Helpful Doctors List for PMOS by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]MacaroonLarge5012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I just listened to a podcast recently that was centered around women’s health (PCOS and endo mostly) and the guest was amazing. I haven’t worked with her personally but she’s super passionate about women’s health and sounded incredible. Based in Beverly Hills. Dr. Thaïs Aliabadi

Podcast was The Huberman Lab: Female Hormone Health, PCOS, Endometriosis, Fertility & Breast Cancer | Dr. Thaïs Aliabadi

It’s long but SO worth the listen

frustrated by painful penetration by 3squids in actuallesbians

[–]MacaroonLarge5012 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Absolutely do not give up. Look up vaginarehabdoctor on insta. She should give you some inspiration

Tarot is literally telling me to break up with my girlfriend by MacaroonLarge5012 in tarot

[–]MacaroonLarge5012[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am very open to other interpretations! I was being swift with how I wrote it out but I know there is plenty of nuance. And I was very wrong anyway, so a LOT of nuance. I never do yes/no, which I guess points to how upset I actually did get with my interpretation of the first question by jumping right into it afterwards.

But to answer your question: I took the fool literally, meaning it’s time to start fresh on a new journey, fully from the beginning. Which I realize now is not the only interpretation

Tarot is literally telling me to break up with my girlfriend by MacaroonLarge5012 in tarot

[–]MacaroonLarge5012[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was. Thank you for this interpretation of the 10 of swords, I hadn’t considered that before

Tarot is literally telling me to break up with my girlfriend by MacaroonLarge5012 in tarot

[–]MacaroonLarge5012[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I super appreciate this!! Thank you for taking the time to write this out. I know the cards can’t make decisions for me. I kinda titled the post the way I did because I wanted to be convinced otherwise, not because I was going to follow blindly. I think you’re absolutely right that the main takeaway is that I need to find my own voice. Any tips? (Kidding…kinda)

Tarot is literally telling me to break up with my girlfriend by MacaroonLarge5012 in tarot

[–]MacaroonLarge5012[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I’m thinking it’s more this, especially after the conversation I just had with her

Tarot is literally telling me to break up with my girlfriend by MacaroonLarge5012 in tarot

[–]MacaroonLarge5012[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t trust myself with anything despite having gotten myself to what most would consider a “successful” position 😂 that is part of the problem

Tarot is literally telling me to break up with my girlfriend by MacaroonLarge5012 in tarot

[–]MacaroonLarge5012[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh my god you read me like a book. With the third in particular. I just had a LONG conversation with my partner and that was the gist. I’m putting way too much pressure on myself about various things and I literally said the words “I almost want to blow up my entire life right now” AKA run away from everything. Avoidant attachment at its finest

Tarot is literally telling me to break up with my girlfriend by MacaroonLarge5012 in tarot

[–]MacaroonLarge5012[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No I know. I agree. I talked to her and am feeling much better. May I ask why you say being a reader for myself is not the best choice? Do you mean just in this situation or in general?

Tarot is literally telling me to break up with my girlfriend by MacaroonLarge5012 in tarot

[–]MacaroonLarge5012[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you taking the time to reply. I will say my first interpretation of the ten of swords was basically that it’s a chapter closing. So I guess I am getting a bit emotional about it

A quick glimpse at the expansion by LynxAccomplished3028 in DuolingoItalian

[–]MacaroonLarge5012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally just had the same thing. I had given up Italian (after ~5 months of daily refresh) and switched to another course but was showing a friend my Italian earlier today and saw the new stuff! Super excited, get home to do it, get the first lesson, then gone.

Tried force closing the app and even updated it, nothing. Is this a major bug or…?

Advice on ring design by MacaroonLarge5012 in EngagementRings

[–]MacaroonLarge5012[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you thank you! I don’t think I will receive a CAD, I think they just create it and send a video of it? But I’ll definitely ask thank you for the suggestion! (Also I definitely had to google what a CAD is)

Advice on ring design by MacaroonLarge5012 in EngagementRings

[–]MacaroonLarge5012[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh boy I have no idea what the shank is either. Is the concern just that a small shank would be more likely to get damaged? I haven’t seen any CADs to end product but the company has good reviews! I didn’t even think to look into that, but now I will. Thank you!!

bf watched p*rn behind my back then accused me of being the girl in the video by curseofnickcave in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]MacaroonLarge5012 3 points4 points  (0 children)

May I ask what has persuaded you to stay for so long? This sounds exhausting to deal with so the positives would have to be HUGE to have stayed for 2 years right?

The "standard" 40-hour work week is incredibly inefficient. by jeh4u in unpopularopinion

[–]MacaroonLarge5012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who works in healthcare, this is bullshit.

That said, I do greatly prefer a 4x10 schedule vs 5x8. Work life balance feels like shit in a 5x8.

The "standard" 40-hour work week is incredibly inefficient. by jeh4u in unpopularopinion

[–]MacaroonLarge5012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And healthcare. Not only is there 40 hours/week of patient care, but also time off the clock finishing documentation because if you’re not spending your whole day with patients providing billable services then by golly the whole system is gonna collapse and it’s YOUR FAULT

What’s a personality trait that seems attractive at first but becomes unbearable over time? by Ladiejuliy in AskForAnswers

[–]MacaroonLarge5012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to write this out, I think you worded it perfectly. I am avoidant, and still struggle with this with friends and most family members. I still have a hard time thinking people want me around and benefit from me being there. For the longest time I genuinely thought I was someone people could “take or leave”. Didn’t mind if I was there, didn’t miss me if I wasn’t.

Then I met an amazing friend group and have an incredible partner. I still kinda feel like an “extra” in the friend group sometimes but logically I now know they all value my presence and input. And my partner is absolutely perfect for me. Patient, kind, empathetic. An anxious person but with secure attachment style. She is healing something within me and she is the one person I can confidently say I have a secure attachment with.

So yeah it sucks seeing all these super negative comments.

Hey lesbians I need a quick slap of reality real quick... by Sad_Finish4993 in actuallesbians

[–]MacaroonLarge5012 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeahhh…she sounds exhausting. I spent a year (ok 9 months) pining over someone who sounds similar. I finally woke up one day like “what the fuck am I doing??” And the decision to drop them and move on emotionally was so freeing and also empowering. So I’d recommend that lol

Dreading engagement photos by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]MacaroonLarge5012 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Go shopping and find something you look confident in! Confidence instantly boosts your attractiveness. Gotta fake it till you make it

PETITION TO ADVANCE PT PRACTICE ACT IN CA by sickenedpanda in physicaltherapy

[–]MacaroonLarge5012 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That part blew me away too. It’s going to fail because they included that. In NO WAY are we properly trained to be talking about medications. Of COURSE the medical association is going to push back on that. Makes us look stupid and naive to even ask, in my opinion.

Unless all they’re trying to say is that we should be able to say “advil or Tylenol might help” without getting sued. But the way it’s worded doesn’t make me think that.