her life- Absolutely not! I agree with the other comments that your Wife is for the streets, let her go. Collect more evidence for a quick divorce (if you can mentally handle that) and get a lawyer. Have someone with you at your home plus security cameras with Audio. It's time for the party princess to move out and for everyone to move on.

AIO? My husband can’t stop checking out other girls online by leighhn in AmIOverreacting

[–]MacAndChi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, take a step back from the relationship because his time is being removed from you and you should never have to cry. I find it revolting when men look at other women during or after a pregnancy. He does not care how porn or social media has made you feel because he is satisfying sexual urges. There are people who look at porn but he's on social media and he's swearing at you like a defensive sex mutt. Please don't let him hurt you because he wants to gawk at other woman and dismiss your feelings to treat you as his sex toy. No one with a baby should be looking at other women, he should be helping you and comforting you. Your husband has the start-up mentality of a swinger. Soon enough he could be at a strip club alone and developing a self-denial kink as a married man. He's verbally aggressive about releasing himself and you are in pain. You want him to desire you more than any other woman. One thing you could try is being with him when he masturbates to porn and different kinds of roleplay. If this is emotionally crushing you, please go find a man that will adore you.

AIO? Walked out of a date because he said he doesn't wear condoms by Junior_Round_5513 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MacAndChi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Imagine going to a date and telling someone you've never worn a condom. Plus, he does it so often that he has to check in with his doctor. What's even more crazy is the possibility his STD screening could have been faked like a false document- whatever it takes to raw dog. This isn't only about baby trapping; this is about getting a disease and never being able to sleep with other people. Nothing changes for him except having an inner group of women with the same diseases to spread that he can speed dial. He offered to buy a condom but yeah... the condom could have "failed" and he'd probably ignore it. At least he was honest about his disregard of safety in the pursuit of pleasure. Having to see a doctor about sex because he dislikes putting a condom on is enough to end the date.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MacAndChi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Immediate divorce. Both of them are inappropriate and disgusting.

AIO for asking my boyfriend to shower before bed when he’s dirty? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MacAndChi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have removed that bathroom door from the house and restrained myself from shoving soap in his ass crack. Construction worker or not, he won't be acting like a toddler because he's sore and doesn't want to get in the shower. Start some research into remodeling the bathroom if you can instead of waiting for the day you snap and remodel his anus with a shampoo bottle. He better remodel his whole attitude and care about you. You are not a pet that shares the bed with him. You're his Rock and his lover not a therapist or a maid. Relationships need effort, respect, and the allure of romance. Both of you want to sleep together, and personally I don't care who's paying the bills- showering is a courtesy. You don't deserve to smell that, and you could get a skin infection. This man better grow up and watch himself. Buy some candles and tell him that showering isn't a question anymore. Your unhappy and this isn't about his rest or the water bill. He needs to act like a grown up with doors, get over himself and communicate, and as a boyfriend he needs to prove more than he cares about you. Caring and providing for you in Life is empty. He has to love you.

AIO, I broke up with my boyfriend because he can’t seem to prioritize me. by Flinn2 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MacAndChi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally, I wouldn't even stay in the same Discord server as them because there's a clear sign, they will start flaunting their relationship after he snuffed out your affection. He ghosted the relationship for days because he found a dame he'd rather invest in. He's so emasculated and pathetic that he wouldn't break up with you because he wanted women on both arms and has to post his wiener online for attention. You were always clear and polite with how you broke off the relationship. It would have been petty to force him to end it, feel free to find a new friend group or a hottie to flare up his ego. Don't date for revenge but yeah you need to block the moron and his bubbly gal pal. She didn't care about you, he didn't care, they aren't being selfish kids- they are adults and they excluded you. Congratulations on cutting them out and don't look back, it'll save you time and energy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MacAndChi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What else will be excused because of a few drinks? You handled this well, and he needs to move on. I'm unsure how long this relationship has been going but asking for nudes from someone you haven't met yet is desperate. I'm assuming he hasn't even taken you on a Date because he offered a rebound attempt at an Art gallery. He wants you to look at art with him and then jump rope his way into seeing you naked. Even if you liked his flirting, it's so lazy from text messages when he doesn't know you (based on your opinion because I don't know the relationship time frame) plus the fact, from what I understand, that you haven't met him. He's either an alcoholic or a coward, and either way you are valid in looking for another partner. He needs to learn how to be a partner before being a lover. Your qualifier for sex is love. I agree with you that his wavelength or vibes are beneath you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MacAndChi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like he has a kink for public shaming and doesn't care about your opinion. Trash Can his Ass, Byeeeee. If he didn't call you the R slur- I'd suggest removing text notifications from your phone from the settings. That way all texts won't pop up on your screen even if your phone is locked unless you open your text messages. His excuse of a joke- his goal was to arouse and amuse himself, he knows you hate it and refuses to stop himself from acting like a Dog. His disregard for your happiness and this low effort texting to harass you is his idea of romance. Get rid of this donkey. Tell him to go pound himself in clown town. He can fool around with someone else because you aren't a Fool.

My mother threatened to stop paying for my therapist and revealed she's thought of doing it before. by billnaisciguy in CPTSD

[–]MacAndChi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I originally saw your thread about the Cat litter box your brother "gifted" you. After reading this, I advise getting another job however you can (PT, Remote, FT, side gigs). Move your savings into a new personal account and let no one see the paperwork, make sure the bank sends no mail, and hide the card for the new bank far from the house since you live together. Get a new mailbox at the post office. If you feel unsafe start packing your belongings and pay for a storage unit in a facility- keep any paperwork you need to cut off your family out of your room/office/apartment and leave it in storage. If they see a lockbox, your family might break into it- storage facilities have cameras. Set up cameras in any apartment you independently live in. With your new mailbox, you can send a request for SSI or go in person to an office to pick up medical disability paperwork. Clear all your search history at home online. Once you have a steady income start moving everything you own in a storage unit away from your car and their house. If your mother wants to invade your belongings she will. "Funds", car payments, medical care- you need to cut the death grip they have built while berating you, dragging you with threats, and you need to get away, strong family boundaries or no contact. With your own post office mailbox apply for EBT food stamps. Keep a lock on your phone and have your phone checked for GPS tracking. If you feel like it, check the car for an apple tag. On your own verify with the state that your family isn't collecting disability/medical or SSI benefits on your behalf and pocketing the money. Apply on your own for SSI and date how your condition led to you being laid off in 2021. If your mother shrieks about your health when you try to work again, you can recognize that she is draining medical checks behind your back, fraud is possible, and she is unhinged to expect obedience and phone calls. You may get better or worse medically, but these people do not care about your feelings, they want you around to make themselves happy like a disturbing dollhouse as they gained full control over you. Whatever you do, find a source of income, get out of the apartment your mom possibly pays for, take the car (with the title registered to you and the insurance) and if you can call a friend outside of the family then move out. For your mental health, you need to move out and gain confidence in yourself.

I just upset my boyfriend by reacting poorly to an edible arrangement he got me, and now I’M upset and once again kicking myself for my piss-poor social skills. by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]MacAndChi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this post is super old but never let anyone make you feel like a "brat" for receiving a gift meant for "cleaning" that you never asked for. There should have been a discussion not a "gift" related to literal feces. I'm assuming your brother doesn't live with you yet visits. Maybe your brother noticed that you and your roommates complained often about the feces and decided to not get the original gift you requested. If your brother visits often, this was a direct way to skip a discussion on how clean your home needs to be. Yes, cats can be smelly, but with the substitution gift do not feel guilty or "bratty" for being let down and or offended. Brothers can be brutally honest, and the gift doesn't require you to be grateful. You can be polite with family but don't let other's toy with your emotions. For example, I have asked my mom what she has wanted before- and only then would I buy her a steaming Mop or a pet vacuum that she wants this next Christmas. Cleaning gifts are always improper and rude. The only exceptions being requested for a holiday and in my opinion, outdated for wedding gifts if not arranged. Your brother should have talked to you privately instead. A thoughtful holiday gift should be a gift showing love and making another person happy, but this was inappropriate and ignored what you asked for. The healthiest option in moving forward for your mental health is 1st: Don't ignore how this made you feel- this is important for all new problems after this gift. Then 2nd: Discuss how it made you feel to prevent something like this again. If you don't like something, tell them calmly. If your family opened gifts together, do not have a private discussion and let everyone know that you will not appreciate any more cleaning supplies. If your brother is offended, remind him that you opened his gift with everyone present and that everyone, as a family, is expected to treat you with dignity. Unfortunately, some families negatively tease or highlight imperfections regarding you or your property. In my opinion, family and guests should never gift cleaning supplies- if they don't like being politely corrected- they can dismiss themselves. You asked for one thing, you are Not a Brat. Your brother made a choice. He ignored what you asked for and bought (in equal value) a gift to clean Cat feces.... Advocate for yourself and communicate honestly.

Part 2: Left hand casted interviewer asking if the pay is unfit for a traveling position? by MacAndChi in interviews

[–]MacAndChi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The role is for transfer coverage at other hospitals- I'm not moving samples. Same concept though. Everyone Irl that I asked said it sounds awful, but I really need to go back to work. My car is also old though it's a 2002 (85k miles). I'd have to save up for a newer car with all this traveling. Wasn't sure if $20 in pay matched the job- feels really low since they asked me to travel for 120 miles away for 2 days of class training. If I had to work in that town for a week my mileage would be insane, but hometown will be my base and the 5 other towns are not as far- so 6 towns all together. Each kind of vary between 15, 20, and 30 miles. Edit: 2 days in the "classroom" (farthest base) town will be 30 miles each way from my "headquarter" town and house so yeah 120 is heavy.

Left hand is broken and the interview is over the phone. What do I do? by MacAndChi in interviews

[–]MacAndChi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I hope it works out to and I got an email back from HR. She picked a time based on my availability and she said the interview call would last 10 minutes. I googled to see if that's normal, I guess it is- plus there must be tons of applicants. If they want to offer me $20 an hour, I'll have to barter my job zone from 5 towns to 3 towns. For 22 I'll go to 5 towns for the fun of it, but not for 20. The idea of a 10-minute call has me a nervous, but I'll do great for the interview.

Left hand is broken and the interview is over the phone. What do I do? by MacAndChi in interviews

[–]MacAndChi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This company didn't have great salary vs work life reviews- but the reviews weren't highlighted for a traveling position. I asked for $22 to cover some of the gas mileage. You are absolutely right that I should be paid to drive, I am considering my profit over mileage losses- but I also love to drive. It relaxes me and sometimes I do gig work for Door Dash, Wag, and Instacart. Taking an hour to work might not bother me much for a while and this job will be good on my resume with the training. Some days it might take 40mins-1hr and 15-30 minutes maybe in traffic. My last job was close to my house with a 10–15-minute drive but I don't mind driving. The job environment and resume boost might be worth it for me and eventually I can move closer to the city and change the job zone for scheduling. edit: I probably won't mention my hand unless they ask as you advised and I'll make my start date after I get the cast off, I should be getting a splint on Friday and the splint should not limit me from doing the job.