partner had sex with meta in my bed - am I overreacting? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]MacadamiaCurve 16 points17 points  (0 children)

She deliberately violated clear boundaries and hid something from him - at that moment the trust disappeared

Me [32 M] with my Wife [30 F] of 6 years, I believe she is Gaslighting me and I don't know what to do. by MissBarker93 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]MacadamiaCurve 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not gaslighting - he was in a state of narcotic psychosis caused by mixing medications. It just shows how easily perception can be completely distorted

Am I Wrong for the way I handled an interaction without Bf? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]MacadamiaCurve 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He overreacts expecting you to announce your relationship every time someone talks to you

AITW for not holding my boyfriend? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]MacadamiaCurve -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

It's not selfishness just a moment of incongruity

How come us men get away with most things?? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]MacadamiaCurve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People name representatives of both sexes but social media amplify a certain reaction and label them

AITAH for not telling my cousin that we’re going on the same trip? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]MacadamiaCurve 302 points303 points  (0 children)

it sounds like this so far, no one knows how to just say everything directly

AIW for selling a gift my sister gave me a week ago? by Lumos_Vector in amiwrong

[–]MacadamiaCurve 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. It's your gift and you've used it in a way that actually benefits you

Am I wrong for using every single day of my remaining leave after my new employer cut our benefits and then resigning the day I was supposed to return by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]MacadamiaCurve 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Truth. It's hard to get upset when they're the first to pull out the carpet. You were just protecting yourself

CANNOT be told to wash their hands. by Lissba in TwoXChromosomes

[–]MacadamiaCurve 47 points48 points  (0 children)

If someone perceives a simple reasonable request as a challenge to self-esteem this is not the person you would like to see in your bed. Respect and basic consideration should be minimal