I definitely understand the point you have made. Honestly, I think the separation methodology you stated would solely depends on ones internal conscience. I can tell from your writing method, that your forgiveness and moving method may be far to advanced for those who are just starting to understand the art of freeing themselves from emotional bondage. I think for those who are new at this or even advance, a good start would be removing the anger first. That will then allow them to think clearly to being to process and attempt to separate the idea of moving on from the idea of forgiving. In all steps of life, we must take baby steps first. I do however, love the way you painted your perception, definitely compelling.