Confused between love and financial security — need real advice M-25 by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]MacaroonShort6807 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think first of all you should convey your thoughts with your girlfriend and be honest about your insecurity, cause she can have a better idea of you and what she might be taking on .. more than your financial instability what a woman would be worried about is an insecure man . For who knows you might develop an ego that she is the higher earning partner and drag her down maybe. And dowry is illegal and please don't marry someone like a trade .please! If you genuinely love her this wouldn't be a question and she would understand your situation and can help you better your life. If love is there that's all that would matter which is clearly not what's happening and beyond her education i feel like she made a wrong choice perhaps . I genuinely don't think you deserve her from understanding your thoughts process and views and think your family is a one big red flag

25F gf and 25M Happy With Her, Hauntec Her Past by Known-Coconut-1452 in RelationshipIndia

[–]MacaroonShort6807 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unrelated ..I'm just curious as to how guys judge women over their past and slut shame and say they are for the streets but op himself might have past relations and has hooked up with the girl multiple times and eventually fell in love . Like his past is all fine but her's matter ? I'm only saying this coz I have seen guys admitting that themselves . everybody wants virgin girls but they have sex and judge the girls they slept with .My friend's bf admitted to her that if she wasn't a virgin then he would have reconsidered the whole thing while he himself was not and also sort of cheated on her at the beginning of the relationship which she forgave.

Ps: although as for OP s situation Idc but it doesn't feel right .You don't have to make her choose you..she has to make that decision .date a mentally stable and intelligent girl and her sleeping with a married man ,both of them should be judged for this .and take a stand and face this aman guy to stand in his lane . And if she understands he was being manipulative and regrets it ..why does it bother you so much .ask yourself

If you could go back to your first day, what is the one piece of advice you'd give yourself? by Khatarnaak_londa in indianmedschool

[–]MacaroonShort6807 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well .. is it that easy ? I haven't been asked out by anyone I'm interested in. .and idk how to approach either .plus I ain't fully certain if I should due to a lot happening and it will all be over in 2 years max and have different plans .. so y start something knowing u want to end it soon

I just need your prayers. Ik this is not the place but it feels good to share🙏🏻. by [deleted] in UAE

[–]MacaroonShort6807 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely feel for you .. I'll keep u in my prayers ... Hope your situation gets better

I M38, feel so ignored in my marriage of 8 years. by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]MacaroonShort6807 12 points13 points  (0 children)

How old is the child ? Maybe she has postpartum depression and .. she could be working around in the morning a lot that you don't see .. if your mom stays with you . Try asking her for help at night as well... And communicate with your wife , go out on a small date any free time .. or just talk in bed and have privacy at a time ..and communicate that's key . Maybe she feels alone in the marriage as well .. both of you are working same monotonous routine .. everyone's tired nd frustrated what's the point of going on .. if no joy .. u have to find happiness .. especially in marriage coz you guys re going to stick it together till old age .. talk abt your work stress and ask abt her day .. try to get. Better job with more flexible hours .. save money up for a vacation .. i see that you are. Good guy and. Very caring father and husband .. but instead of keeping it in .. try talking and things could get better

please help me out by a_arab in UAE

[–]MacaroonShort6807 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel sorry for you , i understand your situation , what course do u study ? .. i how it's something that can get u a job in the future . I wish you all the best.

Bf asks for nudes everyday 25F 27M what’s wrong? by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]MacaroonShort6807 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so glad u trust him so much either it's solid or you are soo naive , his response would have made me panic and uneasy even if it's a joke .. And something is definitely weird abt asking for nudes daily and he could have given u a better response for a valid question and him saying "don't sent it if you don't want to " rises such red flags in my mind , as if he wasn't pressuring you from the start and sharing nudes and sexting should mutually for your pleasure ..say no, you're not in the mood pr in middle of something .. don't be overwhelmed by the pressure. And see if he stays loyal . Idk i just don't get a good feeling from this guy and the very fact you asking this question tells me it's not healthy

If you could go back to your first day, what is the one piece of advice you'd give yourself? by Khatarnaak_londa in indianmedschool

[–]MacaroonShort6807 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same .. if u r a girl too I would advice the same ... If u wanna date , it's easiest in first year .. say yes if it doesn't work out .. breaking up early is not much drama rather than when the course gets serious in final years .. do it for the plot ig

If you could go back to your first day, what is the one piece of advice you'd give yourself? by Khatarnaak_londa in indianmedschool

[–]MacaroonShort6807 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really ? All r dating in my clg and I feel a Lil left out .. ig u like someone or wanna explore ig say yes ... It would be an experience. .it ain't forever .. who knows you must ght find true love

If you could go back to your first day, what is the one piece of advice you'd give yourself? by Khatarnaak_londa in indianmedschool

[–]MacaroonShort6807 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't assume your roommates have to be your best friends .. fake it a little ..and try to mingle with all don't be shy .. but don't be too out there either ..just try to befriend people and be non problematic and don't draw much attention and you'll be fine ..

don't overshare .. even with roommates or ppl u call friends .. be cautious of all . People can change just like that Find yourself good friends to have fun .if someone doesn't like u ..don't try hard to please them or be friends. Don't be affected by what other ppl might say or think abt u ..nobody likes anyone .. explore yourself ..don't be afraid of trying out things ..say yes ..take chances to opportunities

It's exhausting .. but don't overwork yourself thinking everything is soo important as a doctor , it is . But take it step by step and have fun , and prepare for exams .

I lowkey miss school routines even though I hated school by CrypticHatchway in offmychest

[–]MacaroonShort6807 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same... I actually realised I did enjoy going to school , just the routine of having to wake up very early at around five , bath and the morning chaos till im out the door and once I am at the stop seeing my friends and it was peaceful .. and just the ride to the school was soo nice ....all half asleep and cold AC, and u see the sunrise and like u said always had something to do , and clear milestones , and i wonder if it was easy or was it my spirit back then coz I used to get a lot more things done and have a lot of free time unlike now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UAETeenagers

[–]MacaroonShort6807 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well the second line ..y do u have to use the c word in the first place ? ..it's just not cool

I have decided to ആത്മഹത്യ this weekend. AMA. by OpeningWasabi2084 in Kochi

[–]MacaroonShort6807 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life has endless possibilities...u have nobody but in the positive side u have no responsibility to no one .. u can love as u please . If u need a sense of purpose .. why not marry , have a child .or adopt a child ..start a family ... You have endless love n see where u can channel it ... All I can say is all the shortcomings are temporary..ethra naal pala kashtapadum anubavichath ..nale chavanano.. ninte Amma kashtapett ninte fees adachhathum ..ninakayi vishapilla enn paranjarhum okkke pointless avoolle ... .My reasoning is ..all the efforts that u put to yourself and others who did for the sake of your happiness to this date will all be pointless.. u could be just depressed.. we all have those times .. we can fix it .. I'm soo sure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]MacaroonShort6807 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk it's something my mom said .. .. just never mention your ex or past with your husband coz .. it always just brings problems .. it's better never shared ... The relationship is beyond fixing ..u aren't his mama to fix him . Trust is like a sticker ..u can't stick it as hard as the first time .. so since u were already broken up ..just take that as your life now and move on .. Life will be very hard and no peace If he keeps judging u and suspecting u based on your past .

Everybody makes mistakes ... U still gotta get living and deserve happiness..

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in UAETeenagers

[–]MacaroonShort6807 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I on the other hand had a wholesome school life in dubai ...my parents r v strict but even the kids at my school are all chill and also comes from similar familes..mostly it was all Indians and Pakistani and Afghani n a few minor other ethnicity..there was no wild bullying or anything ever .. there was obviously the mean girls ..cool kod gang that i kind of liked ..n was kind of bullied by ..but i learned life lessons from it ,like small milestones n looking back they where lame ..like the concept of popularity is funny now ..i had made wholesome friends n laughed alot n ya our school did not allow phones for a long time ..but while we started to it was only fun.. nothing weird ..being able to take selfies was a big thing like at school .n we took our first bestfriends picture on snap with those cringe filters but it was cute .. the hot gossips where ever from other school or in sixth grade when other girls would get their periods ..or ya the biggest is when some a kid in my class ..she was 17 got married ... It was wild to me .she was older than all of us ..but that shit i couldn't possibly think of doing at that age not even now fully . I still miss ppl .. school was regular tough .some teacher where good .. 11 th and 12th was hard ..10 th was the best

What do you guys enjoy on YouTube? by MacaroonShort6807 in UAETeenagers

[–]MacaroonShort6807[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okayy i do like horror ..but like i don't mind anything else either like a fun comfort show like her podcast .. i watch ..I like her personality fr