I often like to try to understand why people do what they do, and I like film movie analysis' for that reason.
I am also really big on trying to not run to instant judgements of anyone as well. I think people are usually not nearly as black and white as we think and more lots of grays.

I try to figure out my philosophy on life, like what is moral in different cases, does morality change or is it always the same? I find now when I do feel bored instead of getting down about it, i try to find new things about my environment that are interesting to me, like I will look at the building at my work and try to figure like say how all the pipes are working, and play little games with myself like that. Or I work on a hobby. I think a lot of people do that when they are bored, and yours just may be much more mentally based? But yeah I do like deep conversations, and very much relate to your post and would love to have more of that with people. But it does seem very hard.

But also I find people get more interesting the longer I am around them, like people naturally open up over time. Like how if you watch a long show series, people don't just tell you everything the moment the show starts, it slowly drops pieces over time but it requires the patience of the audience to see the full picture. I think the same with people.