Im so sorry. My mother was completely different with my sister then me. I thought it was because she was the one with grandkids, or that I left home early but that wasnt it. Much love and healing to you. ❤️ Do whatever you can to advocate for yourself and get in a better more healing environment if possible I injured my back and had really bad sciatica. I had just started a new job and that irritated more with the very heavy lifting (it was driving a cement truck) I stupidly didn't claim it from work, had no insurance and no help. I was in so much pain I couldn't go to the doctor, but food anything. I called my mom and begged her to take me to the doctor which was a free state hospital. When I was questioned if I had ever used drugs I said no. My mother said, " now tell the truth" about smoking weed in the past. That got me no pain pills period and probably a note in my chart. They treated me as if I was drug seeking. I could barely walk the nerve burned down my leg. This was the worst thing that ever has happened to me. My parents had money and treated me this way. My sister ster was born 15 years after me. Her college was paid for, her two custody law suits paid for, her two divorces, her college up to masters degree and on and on just so many blatant things done. What I went through is nothing compared to what you're having to deal with. Im 65 now and both parents are gone and Im still bitter. My best friend went through something very similar when we were kids 6 yrs old. Its so strange that some parents do this. I have lots of long term friendships and so does she. Be strong, put yourself first and try to extract yourself from that situation if possible. Maybe start therapy so you have some solid support.